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My mom thinks I'm on birth control!!
I was looking up birth control, for a friend. & I left it on there. & she saw it. Now, I don't know what to say. Because she doesn't believe me, & thinks I'm sexually active. Which I'm not. I'm only 13 for heavensake. What do I say to make her believe me???
Please help me.
Thanks!
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Exactly. As people said before, tell her that if you were having sex you would let her know. Because you'd never lie to her about something so serious and you wouldnt want to lose her trust. Even when she believes you, tell her that you wouldnt even think about having sex at such a young age. Also, try telling her your friend didnt have internet, and you were trying to help her out. Dont tell her which friend it was because then she may think that your friend will have a negative effect on you.
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All I can say is that it comes down to how truthful you've been with her in the past, how much she trusts you. Take her aside and explain why it was open (I don't recommend specifying which friend it was for, because that could have a negative effect on her opinion of the friend and cause adversity between them). If you don't lie to her allt he time, which would make this pointless, then tell her that she should trust you. A variation on "I'm your daughter, trust me."
Best of luck to you.
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Sit your mom down and let her know that you have a friend thats sexually active, and you wanted to help her put and think of everyway to be safe because there arer alot of diseases out there. Then soften her up and tell her if you were haven sex that she would be the first one to know. That you would come to her if you have done anything with a boy. Let her know that she wouldnt be left out the loop, and again repeat the information was just for a good friend. Of course dont say the friend name because she might go talk to her momz.
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the only thing you could say that it's not you mom have to have trust in you. you cant force it on her.
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Just tell her your friend had some concerns about it and that you were only trying to help her out. You don't have to tell her your friends name or anything, but just let her know calmly that you're telling the truth. :)
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