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No life?


Question Posted Saturday July 1 2006, 10:10 pm

I haven't had anyone invite me over in almost two weeks. I don't have many friends anymore, I used to be more of the popular sort, now I sit on myspace, all day, wishing I could be somebody else whose prettier, and has more true friends. My "friends" never invite me anywhere, and I don't know what to do when I invite them over. My house is boring, and I don't have money to go out anywhere. I just want my life back, I'm not like repulsive, I'm just, normal, people say I`m pretty, I'm funny and fun, but I know I can get annoying. What should I do?

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jumadel answered Tuesday July 4 2006, 11:51 pm:
Hi, it sounds as though your being hard on yourself a little. If you want friends and to be popular again then you need to create the opportunity. What I mean is go and talk to people, and perhaps join something that your interested in. Maybe you could go to some disco's and if your old enough go to a night club. Get out more and grab every opportunity you can of making friends. If you can't create the opportunity then it is unlikely you will ever have any friends. Daniel.

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Riny13 answered Tuesday July 4 2006, 7:07 pm:
I Have felt that way a lot a times if they are really your freinds they would call you.its seems like you need other freinds its not okay to feel that way about your self.you will get another chance to be popular.Dont let peer presure bring your self esteem down.

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chicka_chick09 answered Sunday July 2 2006, 9:52 pm:
listen, there is probably nothing wrong with you and it's not your fault no one invites you anywhere. Especially now since it's the summer everyone is doin their own thing....you know. dont feel bad about it. you can call your friends and talk to them! i havent gotten invited anywhere in a while can i cant go anywhere cuz i dont have a ride, but you can still have fun. if you invite your friends over, walk outside in the neighborhood. just go to places you can walk to. if you do end up goin out, you might meet some new people and make some new friends, who knows, try it. that's what happened to me...lol just keep intouch with your friends, but at the same time, try to make new ones hope i could help
good luck
and take care

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H3arts_Collid3 answered Sunday July 2 2006, 10:08 am:
To tell you the truth, I've had that same problem. I've never known what to do when i invite my friends over, and we couldnt go out since we had no car.Most of my friend moved on, but that shows they werent real friends at all. Only one really stayed true to me, and even though sometimes I think I'm boring, she doesnt seem to think so. My point is, you may think it's your fault that your friends are not inviting you places, but it's not. You shouldn't change for them. Someone probably likes you just the way you are.
Hope that helps

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