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Okay so i'm 14, and my boyfriend is 17.(he just turned it about a month ago, and i am turning 15 in November).
We are seriously crazy about each other, and if you want to say that a 14 doesn't know what love is, then i'm the next closest thing to it. We've been together for about a year (16 days shy). We want to be together forever. Yeah, you can think we're crazy, it's alright. lol. What i'd like to know is, is it normal to feel like this at an age like 14, and is it realistic that we could last forever? (link)
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Yeah its right. I'm in the same possition too, the age gap for me and my boy is 2 yrs bigger but im so in love with him. He even asked me to marry him how sweet is he. I Love him with all my heart and soul.
SO yeah its normal and i think its realistic that you could last forever. Love has its arguments but if your really in love you'll get over them.
If your in love now, Your future is gonna be fantastic. I can garatee it.
Good Luck
Hope Your realtionship is as good as mine. (Im 14 too by the way) And i hope you 2 stay happy forever together :)
hugs
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okay this is how it goes....
a friend of mine recently quit the smoking habit although he still is a heavy drinker,and the wierd part is that his girl left him because of he quit the smoking habit.So my question is,do girls get turned on by smokers or off?and do girls mind if their guys are drinkers? and finally,what should I say to my friend's girl?cause we all are pretty good friends and I wish I could help mend their relationship.thanks (link)
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Hey i think most girls are turned off my smokers. Heavy drinking is somthing that might be a turn off but its also not good to do so.
Ask your friends girl why she dumped him, if it WAS cos he quit smoking tell her she is very foolish and ask her why she was with him in the first place. Cause if she dumped him cos he quit smoking i think she proberly didnt like him much in the first place. But there might be other reason why she dumped him so ask her about it. Cause it does seem a prety dumb reason to dump someone.
I wish you luck sorting out your friends relationship.
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hi, has anyone on here ever gone from total unsatisfaction to loving their lives and not wanting to trade their memories for anything in the world?? what was it that made that change? new awesome friends? a bf/gf? some kind of amazing experience?
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well i dont know how you feel but yea i have been something like you discribe. my bf made me feel alot better cos he is the one and he makes be feel special and important. My friends also helped been there for me and helping me along the way. Life is good when you got your friends around and been in love well, makes life worth living, cause you know your special and wanted by someone :) hope i helped good luck
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Is facial hair on a 15/m attractive or is it showing that your a some kind of beast (link)
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if you look older than you are then yea i think its attractive im 14/f and i know sum1 my age who i think looks atractive with facial hair so screw every one else
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Can stores have surveillance cameras in changerooms? Like right in the stalls where you change? Would they be monitored?
Thanks
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No its illeagal but i just wondered, why do u wanna know? im curious
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out of opinion, would you say that 5'4'' was tall or short for a 15 year old girl?
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well im 5ft nothing and 14 so id say average maybe a lil short like me :D
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i was in a car crash and ive lost mst of my penis and im paranoid girls wont like me! help! (link)
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Thankz for all your help but i got a new problem. im really scared of having surgery - This is my friend not me btw im a girl :D but he wont listen to me.
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ok this guy i have liked 4 2 years we went out once but we have been good friends since and i have never gotten over him i ahve always loved him and im not sure if he likes me back like he always wants to hug me at school and he always holds me in his arms and he awlays wants me to call him and he always says sweet things he loves talking to em and im his favourite person to talk to and im fun and he makes me love him even more we talk everyday and it rives me crazy i was just wondering does he like me or not plz tell me
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Well i think yeah he does like you, but to be 100% id ask him if he does like you and if he'd like to go out sum time. Its like almost certain that he likes you so go for i. The way he acts around you it seems like hes already going out with you. So Yeah he so loves you.
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Hey again, dont be scared to ask him out just say it, he likes you so there is no fear of rejection so no need to be scared :D
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Hi I'm Adam and 16 Years old. heres my question:
I like (ok love) this girl. I have tried working some kind of relationship out with her but she didnt want it. Shes not dating anyone and she likes me as a friend alot. I want her so bad though. Shes the only one I want and nothing will make me change that. What is there I can do to make her go for me?
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Well if your really close friends with her then that is a good thing. Sometime friendships can develop into more over time. As long as she knows how you feel, just give it some time and see what happens. You cant really "make" her go for you, but you never know after time of you likeing her and you been very close friends she might just develop feelings for you. So i just say wait and see what happens. Hope all goes well
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(im 14)Well my boyfriend and i have madeout many times and he puts his hand up my shirt and thats all we've done. i really love him alot and whenever im with him i kinda feel lustful...and i often find myself wanting to do much more than what we do but NOT sex..well one time i was jokin around and took my shorts off jokingly and asked him if he wanted me to keep them off and he looked SHOCKED. he was like ur so innocent and i like that..i cant see u doing anything..but what if i get so horny that i WANNA do something? would my boyfriend break up with me because im not the innocent sweetheart i seem to be? (link)
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easy as do what you want to. He wont change the way he feels about you just because your not as inecont as you seem, If you wanna do summate go for it! He's trying to protect you, he cares about you and he just wants to make sure everything you do is in your best interests. Next time you get really horney just tel him what you want to do. GoodLuck! You seem to have a really nice guy with you, dont lose that.
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Hi im an average 16 year old teenage girl thats just really confused about a lot going on in her life. ive been hurt so many times before and i dont know how to handle. ive been abused by my boyfriends and i thought everything was turning around when i met my last boyfriend. we can just call him A. everything was going perfect we went out for a year and a half and i love him with all my heart. my parents did not like him though and the one night we got into a fight about it and he thought it would be better for me if we broke up for i could have a normal relationship for once...i didnt want it but yah thats what happend...ive been doing my best to win him back..but he's already going out with a girl he just met not even a week and a half ago..it hurts so bad..they leave lovey dovey comments back and forth on myspace that makes me sick to my stomach...and then she brags about how shes so much better then me..she's a bitch on top of it and im not just saying that cuz im an x girlfriend. something i made for my x, something that was really important she ruined and yah ..it hurt so much and he "yelled" at her but they are still together. i just dont understand and when i ask him about it he says he just wants to see wat will happen between him and her..did i mention shes 14..he's almost 16 shes going into highschool he's going to be a jr..he tells me its not gonna work and hes gonna be running back to me but i cant wait forever for him...it hurts so bad and it gets me so sick thinking about it..i dont know what to do will someone please give me some advice...
michelle...
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I think he might be keeping you as a spare, a second option, Dont let him make you that. I know this will be hard, but try to forget about him for now. I know it hurts seeing someone you really like with someone else, but i had to deal with it, people have to, people have to move on. It will be hard but its what you have to do. Try get yourself a bf and see how he reacts, by his reaction you will know if he really cares for you. If you dont want to do this talk to him, tell him you dont like this girl and tell him you dont want to be his second option, tell him its you or her, tell him you are not gonna wait around forever and he need to make up his mind at stick to it. I wish you well.
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Well, I live in New Jersey, and there is this really cute boy named Tiger (it's his nickname, lol)
In the beginning of the year, Tiger and I became friends (I did not have a crush on him at the time). Then, I started to notice him, and started to like him. We were friends (Or so I *thought*). Until this aquaintance of mine (after I told her I liked him), she said "Oh, Tiger? I heard him and his friend talking about you. They said that you were kinda mean.
But I told them that you were really sweet" And she kept saying that. So, I trusted her, and basically eliminated Tiger from my life, and (xD gosh, I regret this now) I started being kinda mean to him. So, we weren't friends anymore. Later in the year, I discovered that my aquaintance Callie (the girl I told you about earlier) was a gossip, and she liked him too.
Then about 6 months after Tiger and I weren't friends anymore, our school took a trip to Paris for 5 days. I was in his group (but I had gotten over him by this time). Well, while we were there, we became friends, FAST. It was like magic really. And basically the whole trip, we talked to each other only.
So we came back. Things were a little different, but we were still good friends. And he sure acted like me, and all my friends would tease me on the trip and say "wow..he was all over you" and stuff like that. Anyways, it was pretty clear that he liked me.
I became friends with another girl named Tori. She told me she liked Tiger. I told her that I liked him too, and "Oh...maybe he likes you as well" So she started throwing herself at him. The closer she got to him, the farther Tiger and I grew apart. Then Tori told me one day that Tiger said "I'm glad Lily (me) doesn't like me anymore, because her friends were annoying".
Anyways, school has ended. And my (2) close friends tell me that he really does likes me, and looks sad when he looks at me or whatever.
I don't know who to believe. Next year, we're going to highschool. Should I just forget about? He could be lying. Any help is great, thanks. (link)
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Lily i dunno where to talk to you so just send the other info to my inbox id love to help you further
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i like this guy and hes REALLY hot, funny, nice.. my dream guy basically.... but he just thinks of me as a friend. i cant be more than that- ever because he always flirt with this REALLLYYYY pretty popular girl. its really beginning to annoy me. i guess you could say that i am jealous, but not really. i just wish he would think of me as more than a friend. ive considered asking him out.. but because hes so... well he knows how cool he is so its difficult. i think he may turn me down because he wants to wait for someone prettier and all that stuff that im not... so.. my question is- what do i do to get over him! i want to get over him! i want to move on and find other guys who can like me for me! so there are two parts to this... how do i get him to like me... if that fails, then how do i get over him!!??? i rate high to *serious* answers! (link)
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Well you cant GET someone to like you be yourself and if he doesnt like that then its his problem. Secondly dont put yourself down, a guy should like you for who you are not what you look like. Dont ask him out! If you do it will be wierd ans unconfortable and even if he wants to he might still say no out of panic. Now what you need to do is try to talk about it to him. If he is as nice as you say then he will understand. Make sure he knows that you dont want to change your relationshiop if he doesnt feel the same way. Just be yourself and talk it though if hes a decent guy he will understand and it will be fine. If that fails then you should go out and try to get a boyfriend be yourself around other guys and if there is another lad you like do and get close to him. But be carful dont ruin your relation ship with the guy u like stay friends if you cant be more. It'll work out, good luck.
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okayy..this is kinda confusing but yeahh. my cousin "tiffany" has a older brother named " bobby". well me and "tiffany" are best friends & im always back at her house. bobby has a friend named "timmy". okay. so the other night me and timmy stayed up intil bout 5 in the morning just talking and cuddling. i aint sure if he likes me or not and thats what my question is. hes kinda shy too, which i dont see why bc hes older than me. thanks. i rate high. (link)
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By the sound of it he does like you. If you are younger than him then he might be shy for that reason. He might not know how to act around someone you age or might find it strage likeing someone younger. Then again if the ages diference isnt that much then he might just a a shy person and i advise you to assure him you can trust him with anything and try to get closer to him. tell him how u feel and that will make it easyer for him to tell you how he feels. Just try to be the confident one. Good Luck
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how do most guys like pubic hair? (link)
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well most guys proberly shaved all off.
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i have a mole in my pubic area and i want to get it removed but i dont know what to tell my mom does it really mattter if i get it removed? (link)
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Nah dont bother getting it removed. Its fine. Leave it be, dont think it realy matters and some guys/girls might like it.
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I have been hanging out with this guy lately, and he acts like he likes me because he calls me everyday and he wants to come over everyday... and he flirts with me and stuff. He's also friends with one of my moms (younger) guy friends, Brian, and he's cool with my mom too through Brian. I know that sounds weird but it's not, he's 19 I'm 17. He also told Brian that he thinks I'm really pretty & hot and he wants to take it slow and he's not trying to put the moves on me. Which is weird, because he's not the type to "take it slow".. well he doesnt seem like it anyways, he seems more like a player but that might just be me judging him. Does it sound like he likes me? I want him to like me MORE though, how would I do that? I'll rate high for anyone who tries =) THANKS!!!! (link)
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Well if you like him go for it. Ask him how he feels about you and tell him how you feel and ask him what he thinks. If you dont want to do this then i sugest sticking close to him and been yourself. I think he does like you yes but he might me unsure how to go about his feelings. Dont press him and dont judge. Ask him how he feels about u and try figure it out with him. You need to be carful how you go about asking him as he might be unsure how to answer and what to say. If you dont want to talk about it to him then try get closer to him and see how he reacts. Hope all goes well.
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this probably going to be long to bare with me
me and my ex broke up on fathers day and.. its been 6 days. i miss him like crazy.. i didnt wan to break up but he said we had a bad relationhip and he wants to start over as friends. and.. i think thats good but.. i kinda was talking bout the breaking up thing when i i/med him the past 5 days and when he said he didnt want to talk bout it i would keep going on but like we were talking and i was like do you still love me hes like i love you yea and like 30 mins later after him telling me that and him telling me he didnt want to talk bout it i think i pushed him to saying he didnt want to be with me because he was like i dont want to be with you right now. i care bout you alot but i dont think its love
i want to date other girls i dont want to go out with you.. and i think i kinda pused him to saying it i dont know what to belive and..i wrote him a long myspace message saying sorry but i would rather talk to him about it on am
and i think im going to hurt my pride and ask him out in 2 weeks i really want to be with him and ill stoop to that level of asking him out i mean i kinda already messed my pride by going out with him 2 times..i want to be with him
and i thnk he wants to be with me...
and i have been trying to be his friend but everytime he blows me off it was his idea he needs to back it up seriosuly i have tried everything.. he ignores me on aim doesnt want me to call i dont know what to do
but i dont know what should i do should i type him the letter and see how he acts? and become friends then ask him back out..
or what??
i want real advice and i prosmise to rate high if you give me it
i need help!!! (link)
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Right, this is a toughy but ill try my best. You need to talk to him in person about it, dont let him avoid you and dont push him into doing or saying anything. As hard as this will be if he really wants to date other girls let him. If he doesnt mean it you will find out just stay close to him as a friend and everything will work out. Dont ask him back out right now. Become friends and see how it goes, he might change his mind just dont push him. Look after him as a friend for now and dont let your feelings for him ruin your relationship. Talk it through with him and make sure he understands how you feel and ask him how he feels too. Work it out by talking in person and u might be surprised what happens. Goodluck with your friend,
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My boobs are different sizes, I know thats normal but my doctor told me I was almost done with my "growing" and my left boob is almost 1 inch and a half bigger around the the other one. In a shirt it looks fine, cause of my bra, but when I wear a swimsuit it`s really noticable. I`ve tried doubling up on the padding in the smaller one but its the part that hangs out thats really noticable. Even friends I`ve never mentioned it to have said they`ve noticed it! What should I do and is this like .. unhealthy? (link)
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I have a question, how old are you. Because it is a common fact that breasts dont stop growing till you about 20-21 maybe a little older. A lot of people have this problem but padded swimsuits cxan be found to help for now. Good lUck
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This is strictly for the women on advicenators to answer. i am a male (21 years old) and I know it is typical of a guy to ask the question i have (in the title), and even more typical to be worried about it. i am not huge, nor am i claiming to be asking for a friend. i am average, maybe more, but i am thick. to make up for the lack of size, i give amazing oral until whomever i'm with reaches orgasm. my question is this; would a girl prefer a guy who is average but can really 'eat', or a guy who is well above average and only 'eats' about average? ( for those women who don't know, average length for a man is from 6-7" ) (link)
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well i dont really have any experiance in this matter. but i will say i proberly would be happy either way. Dont worry about size. Some girls care some girls dont, but as i said i cant really say. My advice is dont worry and anyone who really likes you will be happy with whatever you have to offer. It sounds like you could pleasure a woman so there isnt any problem. So no size doesnt matter to anyone who cares about you. If You think this is good advice please rate, and good luck in your love life.
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