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Bf and other guy..
I have a bf that I'm in love with and he means absolutely everything to me. I've been with him for 7 months. He's amazing to me and we get along perfectly but sometimes I just get sick of him. He gets so annoying and I never want to talk to him. I met this other guy and he's a real sweetheart and we've known each other for about a month. He's also amazing and sweet. We got to know each other more and he really likes me and I really like him. He wants to date me and everything but I have a bf that I still really love. I like both of them. I feel so horrible..I can't even believe myself. I don't know what to do. I'm so stuck. Please help me.
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You are in love with your boyfriend; you like another guy. Going with the new guy is a bad idea for many reasons, plus you need time to sort this out, figure out your relationship with your bf and so on. Figure out why you are sick of him (is he abusive? ---> in this case you would break it off- do you need more space?) but I don't suggest throwing away a relationship for each amazing sweet guy that comes along. Relationships take time and you may regret it. Besides, what if you ended up doing the same to the new guy? It's just a bad habit to get into in general.
Could be you feel something missing in your current relationship. This is something you should talk to your boyfriend about.
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this is going to be one of those really hard choices only you can make. think about life without your bf. would you miss him even though your with the new guy? if you think you would be happier with the new guy, go for him..but dont do anything you would regret.
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Okay, well what I would do is give it a week and see how it goes, hang out with that other boy but don't do anything you would regret, like kissing him, get to know him more and make sure hes not the type of boy thats a sweetheart to every girl, and if you feel as though this new boy is better than your bf then talk to your bf first and tell him how you feel, talk it out first but don't dump him unless you feel you need to. if you need any more help im here:]
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Whatever you do, don't kiss the other guy before you break up with your boyfriend, (if you do). It's a bad idea.
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Forget them both and become asexual.
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