i like this guy and hes REALLY hot, funny, nice.. my dream guy basically.... but he just thinks of me as a friend. i cant be more than that- ever because he always flirt with this REALLLYYYY pretty popular girl. its really beginning to annoy me. i guess you could say that i am jealous, but not really. i just wish he would think of me as more than a friend. ive considered asking him out.. but because hes so... well he knows how cool he is so its difficult. i think he may turn me down because he wants to wait for someone prettier and all that stuff that im not... so.. my question is- what do i do to get over him! i want to get over him! i want to move on and find other guys who can like me for me! so there are two parts to this... how do i get him to like me... if that fails, then how do i get over him!!??? i rate high to *serious* answers!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? LoveLifeHelper answered Friday June 23 2006, 8:25 am: Well you cant GET someone to like you be yourself and if he doesnt like that then its his problem. Secondly dont put yourself down, a guy should like you for who you are not what you look like. Dont ask him out! If you do it will be wierd ans unconfortable and even if he wants to he might still say no out of panic. Now what you need to do is try to talk about it to him. If he is as nice as you say then he will understand. Make sure he knows that you dont want to change your relationshiop if he doesnt feel the same way. Just be yourself and talk it though if hes a decent guy he will understand and it will be fine. If that fails then you should go out and try to get a boyfriend be yourself around other guys and if there is another lad you like do and get close to him. But be carful dont ruin your relation ship with the guy u like stay friends if you cant be more. It'll work out, good luck.
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