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Not sure he wants to


Question Posted Friday July 14 2006, 8:51 pm

I have never kissed my boyfriend before. We have only been dating for two weeks. I have only seen him 3 times. I talk to him on the phone everyday. But we have an age difference... 3 years! I really like him, but i'm not sure he completely feels the same way. I really want to kiss him so badly. But however i dont want to act like a little kid planning my kiss and sex. So should i ask him or should I just kiss him?

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karenR answered Saturday July 15 2006, 1:32 pm:
I see nothing wrong with you kissing him if you want to. I don't think he will feel it was planned out.

It hasn't been that long though. You may want to try and hold on a little longer and see if he makes the move. Does he consider you his girlfriend or is he just giving you a ride? You need to be careful not to scare him away if he hasn't gotten to the point yet of being boyfriend/girlfriend. :)

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orphans answered Saturday July 15 2006, 7:31 am:
you should just kiss him. thats part of dating, he probably wants to too

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Blue421 answered Saturday July 15 2006, 12:28 am:
First off, let me just tell you...Im 16 and Ive never been kissed. My first boyfriend was way too shy and in my second relationship, I was way too shy!

Its possible that he is just shy about the whole kissing thing, so if you are comfortable with it, go ahead and ask him about it.

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GateKeeper answered Saturday July 15 2006, 12:24 am:
Im not really sure what to do here but i can tell you what my first kiss with my girl was like and i kno i like her method so maybe you could use it
well she pulled me over and lied her head on my lap( we were at my bro's weddin, hell of a first date) and we started flirting and stuff, and then i mentioned how much i wanted to kiss her(i was on a sugar high and a bit drunk or else i'd have been to nervous to say that) and she smiled and said she wanted to kiss me, then we flirted more and she grabbed me said"Good God must i do everything" winked then kissed me
i loved it and love her
Hope that story gave you some ideas
GoodLuck
Jon a.K.a GateKeeper

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someone1234 answered Friday July 14 2006, 10:01 pm:
HEY! Im goin to be very honest here...stop worying about it! And asking will make you look like an idiot. You have only seen him three times of course hes not going to like you alot yet its only been to weeks. Just wait when the moments right go for the kiss. Dont plan and dont ask. Wait until the times right and make it a great kiss something he will remeber. =P
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longing_to_feel_ur_touch answered Friday July 14 2006, 9:38 pm:
Since you've only seen eachother 3 times, you shouldnt worry about kissing him yet. Just let it happen naturally. Im sure he'll kiss you soon. Also he might be afraid that you dont wanna kiss yet. Try leaning close to him to show that you wanna kiss him too, then let him take it from there. goodluck! xoxo

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grkadvisor answered Friday July 14 2006, 9:36 pm:
its ok if you havent kissed him just show him you want to kiss him get close to him and meet him half way and then he meets you the rest so he wont feel like you made the move because most guys would like to feel confident and tell other guys that he kissed you and you didnt kiss him its a guys ego and if he doesnt go the half way that would probably mean he doesnt like you

Hope I Helped a little
I wish you the best of luck
Let me know what happens i would like to hear the end of this

~GrkAdvisor~

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