hey..let me start off by saying that my name is kaykay(as the friends call me) and i am your average 14 year old girl. i love to play sports, but conflicts with my family and friends often get in the way-thats why i have a page here..to let go. ill be in need of tons of advice (so be ready!), but ill also be willing to put a lot of effort into answering some of your questions as well..bye for now!!
Website: Hey! How can i help??
Gender: Female
Location: schaumburg
Occupation: school
Age: 14
AIM: o24kaykay24o
Member Since: April 20, 2006
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How can I lose weight (at least 8pounds) in 3 weeks! I've gained almost 10 pounds over the summer(here in our country) and school's gonna start in 3 weeks already. I don't wanna show up in school looking so-not-like-me the last time they saw me. Please give me tips on how to lose weight fast!
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cut out all fats and sweets from your diet, substitute water for soda, and weight train (building muscles is the fastest way to burn calories--but dont worry, you wont look like arnold schwartzenager)-(dunno if i spelled tht right). good luck!!
-doctorkay-
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My b/f got me a promise ring ( a ring that promises you will marry them) well anyways we got in this fight and we broke up well I gave back the ring and now he is going out with this new girl named kerisa well today i was talking to her and she was wearing the ring and she started showing it off to me what should i do? (link)
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u should not be worrying about that, gurlie-bc obviously he is a player who thinks he can get any girl he wants with a "so-called" promise ring and a bunch of bullshit that makes the girl give themselves over...NU UH!! uve got to play him right by paying no attention watsover-yes it is sad(id be crying over it) but you cant show that on the outside..be strong-and just wait bc im sure that girl will be filling in your current position soon enough..when you think youve found the one(and that will take a lot of guys), youll know--when its not about the gifts, but about the love that you share and you dont have to even say it..you just both Know it exists..ull know when--well i hope i helped cheer your spirits, hes just another immature little boy who cant handle a lady like you..like i said be strong..and good luck!!
-doctorkay-
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Ok i play basketball and i like to get pimped up before i play so i listen to music. So any "pumping" up music? it can be anything rap, rock, punk?
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we run this..by missy elliot
ms new booty..by bubba sparxxx
bet you cant do it like me..d4l
encore..by eminem
99 red balloons..by goldfinger
hood hoppin..by jkwon
headsprung..by ll cool j
gossip folks..by missy elliot
pass that dutch..by missy elliot
missy elliot..by missy elliot
air force ones..by nelly
na-nana-na..by nelly
grillz..by nelly/paul wall
temperature..by sean paul
shake..by ying yang twins/pitbull
badd..by mike jones
get down hit the floor..twist/pitbull
just a few suggestions from my itunes list..hope youll like some of em!!
-doctorkay-
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well i have asked a question on how i can be more outgoing cause its affecting my ability to be able to make friends. well i try to be interesting but no one seems to like me. like i see people in the halls at school saying "want to come over my house" or "Want to go bike riding" no one ever asks me that, is it because i'm boring? what can i do to make people want me as their friend? and how can i keep friend? i am really desperate for help. :( i have like one kind of best friend and she never even asks me to do stuff! she doesnt even invite me to her parties! and please dont say "why dont you ask THEM" (link)
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im afraid to tell you that kids these days (teens in particular) wont go running up to some person asking for them to hang out..not in this century.
since people have probably already made their groups and 'cliques', they wont really be looking for anybody else..you have to grab their attention by popping up a question - maybe you have something in common with the other kid..the best advice i can give you is to get involed!!
join a sport, club, or some other great activity and i am sure you will find someone (whether it be your other half or just an 'aquatance') i sure met a ton of cool kids my age that way..i made myself a part of something along with many others.
if you dont know how to start..try to find out what you like to do, and stick to those hobbies!! this may sound corny, but wear a cute new shirt youve made on your sewing machine..and maybe youlll attract someone wholl ask you where you got it...(soon to find out that you magically crafted it yourself)(that way you may find some other kids that like to design clothing too)..
most of all though-be proud of who you are and create yourself to however it may fit your personality..but DO NOT fake just to try and impress someone..youll get tired of acting like someone youre not, so just remember to act natural..i hope you can use my advice-and good luck at making those friends!!!
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