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okay, i know its totally normal and all but my left boob is SO much smaller than the right. i told my mom and she said there is nothing i can do, do you have any advice? i am like living with an a cup and nearly c cup here. and u can totally tell threw shirts and stuff, luckily not as much bathingsuits! and i cant like let guys go up there it might freak them out! HELP!
There's a lot of people with different body problems. And most people are told "Oh it's normal, just forget it, whoever loves you won't care." And even though it's true it wont help your self asteem. If it intimidates you a bit a guy might freak out, it's better to not let them touch you in case they will gossip later on. My advice to you is wear tight bra's so it'll keep the bigger one from looking so big. And I've heard that massasging your breast with cream or oil will help it grow. So you can do that with your smaller breast so the difference will be less noticeable. If you're not scared of surgery wait until you're 18 to do it. Your body keeps growing until that age so even if you have the surgery before 18 it'll keep growing. The best solution is waiting until you're 18. There's not much you can do about it. But I hope that helps a bit.
Take care
would it be ok to wear flats with shorts?
It all depends in your style. I've used flats before with short and cute blouses. In my opinion it looks perfectly fine, even adorable really. I've seen a lot of people wear it too. And dont forget that the color's should match.
how do i find like my "personal" style. like something thats me. it seems like everyone does what everyone else does, e ven if that is them. so how do i know if something is me?
That's a really hard question, but it has an easy answer. How do you find your own style? Well, it's something you'll like. Most people fit into labels like emo, goth, punk, prep, just so they can follow one of those specific styles because it's easier that way. But if you want to find your personal style, just wear things YOU like. Even if they're not in. It takes a lot of confidence to do that though. But try incorporating things you like into your wordrobe. Do you like feeling comfortable? Then a pair of jeans and shirt will do. Do you like acessorizing? Then wear a bunch of bracelets with colorful beads. Put your imagination into how you dress. You like fantasy books? Then dress like a pirate princess. You can get small stuff from other styles and make it yours. Like a collage. It's part of other magazines, but when you cut it and paste it all unto a paper it's YOUR collage. How will you know what is you? Because you'll feel comfortable wearing it, you'll like it no matter what others say. And because it'll have your touch and imagination in it. You can always be part of a crowd, but you can always be yourself too.
Hope that helps
I got loss skin on mi breast, is there any way for me to get them form or something? please help
To tell you the truth, unless you consider surgery I doubt it. Use a cocoa butter cream to try to make your skin smoother. Even though it wont solve your problem it might help.
hi. im jenny and im 14. this dude, adam who i hang around with is one of my bezzi mates and i always use to flirt with him for a joke. now he sometimes full on firts and for some resason he has asked me to make out wit him on our next school trip to alton towers! OMG! why the hell would he want to do that? i dont want him to use me! but the other thing is i have realy deep feeling for him. but to make it even more complicated my friend jamie who is gay fancys him. AND! this guy i like adam is trying to decide wether he is gay or bi or strait and i dont want to confuse him!!!! help me!!!!
Well, you like him, and he wants to do that because he seems to like you. But then again your friend likes him, and he may like your friend. My opinion is that you talk to your friend first. I know that it's tough because he might get mad, but it may be a bigger even mess later. Ask Jamie if it's ok for you to like him and try to hook up with him. I mean, you wouldnt want to lose his friendship. If he doesnt care, then go and makeout with Adam. You're not tricking him in any way or confusing him, just helping him sort out his sexuality.
Hope that helps
I have this girl i met in darwin when i went for a holiday there and she likes me and i like her. But she dont wanna do long distance...
What do i do?
It's probably true she likes you, but I dont think she likes you enough. You're not going to give up everything to go move over there just to date her. I mean, if she doesnt want to do this little sacrifice it probably wouldnt work out anyways. My advice, stay friends. Maybe someday you'll live closer and then you can be together.
I want to go on a diet (nothing extreme--i'm not overweight, i just want to be more toned and maybe shed a few pounds). Does anyone know of a website that is totally free that can layout a diet for me (how many calories, excersizes, etc.) OR can anyone just tell me??? (i'm 15/f and i'm 105 lbs.)
thankss!!!!!
You know, if you have that Limewire music download program some people have, there's this video called '8 minute workout', and it's for the abs. It really tones them and it's not even that difficult. It's only 8 minutes and each exercise is about 1. Diets can make you lose weight but not get toned. So you should try this.
Hope that helps
i have this problem where some days my stomach is flat and some days it isn't. it really never depends on what i eat it just randomly happens. is there any exercises that i can do ever night to make sure that my stomach will be flat the next day? everynight i do 17 sets of 10 crunches (that is 170 crunchs if you didn't feel like doing the math =D], 50 bicycles, and then i stretch out my abs.
Seems like you work out a lot, and that just may be the problem. With the exercises you do your tummy shoudnt be like that. But when you work out, your stomach builds muscles which are mostly visible a while after you work out and then they're still there but less visible. You may even notice yourself gaining more weight when you work out. But thats because body fat turns to muscle which weights more. My advice, stop exercising so much. To keep yourself healthy and in shape you could always pick up a diet. It's a better way of just losing the weight instead of transforming it.
Hope that helps
does anyone know like things to do, or exercises to be less wide, like loose inches and pounds or even just inches, please help i will rate 5's
If you mean be less wide from the waist, there's a lot of exercises. One that works a lot is laying down on the floor completely, then someone stand just right above your head, and with both hands you hold unto their feet. Then using them for balance, you lift your legs up together at the same time, and down, then up and down again. Just repeat the same process without touching the floor. Someone doesnt necessarily have to be there, you can also hold on to a pole or anything like that.
Hope that helps
I haven't had anyone invite me over in almost two weeks. I don't have many friends anymore, I used to be more of the popular sort, now I sit on myspace, all day, wishing I could be somebody else whose prettier, and has more true friends. My "friends" never invite me anywhere, and I don't know what to do when I invite them over. My house is boring, and I don't have money to go out anywhere. I just want my life back, I'm not like repulsive, I'm just, normal, people say I`m pretty, I'm funny and fun, but I know I can get annoying. What should I do?
To tell you the truth, I've had that same problem. I've never known what to do when i invite my friends over, and we couldnt go out since we had no car.Most of my friend moved on, but that shows they werent real friends at all. Only one really stayed true to me, and even though sometimes I think I'm boring, she doesnt seem to think so. My point is, you may think it's your fault that your friends are not inviting you places, but it's not. You shouldn't change for them. Someone probably likes you just the way you are.
Hope that helps
I liked this guy Mark for a long time, he liked me to, we kissed and stuff, but never officially went out. I intro`d him to all of my friend, our little "fling" is over, and were just friends now. But now he's like all over all of my friends. He leaves them comments saying theyre hott, and he tried to ask out every one of them. He's doing this just to make me mad, and its working, what should I do?
Well, it's true. Maybe he is just a male whore. But if he really is trying to make you mad, then the obvious thing is to not give him what he wants. Just try to ignore that fact, act like if you havent even noticed. Dont overdo it by asking him if he wants you to hook him and your friends up either, just ignore it. He'll eventually get the point that you dont care anymore and give it up.
Hope that helps
How do I use the toothpaste? Like what do I do with it? Just rub it in or what? Thank you
17/female
Just apply the toothpaste so it'll cover the whle zit. Dont rub it in, just cover it up. Then leave it for a while. You should put it right before you go to bed, then take it off in the morning. It really reduces the redness.
ok what are good diet foods
im 13/f
and please dont give me any foods that i never herd of i just want simple things
and when do you start to see results when you on a diet?
Grapefruits, Lemons, Oranges, Blueberries, Apples, and watermelons all helps you burn calories. Meaning they dont give you any fat. Also drinking a lot of water helps kill cravings, so you wont be tempted to wat unhealthy food like chocolate. You should always look at the back of food containers to see how mnay calories it has, more than 150 calories is too much.
Hope I helped
What is the best and easiest way to get rid of a razor burn and/or razor bumps?
Scrub it well while bathing and then put on lotion. Besides that, dont touch it at all.
My mother can't sleep.
When she does its only for like two hours a night.
She has problems when her feet move and she can't stop them so she has to walk around and if she sits her feet move.
She takes sleeping pills sometimes but they don't work either.
Can someone please please please help me!
I am so worried about my mom.
I've heard about this. Suposely taking daily hot baths help[not showers]. Also drinking hot liquids like hot chocolate before going to bed can help it. No coffee though. Exercise or yoga may help with it too. She should also try another different pill, like Lunesta.
Hope I helped
I heard that honey helps take away zits? I want to try it but I am to scared that it will not work & might make it worse...True? & Does anyone know anything else that works that I can just use from HOME? & the honey...Is that just honey from HOME or do you have to buy a special kind?
Female/17
Honey does not help at all. It just softens the skin. I've had the same problem, and truthfully scrubs and cleansers dont really help. When you see a pimple starting to show up, try putting toothpaste to stop it from growing or getting redder. A healthy diet also helps. Wash your face two times a day with Aveeno or Dove soap. They tend to dry the skin, gettin rid of all the oil clogging the pores. Dont over wash it though, it'll worsen it. Mostly dont touch your face at all. Wash your hands a lot too.
Hope that helps
ok so i'm overweight and i hate it wat hate the most is seeing skinny girls in bikinis so i recentley went on a cruise and decided i was going to be one of them. i want that so bad but i don't know how so wat i'm asking for are suggestions on how to start my diet, how to resist, and any other thing that you can think of. i really do need help on this one.and also i need to know how to drop as much as possible before october! thanx a lot i do rate
Well, to resist cravings you can always brush your teeth when you feel a craving coming on. Also drink a lot of water or green tea. It fills you up and kills the hunger. Remember to count the calories in all the food you eat. Try to remain to a diet that is less than 1200 calories daily.
this morning i went to the doctors office to get treated for my sore throat and coughing. She told me that it wasn't a big deal and it was just allergies. when i got home i went to sleep and when I woke up I noticed that I had a 102.4 fever. is it normal to have a fever with allergies? what do you think?
Coughing and a sore throat? You definetely shouldnt go out. On top of them catching it the night air will worsen it. You shoulg go to the doctor, and for your throat try lemon with honey. It's good for it and it's not all that bad.
I'm not sure if I have the right category for this but I have these horrible stretch marks a little below my butt...and since it's summer I want to go out to the beach in a bathing suit but I dont know what to wear to cover my gross butt while looking cute & girlie. I have tried to get rid of the stretch marks for years but they aren't going away. Is there anything I could wear like a type of swimsuit or is there anyway to hide them? Thanks!
I have the same thing. and truthfully nothing really will clear them up. Not even exercise. The cocoa butter might clear some but it takes a bit of time. And boy shorts arent really too cute. In stores like Sears they sell cute skirtinis. They're like bikini's with cute little skirts on top. It covers just the right amount of skin so that might work. Plus they're really popular this summer. But dont forget to always use any type of cream or butter on that part of the skin to prevent future stretch marks.
does anyone know if Garnier Fructis Long & Strong shampoo and conditioner system actually works? does it really make your hair stronger so it can grow longer or do they just say that so you will buy it? i'm looking to grow my hair out longer and i heard about this shampoo and was wondering if it really works.
thanks =D
Yeah, it definetely does.
This product makes your hair silkier and a bit stronger.
The first time you may notice your hair breaking more, but thats just because it gets rid of the very damaged hair. But the second time you will definetely notice that your hair seems healthier. It makes it smoother and less choppy, meaning it'll definetely grow quicker.
Hope I helped