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lesbian or no??
well me and muh boiifrined jusr broke up and i rally liked him. lets just say i was really hooked. and i think he left me for another gurl but i aint sure. and this is like the third time i get muh heartbroken this bad. and im so thinkin bout becomin a lesbian. wut should i do??
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One qustion, how do you "become" lesbian? You can't just decide you want to be and then later on be like "Oh no, I was only lesbian for 2 weeks." Which people tend to do alot. You can't "become" anything, you either are or you aren't. Sorry, it just pisses me off when people say that. Not trying t offend you, but that's kind of stupid.
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You could try being with a girl.. but a girl can also break your heart as easily as a guy can. The thing is.. you shouldn't get attached too much. Try not to in the few first months because chances are.. the relationship may not work out.
You're going to go through many relationships and many heart breaks. You have to prepare yourself for it.
Maybe he didn't leave you for another girl.. maybe he didn't want a relationship anymore because it can add stress. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with you.. but when you're in a relationship. You have to be in their life too and maybe that's taking out too much time.. and he has to get his school work done.. [if he's in school]
Many other girls have gotten their heart broken more than three times but kept going on strong and finally found a nice guy.
You could try to be with a girl .. not because guys hurt you too many times.. because maybe you really do like her.
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lesbians are hot
except the only thing with that plan is that you actually need to like girls. don't just become a lesbo because some guy dumped you
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You can't just 'become a lesbian.' You can't just decide you are going to be a lesbian one day. And lesbian relationships are no different than other relationships. There still is a possibility that you can get your heart broken. It takes time to get over someone and move on. Don't worry, it will happen.
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Becoming a lesbian won't keep you from having your heart broken... it can happen just the same! Lesbian relationships are just the same as heterosexual ones.
Also, you can't really decide to become a lesbian. It's just kind of something that you are or you aren't.
However, go ahead, try it out, and if you don't like it, you can always give men another try.
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Ok, wow, well first of all, you can't "become" a lesbian. You're either a lesbian or you're not. You can't just choose one day that you're going to be with girls. It doesn't work that way unless you are indeed ATTRACTED, physically/emotionally/sexually to girls. And that's something you can't just change.
And another thing. I'm guessing you're quite young. You can't give up on guys because you've had some break-ups. You're going to go through A LOT of break ups, even if you could indeed "turn" lesbian. Girls are just as much trouble, trust me, they just have different equipment.
You just have to date, have fun, and try not to get involved in too much drama or fall for someone too fast. Keep your head up and eventually you'll find the right person.
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Well, I don't think you can 'go' lesbian. You either like girls or you like guys or you like both.
But, it is a fact that women are turned on by other naked women.
Maybe that means that every woman is bisexual in a way. Interesting thought, huh?
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Go bi that way you really don't have to choose you like both
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