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I am 16 and that girl that everyone asks for advice. I love helping people out. Ask me anything! =)

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does anybody know what love is? i have my own ideas about it, but i want to hear everyone
elses oppinion. So give me your definition of love, because i want to put them all together and come up with one definition!
thanks so much :)

Love is when you find that one person that you are complettely happy with. You are so happy about the good things that you would do anything to work out the bad. Love is when you would do anything for someone, regardless if they would do the same even though you hope with all your heart they would. Love is loving someone no matter what. And when your in love with someone, you always will be. No matter how hard you try to move you will still have feelings for that person. Love sucks, when you are not loved back =(.

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Hey I was wondering if you knew anything about the different kinds of Nexopia fonts other than Arial, Times, Courier, Impact, Geneva or Optima
thanks

No i dont know anything about them but this site might be helpful.

http://www.nexopia.com/faq.php?cat=2&q=21

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I have never kissed my boyfriend before. We have only been dating for two weeks. I have only seen him 3 times. I talk to him on the phone everyday. But we have an age difference... 3 years! I really like him, but i'm not sure he completely feels the same way. I really want to kiss him so badly. But however i dont want to act like a little kid planning my kiss and sex. So should i ask him or should I just kiss him?

HEY! Im goin to be very honest here...stop worying about it! And asking will make you look like an idiot. You have only seen him three times of course hes not going to like you alot yet its only been to weeks. Just wait when the moments right go for the kiss. Dont plan and dont ask. Wait until the times right and make it a great kiss something he will remeber. =P
Hope I helped

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I'm dating my bestfriends older sisters ex-boyfriend lets just call my bestfriend Kay. I want to tell her, but she might tell her sister lets call her Amanda. Should i tell "Kay" or should I keep it a secret until everyone knows? And what if "Kay" doesn't want to be friends anymore. Oh yeah and i'm the young one in the relationship.

Look if you really like this person you are going to have to tell "Kay" eventually, she is your best friend. And it will be really messed up if she finds out after everyone else. I'm pretty sure she wont get mad, but it might bother "Amanda." Even if it does she probably wont say anything. But if thier relationship ended it was for a reason and she has to learn to move on, you did nothing wrong and dont have to keep this a secret from your best friend. And if you do it would be pointless cause she would eventuall find out.
Hope I helped =)

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15 / Female

Every two weeks I like to go one day with out eating, or skipping a meal. I do not do it to lose weight but I have heard it is good for you ( I still drink water ) and it helps to flush out toxins in your body. Is this true? I regularily eat small meals throughout the day that are healthy and I get usually 2-4 hours of exercise a day. After fasting for a day I continue with my normal eating pattern and I do not try to eat a lot to make up for it.

This is beneficial, right?

Everyone has a different opinion on fasting but i think one every two weeks is a little to much, I think once every two months should be more like it. It does get rid of some toxins in your body and cleans out your liver. And although it detoxifies your body you are also not getting the nutrients you need. So once every two months should be better than every two weeks. And though some say its beneficial most likely you wont be able to tell much of a diffrence for a long time. But your liver and colon will thank you lol.

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so sorry, i hope you wouldn't mind if I gave it another try?
http://i45.photobucket.com/albums/f98/fresiangrl/meee-1.jpg
dont mind the thing tht says abercrombie.

Sry but it still doesnt work, I would love to help help, and you can ask me as much as you want but try to get that link to work, check if you still have that photo in your photo bucket album album.

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i heard on a women there are spot that make them "moan" or feel good..well i was wondering what those are b.c i think ive encountered it with my boyfriend or sumthing when he kisses my neck. so is there such a thing? thanks

Yes there are certain spots on the body that when touched corectly make you "feel good" , and so when you feel good you moan, totally normal. These spots are spots that have alot of nerve endings. Your neck is one of your spots, some other nerve endings are:

*The back of the neck

**Finger tips

**The bottom part of the ear

******Nape of neck

**In where your arm bends

**The bottom of the foot

***Inner thigh

***Under the belly button

*Behind the knees


(the more *'s, the more nerve endings)

and alot more let your bf find them for you =P lol

By the way they are called Erogenous Zones

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sorry, something happened with the link i think. heres the picture.
http://i45.photobucket.com/albums/f98/fresiangrl/meee.jpg

I am so sorry but the picture still does not show. It says:
Oops! My image for this link is no longer here. Hosted at photobucket. com

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This is the picture I am asking about:
http://i45.photobucket.com/albums/f98/fresiangrl/meee.jpg

and here are some other other pictures of me that you can compare the first one to so you can sort of see how I look in diferent outfits/times.
http://i45.photobucket.com/albums/f98/fresiangrl/DSCF0646.jpg
http://i45.photobucket.com/albums/f98/fresiangrl/DSCF0407.jpg
http://i45.photobucket.com/albums/f98/fresiangrl/DSCF0551.jpg

This is actually a REALLY important question. Well, for me anyway. I know that this doesn't match up to scuicide and stuff, but i rate 5's for nearly any answer.
I don't mind if you say that this picture is not a good one. As long as your honest, you get a 5. I would love to have answers that explain how that picture may or may not be good.

It say that your image for that link is no longer there...

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Ok..for the last couple of days I have been having the headaches that last all day. I've already started my period for this month, and it hasn't gone away yet. Usually if I'm having headaches before my period, they go away once I start it. But these are so bad that they're affecting my personal life. i can't do any too streneous or hard working because it hurts so much. I've already taken Tylenol, Advil, ect..but nothing working. What's wrong with me and how can I fix it??

The best thing to do would be to go to the doctor to make sure theres nothing wrong. Besides that midol works well and try and have a full day of rest, and I dont mean just sleep all day. Eat right and have plenty of fruits and veggies dont watch too much TV and stay off the computer and take a nap. You will probably feel alot better when you wake up, but try and relax and not to stress over things. When ever I have those headaches I just take a shower, eat an apple, go to my room, turn everything off and take a good nap. It helps. if you tryed this and it still wont go away visit the doc.

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14/f...i have oily skin and i break out a lot all over my face. i use an acne product twice a day and also use olay lotion. but whenever i put a foundation on my skin gets dry and looks all peely...i don' think it is my foundation since it happens no matter what foundation i use and it just started happening. it is the worst on my chin...it is like litten triangles of dry skin all over it. i really want it to go away and i don't know what else to do besides put lotion on it. THANKS!

It seems like you r face is reacting to too many products. Try to just wash you face with nutrigena in the morning and at night following with mosturizer at night..do that fro a week. After that week the same thing except at night wash,then use a toner toner, and then mosturize. This will probably clear up your face and let it relax. Try keeping your hair of your face and sleeping with your face facing up and not in your pillow, this could cause irrtation and pimples as well

hope i helped

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If a pregnant woman is killed, it's considered a double homicide then why are abortions looked upon differently? I've heard things like when a pregnant woman is killed, it wasn't her choice but it is her choice in the case of an abortion. But, she isn't killing herself when it comes to abortions; she's doing it to another, developing human being. So that just doesn't make sense to me.

Well in my opinion weather it doesnt matter if when you have an abortion you are killing or not, it is still wrong to me. That child had the chance to live and after the abortion it doesn't. Theres alot of hard choices some people have to make though, for example if a women is raped and pregnant. I think abortion is wrong, that is just my opnion and I had to say it.

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What are some nick names to call guys?
Like they call girls babe and stuff like that.
But what can we call them, that they won't hate?
For like really good friends (friends with benifits) or a boyfriend.

I call my bf sex muffin, but yea anything that will make them see more hot than cute works arounf there friends but hey when you two are alone, guys actually like those corny names I love this website check it out:

http://www.cornynames.com/

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what is the fastest way to loose 15 pounds?

Stop worry about the fast way cause that will just make the fat come back. Eat good foods like fruit and veggies and meat. At you can have your carbs (bread,pasta,ect)but try not to at dinner so you can rest without worry about burning off the carbs. Excercise, just move more than you do now take the stairs instead of the escalator, walk, maybe hit the gym? Just move around and eat right and you will lose weight and keep it off.

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Hi im an average 16 year old teenage girl thats just really confused about a lot going on in her life. ive been hurt so many times before and i dont know how to handle. ive been abused by my boyfriends and i thought everything was turning around when i met my last boyfriend. we can just call him A. everything was going perfect we went out for a year and a half and i love him with all my heart. my parents did not like him though and the one night we got into a fight about it and he thought it would be better for me if we broke up for i could have a normal relationship for once...i didnt want it but yah thats what happend...ive been doing my best to win him back..but he's already going out with a girl he just met not even a week and a half ago..it hurts so bad..they leave lovey dovey comments back and forth on myspace that makes me sick to my stomach...and then she brags about how shes so much better then me..she's a bitch on top of it and im not just saying that cuz im an x girlfriend. something i made for my x, something that was really important she ruined and yah ..it hurt so much and he "yelled" at her but they are still together. i just dont understand and when i ask him about it he says he just wants to see wat will happen between him and her..did i mention shes 14..he's almost 16 shes going into highschool he's going to be a jr..he tells me its not gonna work and hes gonna be running back to me but i cant wait forever for him...it hurts so bad and it gets me so sick thinking about it..i dont know what to do will someone please give me some advice...

michelle...

Girl it is tough I know but you got to listen to me ok. Leave him alone. You will get him back. Stop asking him about you two, and act as if you dont even care. Take care of your self, of your skin, hair, fitness, health school, and forget about this boy. Still talk to him as a friend though. But go out with you friends and have fun. Atleast pretend that you are happy. And trust me he will come crawling back to you. He probably wants to but he knows he can be with this girl for a while and you will still take him back. Make him think you dont even care anymore. He will be the one asking for you back. When he starts flirting tell him that you never cared what your parents thought about him that you really liked him but its to bad that it had to end like that. then say oh well and quickly change the subject as if you really dont care. Your might believe thathtis will happen but trust me...it will...If by any chanceit doesnt its because there is something better out htere for you. Be happy your young, enjoy it.

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Is there any way i can take all my friends for my myspace account and bring them to my new one?

POST a bulletin with the new page your going to create and tell them to add you. Put in your headline "I HAVE A NEW MYSPACE.. ADD ME!!!"
and there you go

=)

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Everything's bothering me

My friend has become the center of attention; the one everyone likes

Where's Caitlin in all this?

All I want is one guy

Jus for one guy to like me

For me to be real and not fake

To be recognized by some of my favoirite people

If I could give up my whole life for just one day of happiness, I'd do it

One day of me knowing the kid I like likes me back

My friend just doesn't get it

For ONCE I want the guy to fall in love with me, not her

Everyone likes her

She doesn't even know it, but it's true

And what am I...

-Kandi

Girl that your problem. Stop worrying about your friend, and stop being depressed!!!! Listen people like being around happy people. Let me guess your friend is really friendly and always seems to have a smile on her face, right? People like that. Stop being jealouse of your friend. Dedicate sometime to yourself go shoping and dont worry about guys. Make the guys you like your friends and dont obesses over them, just be happy worry about school and staying in shape. Then everyone will focus on you. Get a hobby so you have something to talk about. Try something cool like scuba diving or i dont know. Trust me it sounds hard but it is easy. You dont have to be fake, but be happy because you have no reason to be upset. do this and your whole life will turn around.

Smiles =)

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This is mostly for girls I guess..... I went camping a while back and meet this really nice guy and we hit it off immediately...but at the point I didn't think about it. when i got home he had left me a message basiclly telling me that he really liked me and he wanted to hook up while we were camping. After a while of getting to like and know this guy, I realize that i am too young for him and we live to far away from eachother to have a relationship. The same day I told him this he gets a girlfriend. My friends say that I shouldn't talk to him and I should give him the cold shoulder, but I don't know what I'm going to do because he is coming down (a 2 hr drive) to see me, should I see him and be friends with him or should I call the trip off for him?

Sry bout length

NO! dont give him the cold shoulder. Heres why. He might have gotten mad and just gotten with this girl to get you angry. Let him think it doesnt bother you!!! HAHA. lol Be friends with him, theres nothing wrong with that!!! Besides I think he still likes ya considering he driving two hours to see you. And keep in touch with him (but sont always be the one keeping in touch let him call you up sometimes too) things might turn around. He might move or break up with this girl. You never know what is going to happen and there nothing wrong if you just stay friends. Just make sure not to mention his girlfriend ok?

GOOD LUCK
and i sure hope i helped

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Does anyone know how to put on liquid eye liner? when i try to do it, it always ends up going into my eye or it smears! =[

Yea it can be a pain cant it? Well you have to have a steady hand to o this, and practice makes perfect. What I do is make sure my eye is closed well and use my finger to stretch it to the side a little then with my other hand starting from the center I go out to the end as far as I like. As far as it going into your eye thats probably cause it is not fully closed or!!! because there is too much of the liquid on the eyeliner. Keep practiceing =P

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Hi. If it helps, I'm 15/f. Ok, I think I might be gay or bi. Lately, I have found myself wanting to be with a girl more than with a guy. A few weeks ago I was at the waterpark with a friend, and I checked out almost every pretty girl I saw. Now, honestly, I don't know if it is because I might be gay, or because I find myself wanting to be a lot like them. Also, there is this girl at my school who just graduated. We were friends, and she was also gay. We played softball together for 2 years. I found myself wanting to be with her more and more everyday. I have had this 'crush' on her for as long as we have known each other. First, it started out with her looks, but I as I got to know her, it became stronger. I haven't had a real 'crush' on a guy since then. I don't really find any boys that attractive any more, but I find myself checking out girls more and more often. Also, when I watch movies, I check out the girls more than the guys. It's just like the guys are there, and the girls are there for me. It's hard to explain. I mean, I don't really want a boyfriend. As awkward as this sounds, I WANT A GIRLFRIEND! You know, how usually girls dream of doing sexual things with a hot guy they see in a movie or something? I do that with girls!! Someone please tell me your honest opinion.

Alot of females have been going threw the same thing you are, me being one of them. It could just be phase. Nowadays people are really testing thier sexual boundaries, since being gay and bisexual is excepter more. But the truth is if you find a girl you want to be with, be with her, if you find a guy you want to be with be with him. Dont worry about being gay or not worry about being happy, dont label yourself! Experiment if you feel comfortable with it. The more you do the more you will find out baout your sexuality. Just please...Be Safe and use the proper protection!!!!

Hope I helped

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