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Should she know?
I'm dating my bestfriends older sisters ex-boyfriend lets just call my bestfriend Kay. I want to tell her, but she might tell her sister lets call her Amanda. Should i tell "Kay" or should I keep it a secret until everyone knows? And what if "Kay" doesn't want to be friends anymore. Oh yeah and i'm the young one in the relationship.
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you should tell her if she is your best friend she and or her sister might be mad for a while but its better then her never trusting you again
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You should tell Kay about it. If her sister finds out and doesn't like then its really just to bad. They didn't work out and people need to move on.
If you just let Kay find out from others your friendship is going to suffer. She will wonder why you didn't tell her yourself. She will be mad that she found out after everyone else already knew about it.
If Kay doesn't like it then its to bad. Unless you intend to drop your boyfriend because she has a fit about it don't let it worry you. She will get over it eventually if shes any kind of friend. :)
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Look if you really like this person you are going to have to tell "Kay" eventually, she is your best friend. And it will be really messed up if she finds out after everyone else. I'm pretty sure she wont get mad, but it might bother "Amanda." Even if it does she probably wont say anything. But if thier relationship ended it was for a reason and she has to learn to move on, you did nothing wrong and dont have to keep this a secret from your best friend. And if you do it would be pointless cause she would eventuall find out.
Hope I helped =)
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i think you should just tell "kay". Her sister probly wont be mad becuz their not even dating anymore. And if you dont tell "kay" then she might get mad that u didnt tell her. Try just talkin to "kay" and tell her not to tell her sister though, just let the sister find out on her own.
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