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scotland boy
ok so there's this boy i met on a cruise a few days ago and well i really didn't meet him but he's tall cute kinda shy which is like the oposite of me the only problem is i can't remember his name it's really weird and i think it starts with a E. well here's my real question...how do i get him out of my mind? i think about him non stop he is the only boy i have ever cried over and i beat myself up menatly becouse i didn't make better friends with him. i need help forgeting him and moving on i have no way of getting hold of him so it makes it much worse i'm so upset please help i rate.
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oh man, opposites attract like frikking magnets. you're lucky you're the outgoing one - you can make moves on the shy guys you like. i'm the shy one who likes outgoing guys and can't do anything about it. ahem, sorry...
ayway, what i wanted to say was that you liked that boy because he was your type. did he appear to be the opposite of you, yet something about him seemed right, almost familiar? well... i don't want to get into really annoying detail here, but there's a thing called myers-briggs, or also socionics and typology. it divides all people into 16 types. there's 8 soulmate couples within those types. so think about it... every 16th guy could be your soulmate! that guy was probably your right type, and he was cute. of course, there's more to it than that. but you will be able to find another guy who seems just right.
and another thing... once i felt the same way about a guy at my school. he seemed like the opposite of me - popular, outgoing, understanding, careless about his grades. but i was so shy and never even talked to him. a few years later i find his lifejournal... turns out that he is gay, but that's the worst part. he is an idiot. so, i liked a gay idiot the whole time. what is not at all the way you thought he seems? i know it's hard to think of it that way because you'll never find out for sure, but chances are, he really isn't. when you get a crush like that, you tend to give the person a lot of made-up traits and angelic characteristics along the way without even realising it.
just give it time. your other soulmate is out there. and because you're outgoing, you won't have so much trouble finding him.
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Aw, these situations are always heartbreaking. You might not ever see this boy again, so it's better just to think someone three hundred times better is gonna come along and meet you and make you feel amazing! In all ways imaginable! I know it's hard to forget about someone just like that, but you just have to think more positive. You'll meet someone so wonderful one day that he wont ever cross your mind again. <3
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