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I am so hurt


Question Posted Friday May 19 2006, 11:44 pm

My b/f got me a promise ring ( a ring that promises you will marry them) well anyways we got in this fight and we broke up well I gave back the ring and now he is going out with this new girl named kerisa well today i was talking to her and she was wearing the ring and she started showing it off to me what should i do?

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bound_heart answered Saturday May 20 2006, 10:55 pm:
I'm sorry, but a ring that promises marriage is called an engagement ring. To me, a promise ring is something different.

Anyway... really, you gave the ring back to him, it's his to do with as he pleases. Sorry about that. Does the new girl know he gave you the ring first? If not, and it were me? I'd let her know. I know if I were in her position, I wouldn't want someone else's ring.

Just my two cents.

Good luck,
bound

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askclaire75 answered Saturday May 20 2006, 9:19 pm:
Trust me. Screw him. He is not worth hit if he is too cheap to use the same ring on two girls. Just forget about him and move on. Hes just trying to make you jealous. Don't let him.
--claire

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perfectly_unperfect answered Saturday May 20 2006, 1:24 pm:
how old are you?


well this guys a BEE-ESS-ER skrew him, trust me just get over it

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NotMeanJustHonest answered Saturday May 20 2006, 9:02 am:
No offense but are you like 13-16? If you are then you are soooo overreacting about this. He's just trying to make you jealous. I would get another boyfriend and make HIM jealous. It works. ♥

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Mr_Skittles answered Saturday May 20 2006, 1:28 am:
Well... you did give him the ring back... so he did have the right to give it to another person; considering you did break the promise.

The only thing you can really do is move on and talk to someone else. He isnt' at a wrong here.

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DoctorKay answered Saturday May 20 2006, 12:55 am:
u should not be worrying about that, gurlie-bc obviously he is a player who thinks he can get any girl he wants with a "so-called" promise ring and a bunch of bullshit that makes the girl give themselves over...NU UH!! uve got to play him right by paying no attention watsover-yes it is sad(id be crying over it) but you cant show that on the outside..be strong-and just wait bc im sure that girl will be filling in your current position soon enough..when you think youve found the one(and that will take a lot of guys), youll know--when its not about the gifts, but about the love that you share and you dont have to even say it..you just both Know it exists..ull know when--well i hope i helped cheer your spirits, hes just another immature little boy who cant handle a lady like you..like i said be strong..and good luck!!

-doctorkay-

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CiNdYLoUwHoO answered Saturday May 20 2006, 12:33 am:
Because you too aren't going out anymore, I wouldn't do anything. It would just show the girl you are jealous. If I were you, I wouldn't say anything to the girl, because I agree with the person below me, it would just cause drama. Obviously this guys a real player, he has already given that ring to two girls. I wouldn't be surprised how many girls have and will wear that ring. Thinking this will hopefully give you some dignity. Hope this helps.
-cindy <3

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Sherry answered Saturday May 20 2006, 12:18 am:
You can do two things. 1)Dont do anything, your not going out with him anymore. 2) You could tell her that he gave you the same exact ring, but I think that'll just cause a whole lot of drama. Do what you want =)

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