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Q: does anyone know anything about the rave in miami for two days called 'ultra'? i think its march 28th but i cant find any information on it. if you can help thatd be beautiful! thanks.
http://www.ultramusicfestival.com/

google ultra in miami

Q: are itouch applications free?
some are free but some also require you to pay money

Q: what are good foods to eat if you want to stay healthy and take fat off your body?
definetly vegetables and fruits. dont eat too many high sugar foods and fried foods.

Q: 16/f
If you shop at Delias, you know about the logo t-shirts with all the different little designs like the cartoons and the cute sayings. They are really cute, but really expesive. Seriously, I can't shell out like 20-30 dollars or more for just a cheap t-shirt. Now, I'm sure that Delias is not the only company that sells these type of little witty expression t-shirts. Does anybody know of any other stores that sell similar shirts for a lower price? Because theres gotta be somthing out there thats making this kind of stuff for cheaper. Somthing like this shouldn't cost that much.

(I especially like the one that says "keep the battles on the dance floor" but come on, what teenager can be spending 30 bucks on a t-shirt?)
wet seal and charlotte russe have those kind of tee shirts, you can even look on the sale section because some are even cheaper there

Q: okay so i've been looking for blue jean shorts like EVERYWHERE. you would think they would have millions out there but i've been able to fine NONE! not even at A&F. HELP!??!
i was at forever21 about a week or 2 ago and they had a variety of jean shorts in different colors and i even saw a blue one. so maybe you can check out forever21 or look on their website

Q: my period is 2 weeks late and i'm scared because it never came this late before of my 4 years of having it. i'm positive im not pregnant because im a virgin. i've been masturbating more than usual though, could this have anything to do with it? why is it so late? is there anything wrong with me?
theres definetly nothing wrong with that. in fact i just missed my period last month because i was stressing so much and ive only missed my period one other time and that was about 3 years ago, and i've had my period for about 4 years also. the reason why your missing your period may be from stress or change in diet. its nothing to worry about because periods are usually irregular

Q: I have a Motorola razor and I was wondering if you can record things on this phone. Like on my old phone i recorded part of a song and set it as my ring tone. is this possible on the razor? I don't have any of the manuals or whatever, this was an old friends phone. thanks
i have the motorola razor from cingular and i know you can record things but on my phone you cant record a song and then set it as the ringtone. you can do the voice record which records only one minute and its found under settings, then tools, then voice records. you could also record songs through the video recorder, i do that and it works pretty good. to change the date and time, go to settings, initial setup, and then time and date, it should be the first one.

Q: It's summer.
I have about 2 months to lose as much weight as I can.
But I'm only 13 so I have absolutly NO idea how to.
I'll take any advice that I can get, but pleaseee help.

I'll adore you forever if you help me :DDD

kthnx
i tried to lose some weight and i ended up running around my neighborhood for one hour a day and that definetly helped me out alot and i started seeing that my body was getting toned. also you have to eat right, eat small portions of foods and dont eat any junk food. eat lots of vegetables, fruits, and foods that are low in fat. i hope you end up losing the weight you wanted to lose and good luck!

Q: hey i'm 14 years old / female.
I'm around 5,0 not even probably.
I weigh 102 lbs. =|
anyways to shed off some weight!!
don't tell me i'm freaking skinny.
i'm not.
so give me some advice i can use.
well you actually are pretty skinny so i dont know what you need to be worried about. but if you want to lose some weight you can start running for 30-60 minutes a day.. i did that and i definetly started seeing results quick and you also have to eat healthy and try not to eat as much junk food.. also cut out sodas and replace them with water. hope i helped and good luck!

Q: What's the song that they play when the crew is eliminated? It sounds like Will I Am. But i'm not sure. Thanks in advance.
its walk it out by dj unk

Q: i need to know how to send a picture from my verizon u740 cell phone to my computer.
you can text the picture to your email address and then open it in your email account and save it to the computer

Q: My sister is 3 years older than i am and is always saying myspace sucks and i should get a facebook. She says schools look at myspace and you could get suspended if you have pics of doing stuff at the school? Is this true? and is facebook REALLY so much better than myspace? Any opinion is appreciated!
well facebook is much more safer than myspace because usually only people in your network can see your profile unless you put it private. also facebook doesnt have all that spam and stuff like myspace does.

Q: I wanted to make a recipe for cinnamon buns, it called for a package of yeast. In only have yeast in bulk.. exactly how much yeast do I need to measure out that is equalent to one package? Thanks
its a tiny bit less than one tablespoon

Q: okay,so i had sex for the first time about a couple weeks ago?

ive only done it once,and he used a condom,and im almost positive it didnt break or leak.


i usually get my period on the 30th or 1st.

its the 4th now and i still havent started

but ive been really stressed about it and all


like all month

so i could still get it

or idk

my period can be irregular but it hasnt been for a while

like i used to get it on the 10th

but i still havent has my january period

which like i said i get on the 31


or the 1 of the next month (like febuary 1st in this case)
there could be a chance that you're pregnant but i dont really think so considering you used a condom and your almost positive it didnt break nor leak.. you're probably just really stressed out because i was in your position just last month and was freaking out and i missed my period for a whole week but i eventually got it and i got mine this month at the right time.. so im pretty sure that its stress that's making you not get your period on time.. if in a week or so and you still dont get it, then maybe you should try a pregnancy test, but good luck and hopefully you're not pregnant!

Q: Ok thoday was my first time fingering myself well i had some blood on my finger.I'm a virgin still and did i pop my cherry?
that is possible or you could have just stretched the walls in your vagina

Q: I never appear idle on aim, and i want to know how i can
yah like the person below said, you cant move your mouse for like 10 minutes and then you'll be idle. but if you havent touched it for a long time and still doesnt say your idle, then its probably your settings. go to setup then preferences, then go under privacy and about the middle of the page there should be something that says allow users to see: ..how long i've been idle, and it should be marked, if not then check it and it should say that you're idle when you are

Q: Ok. It was a friday night, he asked me did I want to go back to his house for a little QT. I only been going out with him for 2 weeks, I know it was so stupid of me to sex him but he kept asking and he was like I needed to trust him. Well, yeah I had sex with him and I regret it because after we had sex he walked me right back home(this was right after the sex)he used a trojan condom also...(for detail of the condom).Of course his penis was huge so I dont know if this is why Im feeling this way. But when I used the bathroom once I got straight in the house, I hear something hit the toilet water. It was the condom! It popped! He said before he even came, he pulled out...I cannot be sure of that. exact words (well, I didnt cum inside you). Im not sure If I am pregnant and Im trying to think that Im not, but I keep on thinking about it. Im not to sure but I do think that the condom was still on the outside inside me, and I do not think the sperm ws in the condom. I even seen him take the condom off before we left. So I know it popped. For the whole weekend. My body was hurting. My hips, Legs, Stomach, on top of that, I was really tired. I mean I was already tired on friday, But after sexing him, I was exhausted. Could it be that I was just getting used too his large penis size? Or Am I pregnant?. Because my stomach feels tight(sometimes). Really it has only been 7 days since it has happened. And right now, Im fat but im not big boned, Im slim kind of fat, I cant tell any kind of signs. I know its early but they say something about your stomach getting hard. Well I checked and I cant tell if it is my stomach getting tight because of my diet(not really a diet, just dont eat as much anymore)or because this is a sign or being pregnant. What could I possibly experience in the first week that would actually let me know that I am pregnant. I do not think that I am. but it worries me, feel me? Im only 17 and Im not ready for a child. This is the first time this has happened to me. Because I do not have sex. Could someone help me? If you need more information let me know.
your probably just really really stressed out and i bet thats all you can think about.. cause i was just in your position about a few weeks ago and that was what all i could think about. i found out that it was all the stress that was making me feel all weird.. and about your stomach being tight, its probably just because your eating less so dont worry about that.. so dont stress about it cause then you will just get more and more paranoid like i did haha but good luck to you! and hopefully your not pregnant

Q: Me and my sister are wanting to lose some weight for the New Year. Mainly the stomach and the thighs. If anyone has any tips, anything would be very helpful.

Thank you!

Happy New Year!
ive tried many things and a while before i tried running and i have definetly noticed some improvement in a month so i would suggest running and cutting back on junk food

Q: For English class we are doing a research paper on someone who has made a difference in society. Someone like a president or something..any ideas people?
last year we had a research paper like that and i did madonna. some other people were like ghandi, martin luther king, john lennon, elvis presley, marie antonette

Q: Where do they sell those fcuk shirts? I know they have ones that say hot as fcuk i saw one that i really liked that said fcuk in jersey and i really want it. By the way, I live in jersey if that matters but i can order online too, though stores would be easier. Thanks
the fcuk shirts are from a store named fcuk. heres the website that has the hot as fcuk shirt on it and you can get it online:

http://www.fcusbuymail.com/ProductDetails.aspx?language=en-US&ProductID=766T7&CategoryID=w_logotees

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