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heart broken
this probably going to be long to bare with me
me and my ex broke up on fathers day and.. its been 6 days. i miss him like crazy.. i didnt wan to break up but he said we had a bad relationhip and he wants to start over as friends. and.. i think thats good but.. i kinda was talking bout the breaking up thing when i i/med him the past 5 days and when he said he didnt want to talk bout it i would keep going on but like we were talking and i was like do you still love me hes like i love you yea and like 30 mins later after him telling me that and him telling me he didnt want to talk bout it i think i pushed him to saying he didnt want to be with me because he was like i dont want to be with you right now. i care bout you alot but i dont think its love
i want to date other girls i dont want to go out with you.. and i think i kinda pused him to saying it i dont know what to belive and..i wrote him a long myspace message saying sorry but i would rather talk to him about it on am
and i think im going to hurt my pride and ask him out in 2 weeks i really want to be with him and ill stoop to that level of asking him out i mean i kinda already messed my pride by going out with him 2 times..i want to be with him
and i thnk he wants to be with me...
and i have been trying to be his friend but everytime he blows me off it was his idea he needs to back it up seriosuly i have tried everything.. he ignores me on aim doesnt want me to call i dont know what to do
but i dont know what should i do should i type him the letter and see how he acts? and become friends then ask him back out..
or what??
i want real advice and i prosmise to rate high if you give me it
i need help!!!
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I really think you need to give him some space.
I know you want him back and everything but if you keep after him you may lose him altogether.
He is not wanting to talk to you right now because you aren't letting the subject drop. He sees you come online and probably thinks, oh here we go again!
You have to be careful because you are pushing him away. He doesn't want to talk about it and he probably won't date you again for a long time if ever. So don't talk about it anymore if you want to be friends. Don't ask him out. You just have to move on...hard as it will be for you to do.
Sorry to be so blunt about it but you did say you wanted real advice! Much as I'd like to make you feel better, I don't think that would be fair advice. :)
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Right, this is a toughy but ill try my best. You need to talk to him in person about it, dont let him avoid you and dont push him into doing or saying anything. As hard as this will be if he really wants to date other girls let him. If he doesnt mean it you will find out just stay close to him as a friend and everything will work out. Dont ask him back out right now. Become friends and see how it goes, he might change his mind just dont push him. Look after him as a friend for now and dont let your feelings for him ruin your relationship. Talk it through with him and make sure he understands how you feel and ask him how he feels too. Work it out by talking in person and u might be surprised what happens. Goodluck with your friend,
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