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i want to know HIM.. not his body..
so i met a boy and we got kinda sexual at first then he asked me out but i dont really know him.. i said yes because we kinda almost lost our virginity together..
and now i want to get to know him
(dont say break up with him.)
but how do i get to know him?
what do i talk to him about?
when we sleep together how are we going to sleep without doing anything..
i really want a serious relationship.
oh and also
is it wrong to not like makingout?
and not makeout with your boyfreind but do other stuff?
thank you so much i rate fives if you try<3333
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you should talk about his interests. and theres nothing wrong with not liking to make out. I dont either!most people think it is weird, but we just have to ignore them. its fine to do otjer stuff with your boyfriend thats not making out. If you sleep with him, and dont do anything, thats not technically sleeping together unless you actually sleep in the same bed as him. If you have sex that kinda meas you slept with him. GOOD LUCK!!<3
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Well, first off.. in my opinion, I think you should know the person well & atleast think you love them..before just giving your virginity to someone.
Secondly, you ask him things. Like.. whats his favorite sport, about his family & so on. & then he tells you all about that stuff, & then you tell him about yourself.
Third, it is not wrong to not making out. Just I guess not everyone likes it. But, you shouldn't rush into anything.
[if I knew your age I could give a little more information.]
If you are 12-15.. then I strongly suggest you slow things down. If you are 16 & above then atleast get to know the guy.
& then from there on, have fun =)=D
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Let me get this straight. He asked you out after you got sexual? He's not in it for a relationship. He's in it for kicks. I know you don't want to break up with him, but you should until you get to know him. And you should save the sexual activity until you get to know him. After you know each other better, go back out with him and do as you wish. Overtime, you guys will just start to talk. Ask him what movies he likes, or books or foods, get casual conversation going and eventually you guys will get talking more and more about different things. It's perfectly normal to not like making out (I for one don't like it. I like kissing but not french kissing), and yes it's okay to not make out with him but do other stuff. But my sugggestion is for you to slow down with the sexual activity until you know this guys intentions.
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just get to know this guy like you would anyone else, find out what he likes, his friends, and all that kind of stuff. If he only wants to do sexual things then you might not want to be part of this relationship. and when you sleep together and you dont want to do anything then tell him you dont want to do that all the time and that you want a serious relationship. I dont think its wrong to not like making out, maybe you should try different techniques, there is nothing wrong with doing other things either, other than making out. Hope i helped!
<3 Jess
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