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Friends and parties
I wanna become friends with some of the more popular kids at my school so I can go to some of their crazy parties. I can be really shy so I don`t know how I should go about doing it. If I leave a myspace comment on anything of theirs, I often don`t get anything back.
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Why do you want to become something your not? Be who you are. If these "popular" kids wont comment you back or wont even give you the time of day they wont be good friends. You really only find a few "good friends" & if you have some now dont drop them for the "popular" kids. Thats my opinion! <3
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what i think you should do is try to became popular and maintain your self. you should know popular people dont care anything but there self because im one I use to be shy but i learn that you have to be more outspoken.you should know that they're to good to send a comment back.so you should make your own myspace and tell them to put there comments dont answer.if that dont work you dont want to be them any way theres a lot of drama and back stabbers.
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Hey.
If you see my picture-- not like you really can--- it's filled with like 30 of my best friends. My dad said to have 1 or 2 really good friends, best friends, but I learned to have more so as to not be dependant on only a few people. And I have OCD-- with is obsessive compulsive disorder *haha, i cant spell!!*--- which means that I need, basically, everything my way. And sometimes I get really hyper and crazy and talk without breathing and end up taking this crazy loud breath, making other people embarassed that they know me, and glad they do cuz im such a laied back kinda person.
I met these people 2 years ago. And when my yearbook was signed, I had 38 signatures, 30 of which included the words: "I love you so much." Or, "I love your crazy cool ways!!"
Maybe it's just me, but I would so rather not be considered "popular." I mean, the popular kids at my school, at least, have all this "drama." HAHA, drama. Yeah right!! Their, "well, my best friend dated my boyfriend while I was going out with him. And then I saw them at my house going to pick up my brother and his date to double! Im so sad!" Like, they cause that drama. If they wanted to avoid that, they so could! But anyway, OCD-- i get off topic!!
Just bein who you are.... wow, that sounds totally played out.... is the way to go. Cliche, right?! Yeah.... but thats probably why its cliche, because it makes sence. So out of that, I guess my only advice is to be as you are--- for me, crazy, wild, someone who talks too fast and forgets to brethe, consequently landing herself in the nuses office because of passing out---- or in your case, a shy person who just looks at the weird-os like me, and pretends u have no idea who i am and quickly walks to the other side of the room. Thats who you are, and if you want to be friends with the "my friends used me" group, go ahead, but you'll probably make some suckily friends have WAY much more fun chillaxing!!!
Long, I know. And I made up some words!! HAHA!
Hope this LONG answer helps!!
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First off :: why would you want to change yourself for people ?
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Secound off :: There is no such thing as "popular" people. They are normal people like you and me. They all breath, eat, and sleep like everyone else. So there is no way.. they could be "better" then anyone else. No one is perfect.. they are just like you and me. Deff. not "popular" sure have more friends.. could be, but sometimes they have friends for the wrong reasons.
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Think of it this way..
You change yourself, and the "popular" kids become your friend. You hang out and they like you. Sad thing is, they don't like you. They like who you change into. You're not being yourself, what fun could that be. You should never change yourself for anyone. If they dont like the way you are, then deff. don't need them as friends. Also, "popular" people arn't all what they are said to be. You never know how a group of people act untill you hang out with them. For all you know they could be horribal, and you could end up hating them. If they don't like you now, then you don't need them. Sure sometimes "popular" people could be fun, and accepting towards you, but most of the time, (well as far as I know) the "populars" are just people who think they are better then everyone else, and they arn't. Everyone is the same, and even though you want to have "crazy" parties, those "crazy" parties could be stupid. Don't change yourself. Just be you :]
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Just have fun with your friends, make fun parties with them, do stuff you like to do !!
♥ me
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Don't try to be someone your not. Don't try to hang out with the 'cool kids' just for a party.
Yeah they might have a wild party every weekend but what about the friends you have now..??
Sometimes the popular kids aren't the right kids to hang out with, they're not all what they make out to be.
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Don't try to be friends with the popular kids... it's not worth it. get the party started with your regular friends. the popular kids will just laugh at you bent over the toilet throwing up from a crazy night but your friends will be there to help you, you know? if they never like comment back, that might be a sign that they don't want you to hang with them. <3
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don`t push yourself right away towards, first ask them simple things like how they are doing. don`t use them for parties either cause that`s mean. if you become friends first they will like you back and hang out. ♥
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