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im so confused =(
Hi im an average 16 year old teenage girl thats just really confused about a lot going on in her life. ive been hurt so many times before and i dont know how to handle. ive been abused by my boyfriends and i thought everything was turning around when i met my last boyfriend. we can just call him A. everything was going perfect we went out for a year and a half and i love him with all my heart. my parents did not like him though and the one night we got into a fight about it and he thought it would be better for me if we broke up for i could have a normal relationship for once...i didnt want it but yah thats what happend...ive been doing my best to win him back..but he's already going out with a girl he just met not even a week and a half ago..it hurts so bad..they leave lovey dovey comments back and forth on myspace that makes me sick to my stomach...and then she brags about how shes so much better then me..she's a bitch on top of it and im not just saying that cuz im an x girlfriend. something i made for my x, something that was really important she ruined and yah ..it hurt so much and he "yelled" at her but they are still together. i just dont understand and when i ask him about it he says he just wants to see wat will happen between him and her..did i mention shes 14..he's almost 16 shes going into highschool he's going to be a jr..he tells me its not gonna work and hes gonna be running back to me but i cant wait forever for him...it hurts so bad and it gets me so sick thinking about it..i dont know what to do will someone please give me some advice...
michelle...
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I think he might be keeping you as a spare, a second option, Dont let him make you that. I know this will be hard, but try to forget about him for now. I know it hurts seeing someone you really like with someone else, but i had to deal with it, people have to, people have to move on. It will be hard but its what you have to do. Try get yourself a bf and see how he reacts, by his reaction you will know if he really cares for you. If you dont want to do this talk to him, tell him you dont like this girl and tell him you dont want to be his second option, tell him its you or her, tell him you are not gonna wait around forever and he need to make up his mind at stick to it. I wish you well.
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It seems to me like he's making you wait just so he has another 'option'.
And let me tell you: YOU'RE WORTH MORE THAN JUST AN OPTION.
I know that it's going to be hard, but I advice you to just forget him and move on because I believe that if you got back together, the relationship won't go anywhere.
Hope I helped you a lil' bit.
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Girl it is tough I know but you got to listen to me ok. Leave him alone. You will get him back. Stop asking him about you two, and act as if you dont even care. Take care of your self, of your skin, hair, fitness, health school, and forget about this boy. Still talk to him as a friend though. But go out with you friends and have fun. Atleast pretend that you are happy. And trust me he will come crawling back to you. He probably wants to but he knows he can be with this girl for a while and you will still take him back. Make him think you dont even care anymore. He will be the one asking for you back. When he starts flirting tell him that you never cared what your parents thought about him that you really liked him but its to bad that it had to end like that. then say oh well and quickly change the subject as if you really dont care. Your might believe thathtis will happen but trust me...it will...If by any chanceit doesnt its because there is something better out htere for you. Be happy your young, enjoy it.
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