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Ok so I have been seeing this guys *Jim* for a little over a year and I really love him. We makeout all the time, he's gotten up my shirt and just today he fingered me many times and I gave him a blowjob. Now I know this may not seem like alot to you but for me it is and that might be just because I`m 13. Now I have a question would you consider me a slut? How much do you think he likes me. (I am his first girlfriend, first kiss, first everything)? please answer this i am so nervous and scared.
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are you even allowed to do that stuff at 13?. anyway no your not a slut.if you do this to many different guys then sure you would be but he's your boyfriend, you are absolutely not.
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no.. you are not a slut if you only do it with yourr boyfriend.. if you do it with many different guys. I am sure he loves you and you mean alot to him<33
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l am 13 years old too. I have given my third boyfriend all of that but l'am certainly not a slut. Neither are you. You obviously love him and thats all that matters. Being sluty is all about dressing like a stripper all the time. Having sex or those kind of stuff to different kinds of boys that you may not even know, and you'rer certanily not that.
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You're not a slut. You would only be a slut if you did that with several guys. As for you feeling like it is a lot, well for a 13 year old it is. But like don't feel bad about it or anything. Most girls lose their virginity at 13 and all that good stuff. So don't be like ashamed or anything. (which I take it that you aren't?)
Its obvious that he likes you or he would never had kissed you, and the fact that you were his first kiss makes you even more important to him.
So, Please, don't be nervous or scared. I hoped a helped..:-/
*mayonnaise**-
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No, to me this seems like a lot. You didn't go all the way, but what you are doing with your boyfriend is serious stuff and should still be considered sex. (Just a different type). Are you aware of the risks? That might be a question you can post next time.
Are you nervous and scared that he might not like you? Apparently you don't know if he likes you a lot or a little, because you are asking us. See, this is the problem when young teenagers have sex. Before you engage in such behavior you should be sure of the level of committment first, and 13 year olds don't know that.
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I'm 13. I havent even REALLY kissed a guy yet. So it doesnt seem like a little to me. But I dont think you are a slut. If you were ready for that kind of relationship, then you were. I would ask him how he feels about you. Thats your best bet.
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Your not a slut because you don't do this to a bunch of guys but if you are doing his when you are only 13 think about what you will do by the time your in highschool, serously this will lead you to sex and it will be hard to make the right chocie. I'm not going to tell you how to live you life but I don't think you should be at 3 base already when your 13.
I don't know how much he likes you, I'm sure it relativly good because your doing this stuff but just be sure he is not using you, because that could be a major possability. hope i could help best of luck! <3<3
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To me a "slut" would be a girl who does things like that with numerous guys, and since you are only doing it with one I would not consider you a slut...
But, you should really think about what you are doing, because all of that stuff leads to sex. I know you might think that you won't let it, I thought the same thing, but it did end up with sex. And, I was 13 when I started doing that kind of stuff with my boyfriend, I am 15 now and I regret all of it,becasue I am not even with the boy any more, and I feel bad for my boyfiend now... So just think about athat...sorry didn't mean to lecture, just giving some advice...
I cannot tell you how much he likes you because I do not know him. But, you just needs to make sure that he respects you and treats you well and doesn't force you to do things you don't want him to.
But, considering that you are his first everything, then of course there is going to be a lot of special feeling just because of that fact, so I am sure he likes you a lot.
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