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I'm crazy for her...
Hi I'm Adam and 16 Years old. heres my question:
I like (ok love) this girl. I have tried working some kind of relationship out with her but she didnt want it. Shes not dating anyone and she likes me as a friend alot. I want her so bad though. Shes the only one I want and nothing will make me change that. What is there I can do to make her go for me?
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Look, you have to understand that she just wants to be friends. If she wanted to be more, things would already of happened but you have to accept the fact that she doesn't want a relationship. This happened to me before and I got annoyed of it but it would be a good thing if she gave you a chance. Talk to her and ask her if she would just give you a chance and see if it would work out. If she doesn't want to, she's really not interested. I'm not saying any of this to be mean, but I'm just being honest. You shoulnd't have to impress her or do anything special for her or for anyone just so they would like you.
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Hi, first of all are you sure you LOVE her, because if you havn't known her very long and like her alot then it is most likely LUST. Too be honest with you, there isn't really a right way that you could attract a girl. Girls can get attracted by boys when:
1. Smiling and have good looks
2. Show an interest in her
3. Have lots of mates around you
4. Have a nice personality and very sweet
There really isn't much you can do but to show her who you really are. You don't have to wear posh clothes or to be rich and have alot of money or good looks. The only thing you can do, and I know that you keep hearing this but to be yourself. There is however one way you can do it. You've got to create the opportunity e.g. go up and talk to her, then invite her out somewhere. If you do that then really it will either be yes or no and either way you will find out. You need to create the opportunity. Another way is to smile and perhaps give a little wink, or brush your hair back with your hand and of course make eye contact. In other words do a bit of flirting, and most of all show her that your interested. Good luck!!! Daniel.
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Shock her. Remember little things about her and when you guys are talking, relate something you remember about her to what you're talking about. Not only will she be shocked that you would actually remember something as little as that, she would be touched because you took the time to pay attention to her. Don't buy her stuff because you can't buy her love, but if you guys are walking, and you see a pretty flower or daisy, pick it for her and tell her you'd like her to have it. Now, thats only an example, you dont have to get all cheesy if you dont want to :) Little things like that will show her that you truly care about her and she'll hopefully go for you too. But it's awesome that you guys are already close! My boyfriend and I were good friends before we had a relationship and now we're closer than ever. Just give it sometime, sweetie <3
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Well if your really close friends with her then that is a good thing. Sometime friendships can develop into more over time. As long as she knows how you feel, just give it some time and see what happens. You cant really "make" her go for you, but you never know after time of you likeing her and you been very close friends she might just develop feelings for you. So i just say wait and see what happens. Hope all goes well
The Love Life Helper
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okay, the good thing is that she likes you as a friend alot, cause friendship with her is what could make her feelings for you begin.i think if you show her how much you care about her as often as you can..such as by making her a present(just an example)that is one thing that could help. as for right now, you have to accept that right now you two are just friends and not overly think how much you love her cause that will make it MUCH MUCH harder on you! trust me on that. girls love to have someone they can come to and just chill with and laugh with so if you become that person thatll open her eyes to other things! simple things such as finding out her interests and trying to do things that involve them and also making her smile and hugging herwhen shes had a bad day will make her realize how much she means to you..and once she gets to know the real you..as long as youre being your complete true self..hopefully she'll grow feelings for you!!
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Well sorry to say there is not much you can do. Just wait and see..if nothing happens then it wasnt meant to be but be patient..she might come around.
*Meredith
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