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What can I do?
Has anyone ever felt such a strong physical pain left mentally by someone else? My ex boyfriend used to be everything, my superhero. He moved out to Rhode Island for me but it completely changed him. Our whole year of amazing love has turned into me being dirt in his eyes. We've had problems just like everyone else but we were always there for eachother. When he came here he started to fall into other girls and once he got a job and his own place to live it was like he was completely done with me. I feel so used but I don't want to believe it I want to believe in the guy I once knew. Its tearing me apart literally to the point of hyperventalation. Nothing I do can remind him of our promises nothing I say can change his heart and my heart can't accept that. How can I get his hurtful image out of my head?
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You have to live with it for the rest of your life, its not something that goes away in a year or so. I take all my pain and suffering and put it into anger and hate, all that suppressed rage is getting to me more and more every day. I had so much build over these years that it changed me as a person. You have to just let it go, give your mind a touch of "who gives a shit?" Once you have enough of that in your head everything else that could happen wont even leave a scratch on you. I dont know if any of that helps you but thats what i did.
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so this just recently happened to me not with a bf but a best friend well... i found tim and prayer are the only things that could possably help and well just keep ur head up and hold in there
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As they say, "Time heals all wounds."
Sadly, there isn't a magic potion that makes the hurt go away or a spell to tell us how to live again.
The only advice I can give you is to slowly go about your normal life. Hang out with girlfriends. Take up hobbies, join clubs.
cheers,
stargirl
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Yes, I think I know the feeling. You have been through a major loss and it feels like a death, like part of you was ripped out. This will pass and you will move on. Believe that every moment is a new moment and a new beginning. You will have many more opportunities for love, but only when you are able to let the image of what was slip away. Get outside and walk in the fresh air and sunshine. Go see a friend. Adopt a pet. Do something nice for someone less fortunate. These things help our hearts heal and bring oxygen to your soul, which needs your love and attention right now. Focus on your love for others and for your own well-being everyday. Bless you on your journey.
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