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self-inuring


Question Posted Wednesday October 3 2007, 9:50 pm

how do i bring up to my family and friends that ive been lieing to them about not self-injurying anymore?

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military45 answered Friday October 5 2007, 3:18 pm:
Well think about it the same way you did the last time. If who ever is the closest you, you should tell first. Like for me it was my mom so just tell them the same way you did the first time. G2g srry
Allie

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Roxy07 answered Thursday October 4 2007, 1:55 am:
I think this is a brave thing for you to do! Well done :)

It's not really something that you can say in a certain way, your friends and family will react the same way no matter how many times you think you can tell them.

I would probably pick the family member or friend that you are closer to and tell them. You need to make them understand that it isn't an easy thing to just get over or to give up!!

Them perhaps after you have their support you can tell everyone else! That way everyone isn't making a big fuss all at the same time!

Although.. you might have to prepare yourself because others might not take it as well as some people!

I wish you all the best.. I hope you get better soon and I give you so much credit for trying!

Good luck.. hope I helped :)

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EXTREMERACERX02 answered Thursday October 4 2007, 1:36 am:
I think you should sit them down and tell them. There isnt a simple way to tell them that you are lying about self-injurying anymore. The best way to handle things would be get it over with and tell them so you can move forward. Best of Luck!!!

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TheTeenGirl answered Thursday October 4 2007, 1:35 am:
I'd say the best way to approach your family is to sit down with all or a family member and just say,


"I've been really (however you feel) and I have been cutting. I know I said that I haven't, but I didn't want to make anyone upset."

-TheTeenGirl

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Brandi_S answered Thursday October 4 2007, 1:31 am:
There is no easy way of telling them.
Best thing to do is just come clean about it, like ripping off a band aid.
The sooner you tell them, the sooner they can do something different to help you.

ygs-29/f

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