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im going to a psych ward tomorrow
because i tried to kill myself
can somebody tell me what its going to be like there (link)
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Ok I've been there before. Three times actually. (But I'm not saying you will be there that long; it just took longer for me.) It's not bad but it's not great. They are there to help you. There's several counselors that are always watching you. You have to follow the rules they tell you.
You are allowed your normal clothes, but nothing with strings. They will cut them if you want them. You are not allowed belts or antyhing like that.
No spirals, pens, pencils in the room.
No cells phone or any type of electronics. They will go over what you can and cannot have and the rules before you are admitted.
There is a lot of group therapy. A lot of talking with others and the counselors. About what happened, why you did, how are feeling, what's going on with your life that made you decide to kill yourself, etc. You can also talk one-on-one with the counselors. The counselors are there to help. Talk to them.
I wish you the best of luck. I truly hope you do not have to go through anything like this again. It's rough but you can get through it. Good luck and I hope you get better.
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I have this extra fat that I just want to get rid of because it's uncomfortable and displeasing. What can I do to make it flatter and a techinique that actually works? I'm a 15/F and just want to flatten that area a bit. (link)
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Crunches work really well. I do about 1,000-1,400 a day; I do them fast. And I break them into sets, like 250-400 at least three to four times a day. And it only takes a few minutes. But it would probably be best if you don't that many that fast at first. Get used to them. But do them consistently or you won't get results. And don't expect results right away. It will take awhile, but it will pay off in the end.
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Okay, I'm emo. Well, my other friends are emo too, but they cut themselves. I don't. I want to know, to be emo, do you have to cut yourself? People are spreading rumors that I cut myself and that I'm a pervert. I mean, sure I have a perverted mind, but I'm immature, give me a brake! can someone explain to me why they would say I cut myself, which I don't, even if I am emo. do I have to cut myself??? (link)
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No. No. No. I hate that everyone sterotypes 'emos kids.' That they all cut and if you are 'emo' then you must cut yourself. Well, don't. There are other ways of dealing with life then cutting yourself. If you need to talk to someone, then do so. Talk to a trusted adult, like a parent, a teacher, someone. And try to get help for your friends too. Cutting is a cry for help. Don't cut yourself.
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how come on TV they have to block out the "Suicidal" part a lot? why cant they say suicidal on TV? is this some new sort of cuss word? lol explain (link)
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They block it out because they think that just because the word is said that people might attempt it. Which, I believe, is crap becuase just because you hear the word doesn't mean you're going to go attempt it. It's censorship and it's bull****.
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i'm going to be starting my first year of high school this year and i don't know what to wear!
i've heard that the high school is usually really cold inside because they always have the air conditioning on really cold. but then it will be really hot outside. so what do i wear?
thanks! (link)
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Bring a hoodie to school and leave it in your locker like all year. If you get too cold in school you can just get it and wear in school but take it off later. That's what I do when I'm wearing short sleeves or whatever.
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when you had a best friend that became your boyfriend, is it possible to become boyfriend to best friend again? =/ (link)
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Yeah it is possible. It happened with me, I went out with my best friend a couple of times, and he is still my best friend. But it might take some time. But yeah.
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whats that song that goes like, "secret love" or something on that commercial, i think its a sprint commercial where you can have a top 5 and one of the guys asks "why is my girlfriend in your top 5?" and then the phone rings and its her and that song comes on. well i'm trying to download that song. if you know the name of the son can u tell me. or if you know if the commercial is even sprint or not.
thanks for any info. (link)
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The song is Secret Lovers
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well me and muh boiifrined jusr broke up and i rally liked him. lets just say i was really hooked. and i think he left me for another gurl but i aint sure. and this is like the third time i get muh heartbroken this bad. and im so thinkin bout becomin a lesbian. wut should i do?? (link)
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You can't just 'become a lesbian.' You can't just decide you are going to be a lesbian one day. And lesbian relationships are no different than other relationships. There still is a possibility that you can get your heart broken. It takes time to get over someone and move on. Don't worry, it will happen.
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would it be rude if i broke up with someone in a letter? (link)
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I don't know about rude, but it would be saying you can't do it face-to-face. It needs to be done in person, I think it's the best way.
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Ok so a lot of people tell me i am too thin. I've done those online calculators and they say i am, but you can't really trust those things because they don't take in to consideration a lot of important factors, you know. So, I thought if people could look at my pic site and give me their honest opinion? Thanks. http://www.picturetrail.com/photos/blondina75 (link)
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Okay you are really skinny. And that might not be your fault. We don't know what your eating habits are or anything. Maybe you need to eat more, or maybe you just might have something where you are just naturally skinny. Either way talk to a doctor, see what the doctor says.
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Can an exes really be friends after a break-up that neither one knows why it ended? I need straight to the point answers (link)
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Yes they can. I went out with my ex a couple times, one time for four months. And now he is my best friend. But also, it might not happen. Just give it time, and see what happens. But exes can be friends.
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Am I the only one alive who thinks it's terrible that kids (13-16) are having sex? I'm only 18, but when I was 13, I was riding my bike and doing karate, not giving blowjobs on the school bus. But thats the norm now, and if you haven't had sex by the time you're 17, you must be ugly or way religeous. What on earth!? Am I the only one disgusted by this trend? (link)
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No, I think it's horrible too. I'm sixteen and only had one real serious boyfriend. And then we didn't go all the way. I'm not ready, but I know people that have gone all the way when they were like 13, or have just done things. I remember when I was younger, just running around playing tag and such. I'll wait to have sex till I'm ready. Others should wait to, but they don't find it a big deal or anything. It's not right, society is just showing it's okay. But it's not.
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So I'm gay not like flaming gay, but gay none the less... Last night was our homecoming dance and I brought a date which was a guy... I slow danced with him and everything and apparently everyone was looking at us because my friends warned me that I might get some shit on monday about it... what should I do? (link)
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Don't do anything. Just ignore anything that comes your way; be who you are and don't be afraid to show it. Society nowadays sucks, they think anything that isn't normal to them is just so horrible and it shouldn't around. Well, that's not true. Being gay is just fine, and don't worry about what others have to say about it. Stick with the ones that support you and aren't against you. Be yourself.
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Me and my boyfriend are planning on having sex soon. Neither of us have ever done it before, so we have no idea what you are supposed to do without getting hurt. I am 13 and he is 14, do you think that it to early, even with protection?? Any advice would help. (link)
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You guys are way too young. You still have your whole life ahead of you. And you may end up regreting it later one in life. And even with protection, you can still get pregnant, and no one wants to be pregnant at 13, or even at a young age. Wait several more years, you can't have your first time over again.
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i was raped when i was younger and i don't know what to do anymore it haunts me in my sleep. I think about it all the time and when i see any of the guys that did that to me i freak out i start crying and they were all over five years ago so i can't go to the police and tell them i was raped i don't know any of the guys names. All i know is that they used to date my mom and when i told my mom that they were doing that to me she didn't believe me. I am now in foster care and i don't ever see my mom. But that fact that i was raped is scary and i need all the help and advice that i can get. so please anyone help me. (link)
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Oh I am so sorry that happened to you. It shouldn't happen to anyone. And it's not fair that your own mom didn't believe you. You can always talk to a therapist. That might help. You just need to talk to someone, and try to get through it. Talk to a counselor, therapist, or some adult you trust. This is very hard to get through, so you need someone to talk to. I hope you can get help and talk to someone.
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Okay soo I'm a 15 year old female. I've been going out with my boyfriend for just over a month now. I love spending time with him! but i see him more as a friend than anything else. When we kiss there just arent any sparks. I'm afraid of hurting him, but i think if i stay with him ill just hurt him more later on... any ideas? (link)
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I've gone through this before and I ended it. But the problem with me was that I ended it too late so I feel like he was hurt even more. So if you are 100% sure that you don't want this any more, talk to him before it's later. Explain it to him, and try doing it face-to-face.
And luckily for me, my ex is one of my best friends. Maybe it will be the same for you. Just be 100% sure that you do want to stay with him, b/c if you aren't you may have doubts afterwards if you break up with him. I've through this before so I know. Just be sure, and go with your heart. Hope this helped some.
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Sometimes when im alone in my room i will talk to myself..like its hard to explain but i talk to myself out loud..except i answer myself too..its like i work myself thru my problems by talking to myself..does anyone else do this? or is there something wrong with me? i feel stupid for doing it and if anyone were to ever hear me i would die but is it okay to do this? (link)
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Don't feel stupid about it. I talk to myself A LOT!! I have been for a long time. Sometimes I don't even realize that I am doing it until something clicks. So, there's nothing wrong with you. Don't worry about, I don't.
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ohkay, everyone is telling me that the world is going to end in 4 days (6-6-06) (the devil's number.) I AM REALLY SCARED OVER THIS. I CAN BARLEY SLEEP. im like pettrified. is what they're telling me true or is a myth? and do you believe it? and should i be scared?
thanks guys. (link)
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The world isn't going to end on 6/6/06. Besides, actually the date is 06-06-06, the zeros are in the way, so it isn't really 666. It's just a myth people keep saying because it's the devil's number.
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What is 666? I know it has something to do with the devil.. I'm an atheist, so I don't know what it is and why the heck everyone is so worked up. Can someone please explain this to me? (link)
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It's the devil's number. And some people say everyone is going to die or whatever on that day. And that would really suck, considering it's my b-day. We aren't going to die, it's like the whole thing with January 1st 2000. It's craziness.
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I'll get to the point. when i was 6 & 11 i was rapped.Im 14 now but whenever im with my boyfriend and were kissing or somthing ill start screaming and hell be all scared that im dieing or somthing...what should i do? (link)
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Oh, I'm sorry. You should get help from someone, find someone to talk to. Maybe even slow down with your boyfriend, talk to him too. Things will get better.
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