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I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO...I FEEL SAD...WHAT SHOULD I DO?
Well i met this guy in school!!! he's in the 11th grade and im in the 10th grade!!! i started talking to him as he started talkin to me!!! everything was cool when i found out that i liked him because i felt jealous when he was around girls and wen he did other things!!! i also go tso mad that i even didnt speak to him like only for 2 to 4 dayz!!! and then i wan tto tell him that i like him so much that i dont even know what it is right now..if it's love or like!!! and i feel sad partly because i am not talkin to him still but he be stockin me and watchin me from far away because he kcks it in front of me for lunch!!! but im stuck because i dont know what to do and i need help!! im also scared because i dont want to make a mistake like if i tell him i like him and he dont like me..he can stop talkin to me when i wouldnt like dat!!! and in another part im scared because like im really like him..im scare dhe can break my heart and just play me!!because i do suffer alot because boys just play me all times bt this one like looks different cause hes more serious and like kinda like a shy person and you noe!!lolz butyea..so please ..can ya help me out!!im scared of losin him as friends and all types of ways and confused!!! thanks marina!!!
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ok.... looks like your really panicking here.... my first advice is for you to calm down. really take a breath and try to focus. if you act this excited infront of him chances are he'll think your a goof or something. remember when you first started talking to him? how normal you were? because you didn't feel anything towards him? well you have to do the same. if he spoke to you after that that means he saw something in you (could be as just a sweet person he'd like to be friends with but at this point thats all you've got) and you should nurture that. talk to him casually open up different topics don't focus too much on who he was with and where he went that will drive you nuts. in the same time don't throw yourself at him every chance you get, sometimes let him do the approaching.
these things never work fast like that.... they take time and if you want things to evolve then let things go slowly. after a while once you can consider him a good friend then you can asses whether or not he likes you.
good luck! :)
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1) Don't get mad at him for talking to other girls & hanging out with them becuase he has no reason that he can't.
2) If you say this guy is different from all the others and that he wouldnt play you, then he most likely won't. If your judgement is good, you are probably right about him.
3) You should tell him you like him, I bet he likes you too. Bring it up casually and ask him to hang out, then while your hanging out make a move on him or at least talk to him about who he likes. If you make it casual, and not a big deal I'm sure you will still be friends with him even if he rejects you. Good luck :)
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