Hey I'm amanda, I guess I'm pretty friendly :) I'm willing to talk whenever ♥
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Age: 16
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Ok so a lot of people tell me i am too thin. I've done those online calculators and they say i am, but you can't really trust those things because they don't take in to consideration a lot of important factors, you know. So, I thought if people could look at my pic site and give me their honest opinion? Thanks. http://www.picturetrail.com/photos/blondina75 (link)
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You know, there isn't much advice I can really give you. I suggest you go see a doctor immediately and ask him questions that you've wondered about. That's all I can say, because I'm not a professional. Good luck, sweety. ♥
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Latley, school has just been getting me down. I've been in the wortst mood for almost a week, no its not due to my period. Its just plain worry, stress, and too much work. I've been taking it out on my friends and family, and saying some truly mean things.
How do I go back to my happy attitude and get everything under control? (link)
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Usually, when I have a lot going on in school, I lose sleep at night. Try organizing your schedule! When you get home from school, do your homework, have a snack, take a hot bath and go to bed. I noticed going to bed earlier puts me in a better mood. Try having a light snack before bed and EAT breakfast in the morning. Basically, without breakfast, your body is running on nothing. Breakfast will help you think, and will improve your daily activities. Try thinking more positively if you aren't already, and smile a lot. It always feels nice. If school is too much for you, go in at lunch for a couple of minutes and try doing some work so you aren't so busy in classes. I'm not sure if I helped, but thats what I did for me when school got too much. :)
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hey everyone. i asked a question awhile ago about my best friend who's dad had lung cancer. well his dad died. and im just wondering like what are appropriate things to say. not just "i'll be there for you" can someone actually help me with what to say? also me and my friends want to do something for him. big or small no matter what it is. does anyone anyone anyone have any suggestions? im begging you, because this kid is so devastated. thank you. (link)
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I lost my mom at the first of September that just recently passed. It's a very hard thing to go through and it's not easy to hear people say: OH I'M SO SORRY FOR YOU.
PITY, is not what you want to give. Nor sympathey. You want to actually feel for your friend. Tell him you couldn't imagine going through something like that and you don't really know how he's feeling but you're there if he needs to talk or if he needs to cry. Just be a shoulder to lean on, hug him if he needs a hug, you know? Just be caring, not sympathetic or pitiful, because thats what bothers ME the most, anyways.
I hope he feels better. After 9 months of my mom being gone, it still hurts everyday. Don't expect him to get over this right away. :(♥
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Is it possible to fall in love with someone who you have only met once? :) (link)
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I'd say infatuation. If you don't know the person well, i dont think you can love. What if you get to know them and they're a very bad person? Would you still love them? I think love DOES have to build up over time. But I bet you are infatuated!! :)
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so i met a boy and we got kinda sexual at first then he asked me out but i dont really know him.. i said yes because we kinda almost lost our virginity together..
and now i want to get to know him
(dont say break up with him.)
but how do i get to know him?
what do i talk to him about?
when we sleep together how are we going to sleep without doing anything..
i really want a serious relationship.
oh and also
is it wrong to not like makingout?
and not makeout with your boyfreind but do other stuff?
thank you so much i rate fives if you try (link)
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Let me get this straight. He asked you out after you got sexual? He's not in it for a relationship. He's in it for kicks. I know you don't want to break up with him, but you should until you get to know him. And you should save the sexual activity until you get to know him. After you know each other better, go back out with him and do as you wish. Overtime, you guys will just start to talk. Ask him what movies he likes, or books or foods, get casual conversation going and eventually you guys will get talking more and more about different things. It's perfectly normal to not like making out (I for one don't like it. I like kissing but not french kissing), and yes it's okay to not make out with him but do other stuff. But my sugggestion is for you to slow down with the sexual activity until you know this guys intentions.
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(im 14)Well my boyfriend and i have madeout many times and he puts his hand up my shirt and thats all we've done. i really love him alot and whenever im with him i kinda feel lustful...and i often find myself wanting to do much more than what we do but NOT sex..well one time i was jokin around and took my shorts off jokingly and asked him if he wanted me to keep them off and he looked SHOCKED. he was like ur so innocent and i like that..i cant see u doing anything..but what if i get so horny that i WANNA do something? would my boyfriend break up with me because im not the innocent sweetheart i seem to be? (link)
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Sounds to me like he's not ready to go any farther yet. Just talk to him and tell him you want to go farther, and if he doesn't, then you'll wait.
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Hi I'm Adam and 16 Years old. heres my question:
I like (ok love) this girl. I have tried working some kind of relationship out with her but she didnt want it. Shes not dating anyone and she likes me as a friend alot. I want her so bad though. Shes the only one I want and nothing will make me change that. What is there I can do to make her go for me?
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Shock her. Remember little things about her and when you guys are talking, relate something you remember about her to what you're talking about. Not only will she be shocked that you would actually remember something as little as that, she would be touched because you took the time to pay attention to her. Don't buy her stuff because you can't buy her love, but if you guys are walking, and you see a pretty flower or daisy, pick it for her and tell her you'd like her to have it. Now, thats only an example, you dont have to get all cheesy if you dont want to :) Little things like that will show her that you truly care about her and she'll hopefully go for you too. But it's awesome that you guys are already close! My boyfriend and I were good friends before we had a relationship and now we're closer than ever. Just give it sometime, sweetie
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Im 15 Years old, and for the past month or something i have been feeling really "out of it" for some reason. I mean there have been some stressful things going on like a couple of my friends have recently started cutting. I'm helping them out. but I'v just felt like I'm floating along, It's weird. I keep changing my mind on alot of things and I get really complicated thoughts about everything like how it will affect everything, even simple things. I get really confused easily. My bf and I had an argument and afterwards I asked him if he thought anything was wrong with me, He said he thought there was, but i dont know what is. Im really confused and i don't like feeling out of it. :( (link)
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We have a similar situation, my love. Our tramas are different, however. Your trama is that your friends are hurting themselves and you're helping them. MY trama is that my mom passed away and I've been pushing aside all emotions, which led me to complicated thinking, just like you. At some points I got so low that I began to think I was nothing, worthless and stupid. I've been really hard on myself for the past few months and it's really ruined who I am as a person. I would always help other people before I helped myself, which is bad. Before your problem gets out of hand, I'm telling you these few things that I want you to think LONG and hard about. YOU need time for yourself. You have to set priorities. YOU are always first. So if you have problems you need to deal with that are about you, deal with those first. You have to be able to help yourself before you help others. Try not to over analyze every little thing. That's something that I do and it just leads me to think the worst things of all situations. Just think about things, and let your brain relax a little, don't think negatively either. Since you're feeling "out of it", try switching your routine a little. Change your diet, maybe. Eat healthier and try getting more sleep, it should help you get back into the swing of things. I'm not sure if I helped or not, but my dear, if you need anything, ANYTHING at all, email me at: amandaaccount@hotmail.com
i'll always be here to listen to you, because I know sort of what you're going through.
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what do you think should be around the right weight for me? im 13/f about 5'2 or 3 idk, around 100 lbs going up or down(it depends on the day). i'm pretty thin i guess, but i dont like my thighs or lower stomach. (link)
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If you go to google and type in "BMI", something called "Calculate your body mass index" should come up. I did that for you and you're right in the normal weight range for your height. No worries about your body, I bet you look great!!
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ok lemme get down to my question. well my last year in school i wasnt doing soo great.. i got by with Cs..what are some better habbits to get me back into getting better grades..i think my grades starting doing that because all i cared was how to get noticed better..i mean im semi-popular like i know everyone and all but i mean im not top-notch ya know? so any advice with better study habits while not going crazy over knowledge lol thank you soo much!! (link)
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In my opinion, school is more important than popularity. Look at the big picture. All the kids that are "popular" and the kids that are failing arent going anywheres in their life. But you, if you have a smart head on your shoulders, then you'll realize that you have the oppurtunity to get somewheres in life. Don't let that future be ruined by people who will hardly matter down the road. Don't let others drag you down when they start to fail, and not just in school but overall in life.
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ok so there's this boy i met on a cruise a few days ago and well i really didn't meet him but he's tall cute kinda shy which is like the oposite of me the only problem is i can't remember his name it's really weird and i think it starts with a E. well here's my real question...how do i get him out of my mind? i think about him non stop he is the only boy i have ever cried over and i beat myself up menatly becouse i didn't make better friends with him. i need help forgeting him and moving on i have no way of getting hold of him so it makes it much worse i'm so upset please help i rate.
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Aw, these situations are always heartbreaking. You might not ever see this boy again, so it's better just to think someone three hundred times better is gonna come along and meet you and make you feel amazing! In all ways imaginable! I know it's hard to forget about someone just like that, but you just have to think more positive. You'll meet someone so wonderful one day that he wont ever cross your mind again.
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Bleh. Okay. So I sweat. And I know that everyone sweats but like, it's disgusting and it looks like someone poured water on my shirt. Every deodorant with antipersperant that I've tried does nothing. It's really embarassing and now that it's summer it's really hott so it's even worse. It makes me really self concious and I'm scared to wear bright colored shirts because it'll show up even more. But when I wear all black so it won't show up I get called gothic or emo! =[
help!
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Hm. Drink lots of water! And instead of wearing tee shirts which rub against your underarms and stuff, try wearing tank tops or wifebeaters. A lot cooler for summer! Try wearing your hair up more often. If you have dark, thick hair (like me), you probably get hot faster because dark colors attract the sun. So if you wear your hair up off your neck, dark hair or not, it should cool you down some. :) i hope this helps!!
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im going to be 17 years old in a week. and ive never really had a "real boyfriend" before. i mean i went out with like 3 guys, but that was all in middle school, and it wasnt anything like people have now in high school.. tomorrow im going to this party with my friend, and ive been praying all day to let me find a guy that wont just try to get in my pants and then leave. thats what always happens. it would make my birthday soo much better if i could just find a guy that i connect with, and that is actually interested in me and not only sex. especially the first night we meet. there are guys that want to meet me in person and hang out that are from myspace, they are my age and live by me but for some reason i always turn them down. every single one of them. does that mean that non of them are "right" for me? or am i just shy? i dont know.
tomorrow i want to get to know a guy and maybe even go on a date or two after the party. and then hopefully it can lead into my first real relationship
but i dont even know how to get started with that. i dont know how to act or what to say or anything..and how do i know that they actually want to get to know me and they arent just using me to get some? how can u tell the difference?
if anyone and everyone could help me in any way possible to make me think i might actually meet someone tomorrow night i would appreciate it soooooo much.
i always wish on stars that i see and i pray that i find a guy, but it never happens.
i really really think i deserve this. i know i can get a guy, because i do think im pretty. so thats not the reason.. but i dont know why i cant ever find someone that i like enough.
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It seems like you've got a good head on your shoulders, my dear.
All I can say.. is just let it come to you. Dont worry the whole night about that certain guy approaching you. Have fun, flirt, smile, be yourself and eventually someone will notice you. Don't let it bother you :)
I think you can tell when they're using you. I mean, if he only wants sex from you, he'll be trying to get down your pants before the relationship, I'd assume. If thats the case, drop him. But if he takes the time to listen to you, to talk to you and to hear what you have to say, then give him the time of day.
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ok so i'm overweight and i hate it wat hate the most is seeing skinny girls in bikinis so i recentley went on a cruise and decided i was going to be one of them. i want that so bad but i don't know how so wat i'm asking for are suggestions on how to start my diet, how to resist, and any other thing that you can think of. i really do need help on this one.and also i need to know how to drop as much as possible before october! thanx a lot i do rate (link)
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well, i've tried several things to lose weight. At one point I became a vegetarian, which was a mistake because I wasn't getting enough protein to maintain my diet. My suggestions for you, are just to cut out junk food completely, drink lots of water (Instead of getting soda or juice, get water or even flavored water instead). Try eating three small meals a day and a few snacks:
Meal one: Breakfast! It can be simple, a bowl of whole grain cereal and an apple, or whole wheat toast and a banana.
Snack: A granola bar instead of a chocolate bar
Meal two: Lunch, a grilled cheese sandwich and some celery (These are only examples, you can subsitute)
Snack: A peach or pear
Meal three: Supper, a salad of your choice, and some pasta of your choice.
Then, if you want to exercise as well, you can do 50 sit ups in the morning and before you go to bed. If you wish to go to the gym, they'll most likely have instructors there to help you through the rest of your diet.
These are only my tips and they work with me :) You should be a lot more toned by October!
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I was looking up birth control, for a friend. & I left it on there. & she saw it. Now, I don't know what to say. Because she doesn't believe me, & thinks I'm sexually active. Which I'm not. I'm only 13 for heavensake. What do I say to make her believe me???
Please help me.
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Just tell her your friend had some concerns about it and that you were only trying to help her out. You don't have to tell her your friends name or anything, but just let her know calmly that you're telling the truth. :)
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