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Does anyone have any sites, where you're able to make your OWN layout for MySpace? Thanks.

hey!!
guess what?! I just made a layout for myspace today! Like 4 hours ago!
The website was
Skize.com
You can choose lots of colors.
It's really good!!
Hope this helps!!

PS- you can look @ mine if you want.
myspace.com/cathockey38
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I don’t ask guys out. They ask me out. Always. But this guy I like hasn’t made a move all summer. We see each other at camp where we both are counselors in training from like 8:45 till 12ish Monday through Friday. We usually talk from 9:00 until 9:15 or so and then later at like 1:00 for like 30 minutes. He is so funny… I think I love him, but I haven’t gone out with him yet, and I want to.
But he won’t make a move and ask me out! I was always told not to ask anyone out *or propose or have sex before marriage or curse or all these other things which I basically abide by*. But camp is over in 2 weeks and them I'm going away for 14 days. And then 2 more weeks of summer and then its like, “Where did the summer go!?”
So if anyone has like, a step-by-step process of asking someone out. Ha-ha. That sounds weird. But I mean, last time I tried to ask someone out, I managed their number and screen name. But he likes me as a friend as do I.
Should I ask him out through like AIM? I am really nervous about it. Today I was going to practice on my good friend Sam, but I couldn’t even… just for pretend.
This is long…. I’m sorry. But does anyone have a step-by-step process?!
Thanks so much!!
Oh, bty, Im 14/f. and hes 14/m. THANKS!

Asking someone out is always hard. And I have heard that too, “let the guy ask you out.” But sometimes that doesn’t work. And you have to go for it!! So here is what I would do.

1) Reflect. Why do you like him? Is he funny? Caring? Nice? A jokester? Figuring out y you like him is always key!!
2) Walk over to him. No brainier!!
3) Get him talking and if he is a funny guy, get him to laugh or wait until you laugh… you are really happy near him.
4) Take a deep breath.
5) Go for it! Casually say, “do you want to go out sometime?”
6) Don’t expect a yes, because if he says no, then you might be heart broken. But as corny as this sounds, ‘there are plenty of fish in the sea.’ Pleanty of guys WORTHY of you!! so if this guy says no, just smile and say, ok! There might be an akward silence… but that will go away if you are friends.
7) Also… just FYI, I would make sure to ask him out so you are sure to see him the next day. So you can go up to him and talk to him like nothing happended. This will show him that you can overcome hard things and continue to be his friend. Or, if he has second thoughts, he can ask you out. I mean, when I asked out this guy, he said no. I went home and cried because I really wanted him! The next day at school, he came up to me and said like he was sorry and figured he should give his dating thing a chance.
haha. this has all been bad things. just in case he says no. But when he says yes, or if…. but u seem like a nice enough person…. I would probably say yes to you *if I wasn’t a girl…. or if I wasn’t dating a really good guy!* If he says yes, make sure to get a date in soon because you don’t want to “become boyfriend-girlfriend” and then have to leave the next day. I mean, he would be thinking “well, why am I going out with someone who is going to be gone for 2 weeks?!?!” So if he says yes, I’ll go out with you. Tell him you’ll call him later that night. And when you do, set up a date.

Hope this helps!!

PS- make sure to tell your parents about him *if you go out with him*. Even if it’s weird. Because how are you going to be able to go out with him if you don’t have a care, or he does. Someone has to drive, and what would your excuse be? Hanging with my friend whos a guy? Eh, I don’t know. ‘specially cause you said you see him only in summer!

ok. this is the real end!!

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Okay so I have a new laptop and I was wondering if there is anyway I can transfer(copy) all the songs on my ipod onto my laptop(I know Itunes doesnt allow this, so I wanted to know if there is any other possible way to get the songs off the Ipod)?

hey.
if you go to mytunesredux.com, there is a downloadable program. It lets you take your music on itunes and transfer it to your new computer. I'm not exactly sure how to do it... my boyfriend did it for me. But when it is downloaded *you need it on your old computer and laptop*

and then in itunes, under edit, go to prefrences *bottom one* and then click on share. "Share entire library" is the best one.

If that worked, then on the itunes on your
laptop, it should say AMD playlist or something. That is a good sign! If that didn't work.... try again? haha, i dont really know!

Then find mytunes redux in start... its there somewhere. And then when you open it, all your songs *cept the ones you bought* will show up on a list. Highlight all songs and hit enter. And it will transfer them to your other computer.

I know its not the same as your ipod, but its good cuz then you can have all songs on both computers. And if you have a library filled with songs that you bought, thats a problem!!

If that doesn't work, you can go to cdburner.com
it lets you put like 200 songs on a cd. I dont know how it sounds, but you download it and i guess that is it.

Hope this helps!!

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What books changed your outlook on life?

haha.
i loved hitchhikers guide to the galaxy. espically the paragraph about population of the planets.

Things not seen. Stuck in neutral. Of mice and men *tho slightly depressing, still good*, to kill a mockingbird, island of the blue dolphins.

they are lots of school books, but i loved them!!

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If you don't eat anything (except maybe a few grapes or something) but only drink like, sodas, would you gain weight or lose weight?
I've always wondered this, and I asked my health teacher, and he didn't know. I know its not health, lol, I'm not planning no doing it, I've just always been curious.

Hey!
Drinking soda no matter what is bad for you. It causes all teeth problems and digestion and not to mention it is loaded with sugary crap. But I still love them!! haha. but so drinking soda isn't good for you.
But if you hade hardly any food *under 1000 calories--- even 500... just hardly any calories* you would start to lose weight. But lots of that weight is muscle. So if you could benchpress 100, after a while you might only be able to put up 60.
Oh yeah. Also, your body needs protiene. So if you dont eat things like meat or take vitamens *man, i wish i could spell!* You're going to lose most of your muscle.
Hope this helps!
And NEVER do that!! =]

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Hey. Your name was up top so I thought I would ask you. Have you ever seen the movie Armageddon? It came out in like 1998 or something. But I was wondering where you can find quotes for movies. like a website..... or even better if you can find that really long quote that the president says when the rockeyt launches off? Do you remember that part?
Thanks!

Hey!
Wow! I love that movie so much!! I remember that quote... its something like, the world has goten by on courage? Is that it?! Well, I'll find that one....


President: I address you tonight not as the President of the United States, not as a leader of a country, but as a citizen of humanity. We are faced with the very gravest of challenges. The Bible calls this day 'armageddon' - the end of all things. And yet, for the first time in the history of the planet, a species has the technology to prevent its own extinction. All of you praying with us tonight need to know that everything that can be done to prevent this disaster is being called into service. The human thirst for excellence, knowledge; every step up the ladder of science; every adventurous reach into space; all of our combined technologies and imaginations; even the wars that we've fought have provided us the tools to wage this terrible battle. Through all of the chaos that is our history; through all of the wrong and the discord; through all of the pain and he suffering; through all of our times, there is one thing that has nourished our souls, and elevated our species above its origins, and that is our courage. The dreams of an entire planet are focused tonight on those fourteen brave souls traveling into the heavens. And may we, citizens the world over, see these events through. God speed, and good luck to you.

yeah, it is long... and I hope this is the quote your looking for.
If not, I just went into google and typed in Armageddon Quotes and this link popped up!
hope this helps!

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My bestfriend moved far away in the begining of the summer. I used to do everything with her without realizing that I only hung out with her and never made an effort to hang out with anyone else. Everyone else has their own cliques and groups of friends I sit home everyday on the computer with nothing to do. I feel like my life is going to waste what should I do to put my life back together and become popular with other friends?

Hey.

Story of my life: best friend *only friend* moves away. No life. No friends. Nothing to do. No one to talk to. Uhg! was that a boring summer!

You probably dont wanna hear this... and it may not be true for you, but for me it was. I think your going to have a really boring summer! For you right now, I would go to like a pool *if you have like a public pool near your house* and take up tennis or swimming to keep you busy.

But what I would do come september is to see who you have classes with and get to know some people. I ended up being really good friends with who ever i sat next to. Even people I despised before!! Haha. weird. So just talking to people who sit near you about a movie you hear them talking about, school work, a game or whatever... talking solves ALL problems!! =]

Also, joing a school club may sound dorky.... yeah, it kinda does. But do that. BEcause you are so going to meet people who you like there. dont choose a club, though, where all the "popular" people are in just because "OMG!Nick and Missy and Evan and all the other popular people are in there! They are so going to be my friend if I cling hard enough!"... because you wont become great friend with them if thats the only thing you have in common: You both love them. =] haha. just kidding!

But I would get active also. Take up a sport like dance or hockeY!! yes! or swimming or gymnastics or lacross or whatever your good at or like! Because they you will have school firends and *insert name of sport here* friends. Haha.

Ok. Im wierd, I know!!
hope this helps!

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okay.. well this is a huge problem for me and has been going on for a while now but is getting worse.. for the past two days ive been eating almost nonstop & its hard for me to stop when i do.. its crazy.. im normally not like this.. i dont know what to do. ive tried everything.. it might be lack of sleep but then again how do all those movie stars that maybe get 4 hours of sleep & hardly eat!! I HAVE NO CLUE WHAT TO DO AND REALLY NEED HELP WITH THIS.

p.s. im thinking maybe its just im so bored!! i dont know what to do.

hey.
dude, I had this same problem! Like, I think that it is because you are bored. That is what it was for me. Like ok, so I would be watching TV or something, and it would be a creepy lifetime movie where the wife and daughter would get their heads cut off or something gross like that. And then I Would be hungry *ok, maybe not in a movie like that, but in the middle of a TV show, I would get hungry* and then I would go up and eat. 30 minutes later, I would be even hungrier! And I had no idea!

Well, then school started. And I didnt eat hardly as much. Like breakfast. A light lunch. End of school. snack. Homework. Dinner. Homework. Hockey. Go to bed at 10 and get up at 6. Lots of sleep, yeah, but because I was so busy, I didn't really have time to eat. I was running around doing all these things that I basically forgot that i was hungry, or if i got a hunger pain, i would shrug it off until i got home or until i finished my homeowork or something like that.

So this summer, I am at camp from 9-12. When I get home... I dont even get home until 4. I go to the pool club... its a huge private pool with about 400 members... but only 150 people are there max. every day. I am always swimming or playing basketball or attempting tennis *tennis is not my sport!! I am not graceful with a tennis raquet!* Or Im hanging out with friends or people I have never met. I just hate to be bored because then I eat like crazy!

So I would suggest hanging with people. Like at the mall. Going to see a movie *with no food... a waterbottle and a spoon,.... spoon, i know, weird, but i like to suck on them>! Crazy, i know! So maybe not the spooon,....* because with no food, you arnt tempted to eat anything and no one wants to miss part of the movie to get food!! Or go to the beach or lake with some friends or even just a fully charged ipod and a cell phone. *cell phone for calling friends.! =]* Go to a camp..... go swimming..... just hang with anyone. =]

It helps with being hungry. I think its just being bored! I mean, after all, its summer. How much stress can one person have when you get up at noon and go to bed at 1 in the morning? SUMMER IS FOR RELAXING! haha. Yeah it is!
Hope this helps!!

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i am 13 years old and i want to find a way that i can make alot of money fast. i already babysit for this one family that gives me $60 dollars every time i come. i want to be able to make money by not doing alot of work. please help.

Hey.

Just a couple of Saturdays ago, I worked at a party. My brother's best friends mother.... haha sounds confusing... or *my good friends cousins mother!* if that makes it les confusing. Probably not!! haha, sorry, off topic. anyway..

She had a "get together" for the whole family. And because she knew that I wanted a job and that because I watch my brother and I help her out a bit, so she offered me a job just helping her at her party. I ended up washing a few dishes, cutting a few vegis and just a couple things for about 4 hours... mostly standing around, and was paid $40. It was most satisfying!! haha

But so I would just try to get in with the mothers who have "get togethers" because once you do one persons party, someone there sees you, offers you a job... I mean, I am busy the next 3 saturdays. Good thing I dont have a life!! Just kidding!!

Also, the usual babysitting, dog walking, house cleaning, garden care, and things like that is good.

Oh, also. I go to camp. I am a CIT.. consulor in training. That means in 2 years I will be paid as a consulor. They get 700 dollars every summer.
So if you want money, and lots of it, sometimes you need to train.
Hope this helps

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Okay. I am 14 and I'm a female. Also I'm adopted. I really hate where I ended up and i really don't like my adopted parents. I was 12 when i was adopted (about 3 years ago). They told me then I didn't have an option about being adopted, they told me i had to be or go back to foster care. Okay the point is I really hate being adopted to them. It has been ruining my life. Also i really hate being seen in public with them, even before adoption i didn't like her. She was my 4th grade teacher and they made me be adopted to her. She's about 54 and her husband is 60, and her dad is 95.I live with them all. None of them even understand me, and another problem is that their really old. they are really disgusting and i can't even stand being in the same room as them. And since i was adopted i've been an only child for the first time of my life and i hate that part the most. I'm really loney every day and no one to talk to. I know for fact i would be better off some where else. i really want to live with my mom again. Kyle and i was taken away from my mom and dad when i was 8 and i was in foster care. mom and dad divorced and kyle was moved to another home. i stayed in the same place for 4 years, i liked it there. Someday i wish it could be my mom and i together again, if that were so i would be really happy. Now i am the only person i have, no one else cares. not even my adopted parents, they don't even respect who i am or who i would like to be some day. When i lived with my real parents my dad abused kyle and i and my mom was good person, she the nicest person i ever knew. My brother Kyle is special ed. and i worry about how he is doing in foster care. i aslo worry about my mom, she's lonely like me... sometimes i wish i could win alot of money and live with my mom in a nice house. i know that i have only about 4 years till i move out, but thats alot of time when you're a teen and i don't want to put my life off because the law forced be to be adopted and depressed. But i'm not that bad off, i make all a's and do weel in school. i play soccer. it's really hard for me to make friends, and i don't know why, before i was adopted i had lots of them. also it's really hard for me to have a boyfriend, all the guys that end up liking me.. i turn away from them. it's really hard for me. it seems that i've been away from people so long( being an olny child in all) i don't know how to be me in front of people. and it makes me really nervous. i have really good friends at church and all. When i'm around them i do fine but when they're not there, i don't know how to act. i'm also affraid to tell people what's wrong. every time they ask i lie and say i'm doing fine just so they can go away. iam really, really not happy. i am also sorry about not writing this all in order, anyway please give me advice. I really need some, noone i know seems to care about how i feel. So please help.
love,
depression of adoption.

Hey.
You tell a sad story, and unfortunatly I know people with stories very much like that *the mother got pregnant and had a child but used so the law gave the child to her sister who had a 24, 22, and 15 year old children. Then the mother got married and had 2 more children. but the husband left and the mom went back to using so they took all the children away.* sure, it's not the same thing, but I mean, they have been taken from their home and put with other people.

My father was an only child. His parents were really old, too. haha, but seriously. He lived off his cousins who showed him support.

Being yourself will help you make friends. and sure, that sounds played out and overused. But I mean, having church friends can't be the only set of friends you have! I have CCD friends *its like chruch but not really--- kinda?!* and then hockey friends who I love! and then my school friends! I mean, I would I do have to say shoot myself if I didnt have friends.

When I'm not around people I am friends with, I act all wiggy.... "Stop being so anti-social" is what my brother always says to me. =]

When you find really good friends.. Or that one best friend, you will be able to tell them everything. I mean, I have 3 people who know everything about me. And I love that.... that I can go to them and tell them things and they arn't just going to tell someone else.

I dont really have a good relationship with my parents. I dont tell them everything. OR anything, for that matter. But if you think you can, talk to them. Ask them why they dont pay attention to you. or if thats not it, they had to be children once? Like 80 years ago sure *for your grandfather!! =]* but hey, that have to remember SOME things. So I would just try... maybe? To talk to them!!

Hope this helps!

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Is it true that a person can become skinnier but still weigh as much as they did when they where fat? Like that whole "muscle weighs more than fat", is that true? So, could I be skinny but still weigh a lot on the scale? Please explain that concept to me. Thanks!
P.S- I am 14/F if you need to know that;)
Also, I am about 145 pounds and 5ft 4in.

Muscle weighs more than fat. You're right about that.
Like thoes body-builders weigh like 230 pounds... but they are all muscle and you can tell that. =]
So when you start your diet *or if you have already* for the first little bit, you will lose weight, but eventually, you will start to gain weight back. that most likely is muscle.
But when, for example, you lose weight on your arms for lifting, eventually, you will get muscles.
Most people who exersize a lot arn't the skinniest people because they exersize and have lots of muscles, so you will never be the tiniest person around.
Hope this helps.

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is love real or possible at 14?

I think so.
But then again, maybe not.
There was this guy who I was sure that I loved. We wern't dating then, and I knew so much about him. But after only like 2 months of dating, I didn't like him like that anymore. He wasn't my type: wasn't all that bright, had few friends, very sarcastic.... just like the opposite of me. So I found that I didn't love him.
A lot of guys that I date I think I love... but usually, it turns out that I dont.
I love the show Boy Meets World... if you haven't seen it, its about this guy and a girl *and some really good friends* who start dating @ like 13 or somethin like that until in college, they get married. But they knew each other forever, since the sandbox days. & even tho its just a TV show, it shows that love is really possible @ such a young age.
Hope this helps!

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Hello, I'm a girl and I'm 14. I have a lot of fat around my buttocks, thighs, and my stomach. I'm actually had a woman at an amusement park ask me if I was pregnant! (If I was she wasn't going to let me ride a certain thing.) I didn't think I looked that bad until that day so now I'm worried about losing weight. I'm 130 pounds so I figure my goal will be to lose 20 pounds, but more importantly lose the fat. Has anyone got any tips, rountines, and exercises I should try? I like in the country so I haven't got any good places to run and it's so hot here. I can't swim, btw. Anyway, please help me lose the extra pounds so I can feel confident again!

Hey.
I play hockey and for that, you need to be in pretty good shape... and not to say that im out of shape... but im not in the best shape!! So I have all these routienes that 1 or 2 times a day each.

7 minute workout-
Crunches-50
Twists-25 *A set of crunches in which your elbow reachers over to the opposite knee. 2 twists =1)
Leg Raises- 25 *Legs 8" off the ground. life them until they are at a 45 degree angle. bring them back to 8" off the ground.
flat crunches-50 *crunches... but your knees arn't bent*
scissors-25 *legs 12" off the ground. Mobe your right elbow towards the opposite knee and the knee bends closer towards the right elbow. (2 scissors =1)
crunches-50

if you can follow that...... but you do each different exersize one after another.... it really hurts. But work through it.

Timed workout
With a clock nearby
with your hands behind your head, lift your legs up about 8 inches and hold it for 1 minute
bring your legs up to a 90 degree angle and back down to the 8 inches off the ground 10 times
on the 10th time, hold the position *about 65 degrees* for 45 seconds.

This is hard too. but it takes about 3 minutes. make sure to keep your knees straight!!

Side workout *I call it off ice training workout but whatever)!
10 crunches
10 crunches with feet raised off the ground
10 punches *feet off the ground. Punch into the air across your chest
10 penguins *with your feet off the ground, move your body side to side almost.

so these are hard to explain........
and you can do them by yourself.
Hope you understand... and hope this helps!

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what are some fun websites to go to when your bored besides bored.com?

my friends sometimes like to go onto
neopets.com
disneychannel.com
nick.com
jibjab.com
addictinggames.com
yourtube.com

i think thats it... they are all fun websites where you can play games or see funny/music things. they are fun
hope this helps!

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Ok agian I am a 14/m in a wheelchair and I have this friend lets call her S and she and me talk almost once a week on the phone or online cause she is in minnesota for the summer and she has been asking me advice about this other boy that has a girlfriend but they both lik eachother and well after all of that talking with her I was sitting in my room going through the year book and I kept thinking "Why Can't I be that boy that she likes" and I have been having this crush on her and I am scared to tell her cause I don't want our friendship to go bad and have her mad at me cause I have had that happen before

What should I do?

This girl, C, likes you. Duh, and you know that. =] But just maybe not the same way you do....

Like my friend Pat used to talk to me all the time about everything. It was fun, because I got to know things that other people didn't and FYI- I had the biggest crush on him. Well, the day that he moved far away, he kissed my good friend Ally who he liked. And I was a bit hurt after I found out, 'specially cuz he didn't tell me and stuff... And I was going out with someone at the time, so I felt bad about feeling bad about him kissing her... its confusing! I got off topic... lets see...

Most people here would say just to make sure that you are yourself, you really like her, sit her down and tell her. But I wouldn't. I couldn't. Maybe you can--- you wont be nervous, but I would be afraid of her not liking me (if i was a guy =]) and then our friendship would be over.

So if I were you, sure, I would talk to her. Apparently, "I love talking through things." Is what my boyfriend allways said. haha, and thats true. Im the one, having hour long talks about the weirdest things. =]. But *back on topic* I would make sure you really like her... not just like a crush. And if she knows you long enough and trusts you enough to tell you these things, then it probably isn't a crush, and you really like her.

So when she comes back, after talking her through her boy problems up where ever she is, ask her to a movie, just a friends or something. Sure, you can't drive, me either. But your parents obviously know you are friends and if you can go out as friends, talking will be so much easier. So once the movie is over, or right as it starts and they play the same stupid quotes over and over again, just say somethin like, "I've known you for a long while now. And when you were gone, I missed you so much!!! =]. So now, I just got to tell you something. But dont get mad at me for it... because I like you a lot... your such a good friend, but I like you more." See how it goes from there. I mean, Im one who always talks. Start me up and watch me go. =].

But telling her is whats gunna make anything happen. If she does like you, but doesnt think you like her, she might be the kind who wants to get to know you the best she can. So I would tell her, alone, and Not on the phone. =]

If all goes well, she will like you, but realistly *yeah, too bad I cant spell. Sorry about that!* she will probably be fine with it and continue to be your friend. And in the future who knows what will happen!

Now, i know this answer is so long you will probably fall asleep reading it, but long answers is who i am.... that whole, "I love to talk about stuff thing.." Yeah. Right. So I hope this helps you!

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This might be stupid but, How can you tell if a boy likes you (besides asking of course)?

Any comments will be appreciated.

So all guys are different. haha, im just going to start with that.
Some guys when they like you are really nice to you. They always want to talk to you and joke and laugh with you. I like those guys the best because they want you to like them. But I mean, sometimes, they are just really friendly and want to be friends.
Others are much more.... outgoing. Yeah, they will flirt with you, ask for your number and call you all the time.
Then there are the guys who hang in the cornor when u come in the room... they purposly (haha, i cant spell to save my life!!) go to the other side of the room. But sometimes, they are just that type of person: shy.
If you don't want to ask him, you can have one of your friends ask him for you. *flashback to 5 months ago* I liked this kid Adam. And we hung out all the time in school. And joked around and had so much fun! And I really liked him *just restating... I do that a lot!!* So on a monday, I had my friend go up to him and say *I wasnt there so i think it was something like* "So Adam, you know what? You seem to like Cat. Do you?" and he was like, no not really. and my friend was like, "Come on! Honestly!" And he was like, "Why? Does she like me?" She told him I did, which was true. We ended up dating for a month... not long, but he was just more fun not serious....... Anyway...
If he makes lots of eye contact, smiles at you a lot, walks up to you for no reason just to talk and a couple others could mean that he likes you. But I mean, it could also mean hes just a really nice guy.
Hope this helps!

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Hey my name is rachel and iam 14 years old and my twin sister named michelle is 14 and she told me she was pregnant and i don't know what to do I know I should tell my mom,but iam afraid she'd never talk to me again iam so scared what should I do?

Hey.
If I was you, I would make sure that she really is pregnant. My sister (though 18----but not married and thats against my famillies rules--- marriage before sex) thought she was pregnant once, but it was a false alarm.

And if she is, ask her who the father is--- a boyfriend or a friend who they had a one night stand with or whatever. and then either have your sister tell the father or you tell him yourself.

With an idea if the father is going to stick around, I would tell your mom at the dinner table weather (thats the wrong one, i think!!)or not your sister she wants you to. Because eventually, your mom is going to notice!!

Hope this helps!

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I wanna become friends with some of the more popular kids at my school so I can go to some of their crazy parties. I can be really shy so I don`t know how I should go about doing it. If I leave a myspace comment on anything of theirs, I often don`t get anything back.

Hey.
If you see my picture-- not like you really can--- it's filled with like 30 of my best friends. My dad said to have 1 or 2 really good friends, best friends, but I learned to have more so as to not be dependant on only a few people. And I have OCD-- with is obsessive compulsive disorder *haha, i cant spell!!*--- which means that I need, basically, everything my way. And sometimes I get really hyper and crazy and talk without breathing and end up taking this crazy loud breath, making other people embarassed that they know me, and glad they do cuz im such a laied back kinda person.

I met these people 2 years ago. And when my yearbook was signed, I had 38 signatures, 30 of which included the words: "I love you so much." Or, "I love your crazy cool ways!!"

Maybe it's just me, but I would so rather not be considered "popular." I mean, the popular kids at my school, at least, have all this "drama." HAHA, drama. Yeah right!! Their, "well, my best friend dated my boyfriend while I was going out with him. And then I saw them at my house going to pick up my brother and his date to double! Im so sad!" Like, they cause that drama. If they wanted to avoid that, they so could! But anyway, OCD-- i get off topic!!

Just bein who you are.... wow, that sounds totally played out.... is the way to go. Cliche, right?! Yeah.... but thats probably why its cliche, because it makes sence. So out of that, I guess my only advice is to be as you are--- for me, crazy, wild, someone who talks too fast and forgets to brethe, consequently landing herself in the nuses office because of passing out---- or in your case, a shy person who just looks at the weird-os like me, and pretends u have no idea who i am and quickly walks to the other side of the room. Thats who you are, and if you want to be friends with the "my friends used me" group, go ahead, but you'll probably make some suckily friends have WAY much more fun chillaxing!!!

Long, I know. And I made up some words!! HAHA!
Hope this LONG answer helps!!

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Okay let me start out by saying that im 13 and the middle child in my family. Well, my mom and me used to get along all the time..like she used to be my best friend and ever since i turned 13 everything my sister (7) does..gets blamed on me. When my sister once called 911 to see what would happen when i was in the shower, the police came to my house when i was babysitting her, and i got blamed for "not watching her." When duh she should know better not to do it. i hate getting blamed for everything. what can i do to help the relationship between me and my mom..and not get blamed for everything?

Wow! Story of my life! Spoiled rotten little *brother* (8) does all these crappy things. And guess who gets blamed?! Me!! My older brother is off at his fancy private school all the time and i am stuck baby-sitting *and not getting paid, don't you know.* And yet, everytime something bad happens, he falls and gets a bad cut, touches the hot stove and burns his hand, calls mommy-dearest cuz im being a meanie head, I get in trouble.

And I dont have a good relationship with my mom. I dont know why--- I just lost all trust in her. *long story!! I wont go into it. trust me, u dont want me to!* So I talk to my little brother about it. All the time. And sure, he is a little person and spoiled, but when he really sees that if he doesnt cut the crap, Im going to explode, he quiets down and is a good little boy!! So if your not good with talkin to your mom, talk to your sister. In a serious tone, be like, it can't be this way. You can't be acting like this when only me and you are home. Got that?! And hopefully it will work!!

Hope this helps!!

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Is it possible to have a STD if your a virgin?

Hey.
I'm pretty sure that if you make out with someone else who isn't a virgin and he or she is infected, you could be too. Im sure you can be infected by STDs you if you use a dirty needle, or if one of your parents passes it down to you.
Hope this helps

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