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Flashbacks from forever ago.
I'll get to the point. when i was 6 & 11 i was rapped.Im 14 now but whenever im with my boyfriend and were kissing or somthing ill start screaming and hell be all scared that im dieing or somthing...what should i do?
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i got raped to except i'm having a baby i don't like anyone tuching me now but i have consoling i know you don't want to but niether did i know i'm glad cause it helps me know i let only some peole i trust tuch me but i think you should do some consouling goodluck!!
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Talk to your mother, father, or guidance councelor, you shouldn't be coming to this site for something that serious. But yes, slow down with your boyfriend, explain what's happening, and maybe he'll help you get over it. Just tell him and maybe he'll stop freaking out when your kissing and you start screaming.
*~*~*~*Don't be shy~*~*~*~
-shygirl66
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Oh, I'm sorry. You should get help from someone, find someone to talk to. Maybe even slow down with your boyfriend, talk to him too. Things will get better.
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oh hunny... i'm sorry =/ i advise that you go see a psycologist so you can talk to someone about it and they can help you overcome your fears.. =[
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It just means that your not ready for that step. Wounds take a long time to heal...just tell him that you have reasons and yout not ready to take that step yet. If he loves you ... (and it sounds like he most deffinatly cares about you) then he wont need a reason and he'll just accept it for what it is.
*hope I helped*
-Pheobe-
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hey!! is this a new boyfriend? if so, then maybe you guys are just taking things a little too fast, considering all that you have gone through. talk to him about it, and tell him what happened. explain to him that you want to take things really slow. once you build your trust for him, and when you feel ready, you will be able to move on and do physical things like kissing with him! but all you can do right now is open up to him and explain to him what happened. if he understands and is supportive, he will be willing to give you as much time as you need! if not, then he just doesn't deserve you and you can go out there and find someone that does, and is willing to give you all the time you need! :)
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hey, you jsut have to learn how to trust your byofriend. if he loves you and cares about yo then him raping you shouldnt be a problem. cait &heaarts; = ].
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