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not really sure on what to do
ok so i am 15 and i have this friend and me and her are great friends but she considers me as a brother and not a boyfriend....i have told her s everal times that i feel like we can be more...and she doesnt want to ruin anything even though i know i would never let anything come between us EVER...she currently has a boyfriend of like 3 months but i kno he doesnt care for her because when ever she wants to see him he makes up an excuse not to and when i want to hang out with her she does the same thing to me...it just doesnt make sense and i dont know what to do...what should i do? i was considering sending her the link to the song For You I Will by Teddy Geiger..is that a good choice?
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Usually when a girl says that she considers you like a brother, it means she doesn't consider you more than that at all and she doesn't know any other way to tell you. I got that from a boy once. She could possibly change her mind, but probably not any time soon though because of her boyfriend. You should tell her that if this guy she is with isn't making her happy by not making time for her, that she deserves better. Whether she chooses to go for you or not. You could send her the song, and it may work, I don't know I'm not her. But if you want a girls interpretation, I did the best I could. Good luck!
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Very similiar situation as to one i use to have ok well maybe she is in kinda deep with this guy if she doesnt get the hint that he really doesnt like her and thats probably why shes ignoring you and if you ask me i think that you 2 being so close would be a kinda bad idea i'm sure now that if you were to go out with her things would be ok but remember YOU KNOW HER very well and things would probably feel weird if you guys broke up because whoever dumps who it will be weird think about it
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First of all i think that is the cutest thing ever. How much you like, would never let anything come between you guys, and how you would wanna send that song. BUT, she has a boyfriend. And until she realizes that your the better man, and that your into her more, your gunna have to let her me. Thats the one reason that song might now be the best idea. it might scare her a little bit, and think that you're like in love w/ her, what could be intimidating to her. Let her know that you like her in other ways. Just always be there for her, and call her and things like that. You could even kindly say that you think her current boyfriend is just making excuses. And even when he does make excuses be the guy thats willing to hang out w/ her anyway. You seem like you really like this girl, and she seems pretty lucky & blessed. But if after you tell her these things she still thinks of you as a brother, be that brother. You dont wanna lose the current friendship that you have. :] Hope that helps. Much love<3
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