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I'm a punk girl and I LOVE cats!!!!They are so awsome.I hope to go to colage to be an author/illestrator.I like to go horseback riding sometimes.I'm a VERY acomplished rider.I am very artistic too.I can whip up a beautiful horse drawing in a matter of minutes:)I really like to draw cats and horses.I do a little bit of still art.Things like roses and skulls.Stuff like that.You also should know a big thing about me.I don't...well..."believe"I'm not chrition.I do think that religian is just slavery in a different state of mind.I believe in recarnation.
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I'm going out with a guy right now. he's a good guy and would never do anything to hurt me, at least not on purpose. we get in wrestling matches sometimes. most times i start it, and we're just tickling each other or something. it usually ends with me pinned but he gets off when i tell him enough. the only issue i have is that usually when i get home i see that i have bruises on my arms. i've gotten quite a few. i've shown him and he's apoligized, yet it keeps happening. i'm just not sure if that's abuse. my moms seen them and my friends and they're all suspicious of him. i tell them it's just accidents, but i can see they don't believe me. i'm wondering if i'm rationalzing it too much or if it is nothing like i keep telling people (link)
Ok THEY r overreacting.He says sorry and gets off when you tell him to.I'd say you're and easily bruised person.My mom is that way.I just poke with a pencil or something and the next day there's a HUGE bruis there, as if I was punching her there over and over!Really I am Serious!!!!It's wired.Hope I helped!
~athena


I have a serious problem, I always get boners in the middle of class and i have to get up alot and i dont want people to see me. I am not getting hard because the teacher is hot either because, beleve me, she is NOT! Does any else have this proble, how can I fix it???? Any bit of info will help!!! (link)
Ok i'm a girl but if you go on Kotex.com there are some salutions.
~Athena


OK I'm 15/m and I have a bit of a problem. I've asked a similar question to this relating to sexual stamina so here it is: When me and my girlfriend have sex its really good. The only thing is that I dont feel enough. She's really tight and all but it just feels like I'm numb or something, I feel like there should be more. Is there any way I can increase feeling there? Is it normal to be like that? (link)
Ok i'm a f, but try getting kinda romantic and horny BEFORE you have sex.Sometimes I'm not in "the mood" but then he starts kissing me and licking me and fingering and stuff.THat REALLY turns me AND him on.


when your going "down there" to finger a girl. Is the clit the place to focus alot of your time? Like will that gaurantee an orgasm? Thanks (link)
Well i dunno exactly what ur looking for, but girls well me anyway like a little licking.It's ok.But yeah.CLIT the place!!!


ok, me and my girlfriend have decided we want to have sex, the only probleam is i am not sure how i am going to get my hands on a condom, i am 13, and don't give me stuff saying im too young or anything cause we have made up are mind, im just not sure how i can get my hand on some condoms. can i just buy them? what? and also what kind should i get? (link)
Ok yeah you can go to the self checkout, OR you could simply say if they give you a funny look (wich they will) just say, "Hey it's for when I'm older, and at least I'm being safe."
Hope it works out for you:)
~Athena


Dude, alright i live in missouri and I went to a walgreens to purchase some condoms and i am 15. so i was at the check out and the lady said "i'm not going to sell these to you" and i said "uhm lady why not?" and she said "you are too young to be having sex and im not gunna sell these to you" then she put it in the bag to be put back on the shelf...so yah is that legal? (she lectured me for about a 1/2 hr on the subject so please dont lecture me as well

p.s. i rate for good answers (link)
What a fuck head!She can't fuckin not sell them to you!!!!!!!!Hey if you're gonna have sex at 15 i'd be kinda proud to sell you some condoms.At least you're being fuckin' safe!So many dumb asses think it's awsome sex without a condom.It doesn't fuckin' matter, does it!!!!!!!!!!So yeah you should probably report to her manager.No I MEAN IT!!!!!!! :P :)!!!!!!Sorry about my french!
~Athena
P.S. I'm 15 female! :)


i've liked this girl for a week now and i can definitly tell that if we went out it'd be a long lasting/fun relationship. i am 15/m and i was wondering any like cute ways to get a girls attention. (link)
ok just make a convo.And if she's being really nice to you and stuff, she probably doesn't like like you.If she makes jokes and stuff, or TRIES to get YOUR attention she likes you!Be really sweet and sencitive.Guys like that get me!(i'm a girl)
Hope it all helps!


ok i have a girlfriend and ive kissed her before and all that but i was just wondering what are some good tips to do with your hands or mouth while kissing, and like where to do it and all that to make it more enjoyable for her, thanks in advance (link)
Ok I love it when my bf holds my waist or if he runs his hands up my arm to my face a carresses me.That gets me going for a loop in romance every time.Try teasing her a little by just giving her little kisses on the neck and cheeks.

Hope it helps!


14/f

This will probably sound weird, but I have this really odd paranoia problem where I go into these modes where it's like I'm reliving a situation I had in the past with another person. It's like being there, like just now I was reliving an embarassing time I had when I was 13, only this really scares me and I have to like breathe really deeply and assure myself that I'm not really there.

Another part of this is how I sort of talk to myself a lot, only I'm not really talking, just mouthing what I would say if I were really talking. And it's always like I'm back in a situation that I was in before, such as a random conversation I had. And I can even feel people looking at me, like I feel like a bunch of people are staring at me even if I'm completely alone.

I've been this way for over a year, and I don't see why. What is wrong with me? (link)
Ok apperently I have the same problem,especialy the part about feeling some one lookiing at me and and I'm alone.Or when I'm sleeping.My ma would come in and i'd be sleeping and then she'd look at me and I'd be shot awake.I hate it too.Yeah Rose is rite see a tharopist.My mom thinks it's wierd so do i so i don't go.I have really bad mmrys about the tharopist.
-Athena


14/f

I have this weird sense of humor, and I laugh at a lot of things and everything is funny to me- like inside jokes with my friends and stuff...
And when we say something REALLY hilarious and stupid that makes me literally laugh until I cry, I can't stop thinking about it for hours or days or weeks or months or even years after it happened.

And these funny thoughts always come back to me randomly at the WORST possible times- when it's only appropriate to be serious. And honestly I can't control how my face turns bright red and I try so hard to hold back my laughter, but if it's really bad it comes out as sort of snickering through my nose, and sometimes i'll even sort of start to cry. Sometimes people notice it and then they just think i'm some weirdo.

I've gotten in a HUGE amount of trouble for it before. But I honestly can't control this i'm telling the truth!


so please tell me what might be up with my mind. (link)
Girl, I'm mental too then!!!LOL!I get in so mych trouble w/my sis caus she is SUPER sirious ALL THE TIME.So when she's talking about something really important I kinda just start laughing out of nowhere.My friends think it's annoying (after a while)but if you just say "pudding" I start laughing!Like as I amn typing this up,I am snickering!Hahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


i am a 13 year old who hasnt gone out with a guy yet! ugh.. i wanna feel how it feels to be in a relationship and have the guy love me in that way and i'll be able to have my first kiss and all that. it hasnt happened yet and i notice like everyone i know practically has already gotten their first kiss or first boyfriend.. not that im in a race to get one, i just let it come to me and if i see a guy thats cute, i'll say hes cute and stuff.. i just wanna be in a relationship and stuff!!

and i've been asked out by guys about 5 times but i dunno if they're being serious or joking. how can you tell? only three of those 5 times i knew it was a joke... but i really dunno! i reply "no" to them because i dont see them that way like romantically or anything.. ugggggggggghhh what do i do and stuff? thanks (link)
I don't kno how to tell, but same thing that's happening to me!!!I mean there's a super hot super good friend of mine but i dunno if he's skooting closer to me cause he like me or if he's joking around!I feel your pain!


how do girls masturbate.. (link)
Ok I don't masterbate but, u just rub it,maybe stick a finger or 2 in.


I have been with my gf for about 4 months and when ever we are together its really quite! We always run out of ideas about what to talk about?

we really love each other!

ohh and by the way i'm 14/m.

does anyone have any ideas on what to do about that?

thanks so much! (link)
Ok I'm a girl but girls love when you start the convo. Ok? Be funny.If you don't have a sence of humer, GET ONE!:)But also remember that there is a time to be surious.Ok?Say stuff like "oh did you here about that juicy rumer?" Stuff like that sure get's me and my bf talking!Hope it all works!Best of luck! :)


I really want to know because everyone else has already lost it and I'm 14 and I havent! (link)
Ok losing ur V. is when you have sex.I haven't lost my V. yet, so it's totally ok!Besides those other gurlz (and guys) r probably just lieing to fit in.Dude everone's not doing it! :)


ok so im a 16/f and i need a new look for 11th grade. like i want a makeover basically. ok well see im really skinny and i need help in gaining some weight and not only that i have really bushy eyebrows. and also where should i shop and what kind of clothes should i get? (link)
Ok you seem really awsome!Ok I dunno about you but im a real reble!Go for the older pinstripes!That's what i do.Not sure about the whight thing.Oh drink more pop!It may take a month or 2 but keep active just don't go overbaord.Drink water when active of course but DRINK A LOT OF POP!Then you feel so iky, like you may if ate a bar of hersey's chocklate.Hope it works! -Friscajr (those r actually my cats' names=})




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