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so ive had three relationships in high school and im going to be a junior-one lasted 2 weeks and the other lasted 2 months and this one is going on 6 months..but now me and my boyfriend fight alot and he is very insecure-does anybody have any ways to help me to get him to trust me/know that im not going to leave him..i tell him all the time but it doesnt work..also how can i not be so jealous with him around other girls? and finally-he told me that he's the reason our relationship works and it didnt end fast like my other ones..do you think its that mean that he said that or am i overexaggeratingg?..thank you

wow....fight alot huh? about what? You think your boyfriend doesnt trust you? First you have to ask yourself......... why? Why doesnt he trust me? Why do we fight so much? If your boyfriend is insecure its a problem that you have to get him to talk to you about... u need to find out WHAT he's so insecure about.... if and once you get him to talk about that... you'll be one step closer to your solution for that one.... uhm the jealousy is a problem you have... so u should ask yourself why am I jealous? is it something your boyfriend is doing? (ie being too "friendly" with the girls he hangs around) or is it just a little insecurity within yourself as well? About him being the reason you all are still together... it wasn't mean for him to say... just inaccurate. A relationship is a two way street... it takes two to tango. I'd love to work with you some more with this once you read over this much....

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i like 2 guys. ill start with the first one. L is a great guy. we've been "together" except NOT for about a year. he doesn't have the balls to ask me out, but tells everyone we're talking. so i just go along with it. obviously i like him alot bc he's been around for so long.. and now ive been thinking i might love him. theres been other guys this year- but for some reason it always comes back to me coming back to L. we're great together.. but i'm sick of being "in between" with him with feelings and such. i'm currently mad at him for ditching me to go to the lake- we were going good until that little stunt a couple of days ago. hes really sweet its just i dont know anymore- i'm not going to ask him out either just because i want to KNOW he likes me. not just hear him say it. and have his friends tell me.
guy#2- P is also a great guy. he was my 3rd grade boyfran :) he moved away in 4th and we didn't talk until this year bc he moved back to alabama. i know it sounds crazy us being sophmores now, but i could feel the feelings i did from 3rd grade. he makes me laugh and mad in the right ways. the only problem is that when he moved back, he moved about 30 min away from me. we both now thats too far for 15 year olds to have a real relationship but i know if he lived closer we would be perfect together. he comes down here every once in awhile to visit and he is this week. we go out and we're the ideal couple, but its just distance. i dont know what to do.


PLEASE HELP IM SO CONFUSED ABOUT WHAT TO DO! i'm 15.f so these arent little middle school crushes.

Does seem like you're stuck between a rock and a hard ship... but.... here is what I suggest.... You are 15... not in middle school... but still tryin to enjoy life as a young adolescent (adult).... so lets keep that in mind... about guy #1... if he were to tell you how much he likes you and asked you out... would you except? if your answer was/is no, for whatever reason, then why are you so upset about you all just being "friends" and "dating"? If you answered yes, well.... then you already have your solution about guy #2... the distance right now will be added stress to your life... I suggest you continue to be friends with guy #2, you all go out when you can/see eachother and maybe when some licenses are obtained, your relationship with him will be strong enough to pursue. With this guy #1, you should just ask him right out how he feels about you and what he wants right now. (something u both should discuss together; what you want) Better to know then to keep guessing and have your life "on hold" for him.....

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