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best friend to boyfriend


Question Posted Thursday July 26 2007, 12:54 pm

when you had a best friend that became your boyfriend, is it possible to become boyfriend to best friend again? =/

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Samiam2226 answered Friday July 27 2007, 5:02 pm:
i dont know. i lost my best guy friend that way. he wanted to go out but i knew it wouldnt work and after the break up it would be akward.so i said no. but even after that i kept thinking," whats he thinking..." it was so akward knowing he liked me i moved.=(

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makalalovesyou answered Friday July 27 2007, 2:23 pm:
Well yes i went out with my best friend at first it might be a little awqward.but it wont be in the end because no matter what hes ur best friend and hes going to be there for you.

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bsktballchick45 answered Thursday July 26 2007, 5:32 pm:
Yeah it is possible. It happened with me, I went out with my best friend a couple of times, and he is still my best friend. But it might take some time. But yeah.

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HeartsLiesFriends answered Thursday July 26 2007, 3:38 pm:
Of course it's possible. I know of many people this has happened to.

You just need to work on it. Usually though, after you have developed feelings for each other, its hard to look the other person in the face or look at them the same way as you did before you went out, because deep down you know that you still probably have some sort of feelings for them. I think two people who can be good friends again after a breakup are wonderful. There's a difference between you two saying you'll still be friends, and then actually doing it. Me and my ex said we would, because we were really good friends, he was my best guy friend, but we haven't talked in over six months because of his lack of effort, so i just gave up. It just takes time, and eventually, if you two want to be bestfriends again like before, you will be :]


I hope it works for you :]

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queenhearts answered Thursday July 26 2007, 3:21 pm:
Yes, it is possible.. but only if you two break up mutually

If someone has feelings for the other, it's going to make it a hard friendship. You'll want to kiss them and hug them. It may be awkward. You'll have to talk about it. If you're really close with them, they will probably value any kind of relationship with you.. Even if it's a friend one.

For me, I was with the guy for over a year and well it took some time for me to get close to him again. It worked out and now I have a new boyfriend.. The guy is still my best friend.

There's always going to be slight jealously problems.

A lot of times, people can't work it out because one doesn't want to lose the other. If you really want your best friend back, you have to work for it or even wait.

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DeadMemories answered Thursday July 26 2007, 2:52 pm:
Hey there,

Well mostly it won't work out unless you've had feelings for each other. Because one will get jealous of the other, etc. But if you guys dated a couple days/weeks and broke up then it may seem weird for a little while but then you all could become friends again.

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Cux answered Thursday July 26 2007, 2:36 pm:
Well first- I'm a guy. This is the opposite for you then.

I had a best friend who became my girlfriend. Afterward- we were still friends- but maybe not as great as we were before [we had to go to separate schools].

But- I think what you're asking is very possible. It just takes some forgiving and forgetting in order to accomplish friendship again. It is a two-person effort. If one person doesn't care or doesn't want it- then it most likely won't work. If both people are committed to becoming friends again- then it very well could work. You just have to try and believe!

--Jack
(15/m)

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abercrombiee_x3 answered Thursday July 26 2007, 2:33 pm:
Yes it is possible, but it will probably take time

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