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making out with my boyfriend
15 in 9 days/f
well when me and my boyfriend make out.. its not that i dont really like it.. i mean i try to.. and i tell him i do.. but honestly its not like amazing. i know that im the first girl hes made out with. and like his kisses are a little too wet for me.. and he goes a little too fast and too fast into the kiss. like i want to kiss a little first before he actually puts his tounge in my mouth.. but he just like puts it in right away and keeps it in there like the whole time and like i cant even put mine in his mouth because his is in mine the whole time. like its apparent that he doesnt really know what hes doing. but i love him and weve been going out for like 9 months and hes great with everything else but i just dont know what to do about this. like i dont wanna tell him.. but like i dont wanna not enjoy it and have to lie too! Is there like a way i can like lead the kiss so i can have it how i want it?? HELP!
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you can just talk to him and tell him you want to try a different way of making out that you heard about from your friends, you don't even have to mention that hes a bad kisser.
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while his tounge is in your mouth, gentally take the tip of your tounge and guide it back into his mouth. keep doing this until he gets the picture.
if you really dont like it, you should talk to him. make sure to be sweet, and tell him that you enjoy kissing, but you dont want to be frenched right now.
if it is really fast, you try to slow it down. if it is too wet, you can try to be a good example, and not. he eventually will get better!!
hope that helped, and good luck!! :-D
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Tell your boyfriend that you dont like how he kisses. Tell him to follow you. Then kiss. Again, if you dont like it, tell him how you feel. He will hopefully understand how you feel. The good thing is that you love him and want him to get it right. You must become very patient. Good luck!
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Haha, I kinda had the same problem the first time I made out with my boyfriend. Only, technique didn't really click with us, instead of not knowing what we were doing.
You just have to talk to him about it nicely, that's what I did, now when we make out it's how I like it, haha.
Just say after you guys kiss how you feel about it, and tell him how you would like to kiss. If he gets embarrassed, don't let him be, just comfort him. Say something like, "Aw it's okay, I just would like to try something different and to see how I like it."
Hope I helped!
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ok well I hate it when that happens but just sit down and talk to him tell him that thats not "the right way" he'll be ok with it they always are.
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