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Is he worth it


Question Posted Friday July 14 2006, 8:38 pm

Well back in september me and this dood BOB started going out. which made me real happy cus i liked him ALOT for a few years now. everything was good until one day he randomly dumped me for no reason he told my best friend to tell me it was over cus he felt like it. that was the only reason. It really hurt me. we didnt talk for 2 months. and we started going back out again in febuary. i guess things were decent. then over time i started seeing problems with him and then one day he randomly ditched me and would not talk to me for like 2 weeks (we live like 4 houses away from eachother and both have fones, so theres no rreason) and when ever id call him hes always busy with this slutty chick and his little friends. and the time that we ever did spend together, he was always high, and because he was high, he didnt listen to me, or understand, or focus and he would be such an ass.
So i called him and told him what i just told you and said we need to break up he said Ok iwas sorta thinking that too. and yet again didnt give me a reason on why he wanted to , or why he blew me off for two weeks. But for somereason, i still really like him. i feel like im over him, then i suddenly reallllly miss him. and im wondering if hes worth missing. I realllly loved him. he was the most greatest thing i had, until he started being so lame. I did like him, but i know i dont ned that kind of person in my life, some one whose always high and ditching me and breaks up with out a reason. i dont know if hes worth my compassion..?


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karenR answered Saturday July 15 2006, 1:37 pm:
You don't mention your ages but I'm guessing he is just immature. He probably isn't ready to be dating anyone. If he is always high then that is his main priority anyway.

Guys who use drugs don't make good boyfriends. You can't compete, it isn't anything you did wrong. Find yourself a nice guy and forget this one. :)

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Jitter answered Friday July 14 2006, 9:28 pm:
hey look the boy is not worth your time he just takin adavnatage of you that knowin that fact that no matter what your going to be on his ass and he enjoys it... you gotta notice what type of guy he is you wanna be thing about a guy that doesn't show you the love you show him you know you want a boy that shows he loves you... the thing is that boy is immature and thinks he has games you gotta show him that he doesn't and make him look bad... you shouldn't be cryin for a guy that does appreciate a girl like you just look for a guy that you know that would never waste your time.... hope I helped =)

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worrywart answered Friday July 14 2006, 9:19 pm:
I agree with Sara, get out of the relationship. If he's done this to you--here you say twice or so, then he's going to keep doing it. It also seems that he doesn't care about the relationship as much as you do and any girl would deserve better than that.

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sassysara answered Friday July 14 2006, 9:08 pm:
Ok I don't know how old you are but it sounds like you are a teen, I would suggest you get out now. You don't want to start on a cycle of dating losers, also no one deserves to be treated the way you were, he sounds like a user and an abuser.

You are worth dating a guy who not only treats you with respect but realizes that he has a true gift in dating you.

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