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i wanna go further with my boyfriend..but he seems to like m
(im 14)Well my boyfriend and i have madeout many times and he puts his hand up my shirt and thats all we've done. i really love him alot and whenever im with him i kinda feel lustful...and i often find myself wanting to do much more than what we do but NOT sex..well one time i was jokin around and took my shorts off jokingly and asked him if he wanted me to keep them off and he looked SHOCKED. he was like ur so innocent and i like that..i cant see u doing anything..but what if i get so horny that i WANNA do something? would my boyfriend break up with me because im not the innocent sweetheart i seem to be?
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He's shocked to see that side of you and maybe he isn't ready to do things like that. The best thing to do is just talk to him about it. Even though it might be a bit uncomftrable talk to him and see what he thinks. You don't want to make a move on him and then he rejects. Find out how he feels and then maybe you guys could move on. If you really like this guy you would take it slow. If he breaks up with you because you're not so innocent anymore, it's his choice and you should respect his decision if he doesn't want to do other sexual things.
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Well i would say for you to do more with him. i would talk dirty to him then he midght like it. and then you could go a bit futher; or if you lay on him (some couples do that) while your laying on him start to rub his penis. but make sure you dont go over board if you dont want to.
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i dont think that he's ready and that might break up the relationship because some of the things you said he said makes me think maybe it's not the best time for him just wait
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Sounds to me like he's not ready to go any farther yet. Just talk to him and tell him you want to go farther, and if he doesn't, then you'll wait. <3 I'm sure he wont break up with you if you want to do something :)
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easy as do what you want to. He wont change the way he feels about you just because your not as inecont as you seem, If you wanna do summate go for it! He's trying to protect you, he cares about you and he just wants to make sure everything you do is in your best interests. Next time you get really horney just tel him what you want to do. GoodLuck! You seem to have a really nice guy with you, dont lose that.
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um.. how old is your boyfriend? if he's older than you by alot it may be that he views you as a younger person therefor trying to protect you. i don't think he'll ditch you because you arn't as 'innocent' as you seem. how ever i do think that he is just keeping your intersts at heart. a guy like that is hard to find.
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well I know I am the same way. I seem to be the same way on the outside I am very sweet and innpocent so no one expects me to be wild and crazy and sexy. I think if you are lustful towards him then you should show it because you don't want to hide your true emotions and your true self. I don't think he would break up with you just because you have the same emotions as he does but just because your a sweetheart you shouldn't show them. I say go for it!
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