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When do you lose your virginity ?
I really want to know because everyone else has already lost it and I'm 14 and I havent!
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Even though it may seem like "everyone" has lost their virginty, there's also "everyone" that hasnt. My opinion is that 14 is too young, but you might think diffrently. Lose you're virginity when you're ready & comfterble with it.
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14 is wayyyyyy to young to be losing your virginity. If other people your age lost theirs then i say thats sad. Your virginity is something valuable. I'd say you shouldn't lose yours until your at least 20, but hey, if you want to lose it, go ahead, but i'm telling you, you don't want to lose it.
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Ok losing ur V. is when you have sex.I haven't lost my V. yet, so it's totally ok!Besides those other gurlz (and guys) r probably just lieing to fit in.Dude everone's not doing it! :)
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hmm.
well thats really up to you.
and even though it may seem like 'everyone' has lost theirs, there's also the 'everyone' that hasnt. so dont feel pressured just because of that. in fact, having sex shouldnt be a pressure at all. it should be when you've been with a person for a long time and you are very in love and happy with them, and trust them with all your heart. also, you should both be ready...this is where it comes in as not a pressure. i feel that if you still feel pressured by it, then your probably not ready to do it with that person. whenever you do decide to do that with someone, it will come more naturally than you think, and it wont [well shouldnt, if its for the right reasons] be just because everyone else is doing it.
xoxo helpachick
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im 15, and just like all my friends, we're pretty much all virgins. theres about 6 girls (out of about 120) in our grade that have had sex
so basically dont say everyone else has lost it
and also, just because other people are doing it doesnt mean youuu should
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hey im 15 and im still a virgin and proud. once you go to highschool, or i dont know if you already are you will see alot of girls who arent virgins but you dont have tobe like them. you have to do your own thing. do what you think feels right. noteveryone is a virgin i know. but there are alot of people out there who are. dont worry noone will critizie you for being a virgin and if they do theyre stupid and immature. save your virginity to a nice guy that you love. trust me loosing it like that isnt worth it.
ps you dont need to follow nyone. do your own thing.
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woah. 14 is wayyyy to young to lose your virginity. And you might think everyone has, but trust me, there are more kids who han't than kids who have. I'm still a virgin and so are all of my friends and I'll be 16 next month. Just about every guy would prefer a girl who's a virgin too. DON'T go off having sex w/ some teenage punk who doesn't even know what he's doing. You want your first time to be memorable. Just trust me on this k :]
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I'm 17 and haven't lost mine yet. I'm kinda proud, actually. :)
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SLOW DOWN. Right now! Your virginity is a very precious thing and once you lose i, there is no way of getting it back, so calm down and realise that NOT everybody has in fact, lost their virginity.
Firstly, there is no age limit to losing your virginity. Some lose theirs at 12, some wait until they are married and lose it in their twenties. Personally, I am 16, and a virgin. I have been with my boyfriend for 20 months, and we both love each other a lot. We are both virgins. Even though we love each other very much, can legally have sex, and see that lots of people around us are having sex, we don't feel pressure to have sex ourselves. AND NOR SHOULD YOU.
Seriously, if you go out and lose your virginity at a young age, or to someone you don't truly love, I can almost guarantee you will regret it.
You need make sure you are 110% ready for sex, and that you're protected and with someone who will wait if you want to wait. Remember the consequences of sex - even if you use a condom you can STILL GET PREGNANT. You shouldn't really be havung sex unless you are old enough and mature enough to deal with the consequences, both emotionally and physically (should you, god forbid, get pregnant)
Just think about it. Losing your virginity is not a race. So don't act like it is.
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Woah woah woah. Everyone else hasn't lost it already, I promise. Almost all of my friends are still virgins. & they're all older than you by a few years.
There is no rush you lose your virginity. It's not something that should be taken lightly. Do it only when you're ready and in love. You will hate yourself when you're older if you don't treat this with the seriousness it deserves.
There is no right age to have sex. In my opinion, 14 is waaaay too young. But that is just my opinion. No one can give you a definite answer on this, because we don't know you. Only you will know when the time is right.
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Everyone else hasn't lost it, they're just trying to be "cool." Wait until you are prepared to lose your virginity. Remember, being 13 or 14 and pregnant or sick because you have AIDS because you had sex when you weren't prepared is not "cool."
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girl your so young! im sorry i dont think theres a specific age but 16 i think is still to young! i lost mine when i was 17 and i've been with him for two and a half years.. (im still 17 this was a few weeks after my birthday)
just make sure you really know the person so that way its not just some jerk whos gunna use you to get it and thats it. it used to be something special but now adays all these crazy kids are trying to act too old.
enjoy life be young. do it whenever you feel as if your ready theres no right age my dear (:
be safe as well okay?!
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its up to you
dont just blow it off
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