so ive had three relationships in high school and im going to be a junior-one lasted 2 weeks and the other lasted 2 months and this one is going on 6 months..but now me and my boyfriend fight alot and he is very insecure-does anybody have any ways to help me to get him to trust me/know that im not going to leave him..i tell him all the time but it doesnt work..also how can i not be so jealous with him around other girls? and finally-he told me that he's the reason our relationship works and it didnt end fast like my other ones..do you think its that mean that he said that or am i overexaggeratingg?..thank you <33
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? AskZimA answered Wednesday June 13 2007, 10:18 am: wow....fight alot huh? about what? You think your boyfriend doesnt trust you? First you have to ask yourself......... why? Why doesnt he trust me? Why do we fight so much? If your boyfriend is insecure its a problem that you have to get him to talk to you about... u need to find out WHAT he's so insecure about.... if and once you get him to talk about that... you'll be one step closer to your solution for that one.... uhm the jealousy is a problem you have... so u should ask yourself why am I jealous? is it something your boyfriend is doing? (ie being too "friendly" with the girls he hangs around) or is it just a little insecurity within yourself as well? About him being the reason you all are still together... it wasn't mean for him to say... just inaccurate. A relationship is a two way street... it takes two to tango. I'd love to work with you some more with this once you read over this much.... [ AskZimA's advice column | Ask AskZimA A Question ]
holahayley56 answered Wednesday June 13 2007, 9:51 am: I don't know, I mean it would kind of make sense, what hes saying. I mean, you didn't stay long with those other 2 at all, and hes obviously doing something better, then the other two. So, no i dont think thats mean. he was just making a point. don't worry about it. and who cares if you didnt last too long with those other 2, its highschool, your not suppose to date just one person. [ holahayley56's advice column | Ask holahayley56 A Question ]
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