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i am a 13 year old who hasnt gone out with a guy yet! ugh.. i wanna feel how it feels to be in a relationship and have the guy love me in that way and i'll be able to have my first kiss and all that. it hasnt happened yet and i notice like everyone i know practically has already gotten their first kiss or first boyfriend.. not that im in a race to get one, i just let it come to me and if i see a guy thats cute, i'll say hes cute and stuff.. i just wanna be in a relationship and stuff!!
and i've been asked out by guys about 5 times but i dunno if they're being serious or joking. how can you tell? only three of those 5 times i knew it was a joke... but i really dunno! i reply "no" to them because i dont see them that way like romantically or anything.. ugggggggggghhh what do i do and stuff? thanks
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I don't kno how to tell, but same thing that's happening to me!!!I mean there's a super hot super good friend of mine but i dunno if he's skooting closer to me cause he like me or if he's joking around!I feel your pain!
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Slow down, you're only 13 - no need to rush into such things. You're young & at the age where most kids start becoming interested in dating. But it doesn't mean everyone jumps into a relationship at the same time & anyone who doesn't is any less of a person. Yes, it's natural to have a desire to get your first kiss & experience "love" & every little thing about a relationship. But the truth is, most people your age are not mature enough to become romantically involved (or like you said, be serious about whether they want to pursue you or not). Basically, you really aren't missing out on anything that great. Just give it time! You have plenty (& I mean PLENTY) of time ahead of you. Wait for someone who is worthwhile; not just with anyone because you're desperate to have these things happen so quickly.
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dont worry about it. if a guy is serious he will call you or come see you or give you actions that he likes you...or he will just flat out tell you. thats how you know. but dont be in a hurry to get a BF-and please heed this warning- whatever love you get out of it, will be 10x the amount of sadness there is when you break up. its difficult but its a fact of teenage relationships. they are tough. enjoy it while you can, but keep waiting because that special guy will come to you. peace, hope it helps
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i was a lot like you. i didn't have any of that until i was way older. it was something i wanted so much but it never felt right. boys would do that and i would say no too for the same reasons.
yeah it sucks knowing that everyone around you has already been through everything but don't just get your first kiss or your first boyfriend because everyone else is doing it... seriously, you should wait. wait until the time feels right and you feel like the boys right, it makes everything better and you'll be like "yeah, it was worth it". i waited and i'm glad i did... that boy was worth it :)
idk if this is good advice [ i haven't done this in a couple of weeks ] but i'm just saying i know what you're going through because i went through it too... and this is what i did & it might work for you as well.
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Find a boy you think is cute, and go from there.. talk to them a lot, flirt, but dont get to a point where you seem annoying. and if you dont like a person when they ask you dont feel forced to say yes, im fourteen and dont worry about it a lot of my friends havent had their first kiss either. actually half of my grade hasnt and im going to be a freshmen.
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