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I need help with a sn! I want one i can keep for a while can you help? If here can here are some things about meh...

-My names "kendal"
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im sorrry, i havent been on in awhile, do you still want help with this

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hey i have had this screen name for a while its nice but everyone has the ones with like whoaa and chyeaa

okay hmm..
BAMF ITS YOURNAME
BOWCHICKAWOW< hahahha that would be great!

i dont know though really, like i usually just do something with my name in it

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Can you make a screen name with my name,shannon, in it? thanks.

Sorry, I'm kind of late on answering this lol, but yeah.

I would try something like

Shannon x middle name x3

or just your initals and X3

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my name is brittney and i need some help for a screen name!!!
thanks

okayy lol,
well for mine and stuff i usually just do my middle name with it so i would do somethin likee

brittney x whateveryourmiddlenameis x3

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i just need a new screen name and my name is mara
can i have help?

of course :]
sorry im really late on that, i haven't been on in awhile, do you have anything in mind with what you want

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Well Aug 10, my friend is having a party.
He is really cute, and everybody is going.
Its a pool party
anyways, on my calender , it says my period should be coming around aug 9...
I cant put a tampon in all the way, but i cant parshally with some hanging out.
If i wear a black bathing suit and a tampon , half in...
Would that be okay?
What should i do?
Will the tampon fall out
HELP!
and the party is from 3pm - 8pm..

Well this is just me, I would go but I wouldn't swim or anything, and if he ask's depending on how close you are I might just tell him, and if you feel uncomfortable you can just say you have an ear infection or something.

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when you had a best friend that became your boyfriend, is it possible to become boyfriend to best friend again? =/

Yes it is possible, but it will probably take time

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So I am definitely getting a much needed haircut tomorrow, but I have no clue what to get. I haven't had a haircut since Feb. because I've been far too busy to even begin to think of one, so I'm gonna need to get at least 3 inches off to get rid of those yucky ends. I'm open for any suggestions, I'm a fan of the swoopy bangs and choppy layers but I cannot pull it off because my hair is far too thick and wavy and my hair color just doesn't go with the style (my school doesn't let you dye your hair). My main concern is what to do with my bangs. I am growing them out but they are really chunky so they get in my eyes a lot. I'd appreciate any suggestions to thin them out without getting full-on bangs again. here's a pic of my hair, I haven't straightened it at all so this is it when its air dried (pardon the poor quality, I had to go mirror pic to fit all my hair in haha)
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v65/neojes88/ha.jpg
thanks!

Alright so your hair color is pretty much amazing :]

but anyways, I would get more a swept bang, and ask them for invisible layers[they thin out your hair].

thats what I do and my hair looks like this;
http://i14.tinypic.com/6cpair4.jpg

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15/f. It seems like my best friends have more friends than me. I can be kind of shy, so how do I be more outgoing? I'm afraid that some people have already prejudged me as aloof and cold. But my closest friends describe me as the funniest girl they know. I need to stop acting so shy around other people. But how?

I used to be like that a lot.. well what I would do is just block out everyone and just have a good time. And I started to make friends by randomly talking to them and from myspace. It helped me a lot.

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Hey, could someone tell me some songs that are about being best friends with someone, but liking them as more than a friend? Something sort of like that. Thanks in advance.

crush by mandy moore
things i'll never say by avril lavigne
teardrops on my guitar by taylor swift

and then this might not be what your looking for but i really like
stupid boy by keith urban

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I have a bf that I'm in love with and he means absolutely everything to me. I've been with him for 7 months. He's amazing to me and we get along perfectly but sometimes I just get sick of him. He gets so annoying and I never want to talk to him. I met this other guy and he's a real sweetheart and we've known each other for about a month. He's also amazing and sweet. We got to know each other more and he really likes me and I really like him. He wants to date me and everything but I have a bf that I still really love. I like both of them. I feel so horrible..I can't even believe myself. I don't know what to do. I'm so stuck. Please help me.

Okay, well what I would do is give it a week and see how it goes, hang out with that other boy but don't do anything you would regret, like kissing him, get to know him more and make sure hes not the type of boy thats a sweetheart to every girl, and if you feel as though this new boy is better than your bf then talk to your bf first and tell him how you feel, talk it out first but don't dump him unless you feel you need to. if you need any more help im here:]

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My Aim profile stinks cuase you cant put HTML codes on it and I have NO CLUE what to say on it, Give me some ideas please! I'm totally lost I've been changing it every day and I'm getting sick of it, can someone please give me a link to a website or something?

i would try www.buddy4u.com or i would go on xanga and type in quotes in the lil search thing

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ok so im 13/f ...the kid i reallly like is my brothers best friend. they are 14 going into 10th grade. (im going into 8th) whenever he comes over he always stares at me (like when im not even talking) and my brother brings it up to. but how do i know if he like me or not? or how can i kind of get him to like me if he doesnt?
PLEASE HELPPP
thanks =]]

Okay I'm not going to lie, boys are weird and for some reason they love to tease younger girls, so don't give your hopes up on him.. and just saying, since its a two year age differences his friends probably wouldn't approve of that.. but next time he stares at you be like why do you keep staring at me, say it like your joking though.

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Like my title says: is there a cheaper and more "original" subsitute for American Eagle?

FYI I live in central NJ (USA), so don't give me stores indigenous to the cali area.

Hmm.. well I'm not really sure if you have a Charlotte Ruse but if you do, go there.. Just look at the clearences at every store they usually always have some.. and if you wanna go to a thrift store i guess i would suggest kohls or target:] .. and i dont think you'll have this, but Platos closet tooo.

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i am a 13 year old who hasnt gone out with a guy yet! ugh.. i wanna feel how it feels to be in a relationship and have the guy love me in that way and i'll be able to have my first kiss and all that. it hasnt happened yet and i notice like everyone i know practically has already gotten their first kiss or first boyfriend.. not that im in a race to get one, i just let it come to me and if i see a guy thats cute, i'll say hes cute and stuff.. i just wanna be in a relationship and stuff!!

and i've been asked out by guys about 5 times but i dunno if they're being serious or joking. how can you tell? only three of those 5 times i knew it was a joke... but i really dunno! i reply "no" to them because i dont see them that way like romantically or anything.. ugggggggggghhh what do i do and stuff? thanks

Find a boy you think is cute, and go from there.. talk to them a lot, flirt, but dont get to a point where you seem annoying. and if you dont like a person when they ask you dont feel forced to say yes, im fourteen and dont worry about it a lot of my friends havent had their first kiss either. actually half of my grade hasnt and im going to be a freshmen.

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can u give me a few good myspace layout (and other stuff for myspace) sites?

thanks

i like crash codes a lot and asd layouts .. just type that in search, and then whateverlife.com and skem9.com to make comment boxes

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Kay I met this guy today. He's a year older than me. Well today after school we all decided to go to the elementry school thats next to our school. It was me, 3 of my friends, and him. I have seen him around school before, and he and defenatly seen me. Today, he kept sitting next to me when we were hanging out and he kept smiling. I really like him too, but since I JUST met him, would it be concidered "slutty" if I ask if he likes me after one day??

Oh geez thats no where near close to be slutty:D
thats just wanting to know if he likeyys youu!

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I have always my whole life been different from everybody I don’t know why, everything about me is wrong my parents and cousins constantly cut me down. Everyone at school think im a freak that will never be fixed I ignore them but I fight back sometimes. Then my best friend and I were in an on and off love. Being best friends then telling each other we loved each other then being zapped so many time over each other and asking out a few times over it then to denying each other in front of our grade a few times. Talking nonstop in a day to not a word in a day or days. I’ve never felt so much love the loves before are nothing compared to this I LOVE him he LOVES me. I think its love now but I’m so confused it was.... All the heartbreak all the people holding us back then now pushing us together and apart again?! Were total opposites in every single way and never been in anyway the same. I’ve spent most of my life with him. Our families were best friends always together. They moved away but still nothing else changed. Then our parents found out we loved each other then tried to keep us apart and never since has he been over or me over there or have we done anything with them. Since our parents are so loudmouth then they told people and NOW EVERYTHING IS WRONG. I do not in anyway get along with my family or relatives so I always went with him. Now my life has been hell or at least going straight down to hell in everyway. Then 2 people tried to get us together…his two other crushes. Pretty much interviewing him in front of everyone asking do you still love her asking why we wont go out everything stuff like that. I told her not to. Then I just left. It was on the 2nd to last day of school and last period. The day before we go on vacations for almost a month. He said I’m third in the people he liked. I don’t care but she told everything to everyone. He always cracks under pressure and is very shy around girls. Now when I sign on aim he signs off. It’s been over a month and we never said a word not even looked at each other not a bye or anything. I’ve seen him 5 times since now by setup. But there is nothing between us not even friends anymore. Idk what really happened. We’ve been friends and best friends our whole lives now absolutely nothing. I spent the night at my friends’ house and went swimming and her cousin stayed with us and he got to bring a friend he brought my best friend although I’m not sure about best friends now. And as I was right about to talk to him her cousin yelled for him then they skated away. Then we went swimming with a lot of people and he just called and left. Never seen him since. Idk what really happened between us there was no fight. Now were just ignoring each other. We never dated because we didn’t wana loose our friendship and now we lost both and everything. I lost my best friend and all the love I have, for life. Im suicidal my friends are what kept me alive over the years now my best friend is gone. I have nowhere to go no one to love no friends who truly understand me actually nobody who understands me I don’t get along with my family at all there only making it worse. What do I do what can I? I feel like shit I feel nothing now I feel like nothing. What can I do? Sorry I just cant take it.

Alright honey first off, dont kill yourself, because that wouldn't solve anything and could possibly make matters worse for him. He probably still likes you but maybe he thinks you don't like him or he doesn't want to get hurt or something like that, I would call him or maybe go to his house some how. And ya know, if people are gonna make fun of you an stuff dont listen to them your fine just the way you are and if they tell you different screw them you dont need them, honestly people only talk about you like that because one theyre jealous..because if they say things like that then you obviously are being yourself and everyone wants that, so good job for you:D, and then pretty much if they talk about you they have no lives, it makes them feel better about themselves. and if you ever need a friend im here, you can just send me a message or something

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does anyone know any good makeup tips? i wear makeup and i dont really think it looks good. like tips that will make it look even kinda like jennifer aniston wears her make up.

Well I honestly just go for natural looks, and I usually just go to walgreens or wherever to get it cause im cheap haha but they have this stuff from Almay and it makes your eyes stand out? I would get that and they give directions on how to put it on and stuff.

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ok so i just started going out with this guy, and we are both kinda shy, so i was wondering what were some good conversation starters.. we dont talk much, so i am trying to get our relationship started by starting conversations.. i don't want to talk just about school, because i dont want to sound like a school nerd.. but any conversation starters would be awesome!! thx

ohh my, that is exactly like my ex boyfriend[don't worry, we didn't break up over not talking] .. i just liked him so much i was TERRIFIED to say the wrong thing, because i'm not gonna lie , i'm extremely open and hyper. what i would do though, was i would three way him with one of my friends and we would all talk , it helped me i'm not sure why. but if i didn't do that , we would talk about when we were little and our friends and funny stuff like that... if you want more i cann help im sure [:

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