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my sister is pregnant at 14
Hey my name is rachel and iam 14 years old and my twin sister named michelle is 14 and she told me she was pregnant and i don't know what to do I know I should tell my mom,but iam afraid she'd never talk to me again iam so scared what should I do?
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Dear My Sister Is Preganant At 14,
Your sister is your sister and she will talk to you because she cant live with you and not talk to you. You can't stop her from getting pregnant the best thing to do is let someone know and be by her 100%. Good Luck & Best Wishes!
<3 Alli
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darling your mom is going to find out one way or another when the days and months pass by and she sees your sister with a big bloated tummy she aint gonna be like"Oh my daughters gaining weight how cute she looks when shes chubby!!" i think its a must for you to tell your mom so she can stand by your sister and tell her what to REALLY do. cuz if your mom finds out after 9 months that your sisters at the hospital giving birth it will drive her into madness and might not only not talk to your sister but you too cuz youve been keeping it from her.
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you shoudn't tell your mom. she should tell her herself. its her problem and its your problem too but not as much as hers. im sorry to hear that though, unless she wanted to get pregnant? but thats REALLY young. she should consider adoption oh and sry you didnt ask some of the things i said and sry if it offends you about the adoption thing..just stating my opinion. but my advice is all of it as well. thats confusing.lol. good luck hope i helped.
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let her tell your mom. if there was anything i truly hated- it was everyone i know teling people i was pregnant before i got a chance to tell anyone. let her do that all on her on. all you can really do right now is be there for her, and support her in any way. i would also suggest making her take a pregnancy test, if she hasnt already- just to be sure. good luck.
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I think the best thing for you to do, is let your sister know that you are there for her, and you know she is scared. She probably has no idea what she is going to do, and right now would be when she needs her familys support - and by that i mean you AND your mom. You should both go together and tell your mom,and stay with her, so she knows she has at least someone who will stand by her.
After your mom knows, it will become a lot easier, as she has had kids before, and will know a little bit about how your sister feels.
If your sister refuses to talk to your mom, then i dont think you shoudl tell your mom. it is your sisters business, and she shoudl tell your mom when shes ready. ALl you need to do is show that you are there for her, and help her get through this.
hope i helped!
♥
-michelle
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Your sister is proably scared half to death.
Talk to your sister about it say your mum needs to know. Your mum might be angry at first but she will calm down
your mum should respect that your sister is scared and needs support
tay_can_help
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Hi there, the best thing you can do is perhaps be there when she needs to talk to someone or just respect her wishes towards telling her mum. Just support her, because pregnancy can be a difficult time. Daniel.
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hi racheal ... while be for you do anything you and michelle should try to fiogure out if shes reallly pregnant or not ! ... and if she is you should just sit down with her and figure out what she wants to do cause you can have an abortion with out your mom even knowing but that all depends on weather an abortion is even an option for her so that why you should sit down and talk to her and if she decides to tell her mom you should make sure your there with her and stand up for her with alote of support this is a diffacult thing to do but you her sister and she would want you to do the same thing for her ... but you shouldnt be the one to tell your mom that just makes your sister look imature and if she wants to keep this maby your mom got to think she is a mature girl .. just sit down talk with her figure everything out then when she decides to tell your mom make sure your there with her with as much support as you can give ! i hope i helped :)
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you need to tell her to tell your mom cuz when her belly grows its gonna be no secret. if she says no tell your mom and tell her not to tell ur twin immediately, just think of something to get her to admit shes pregnant, like why shes been throwing up so much *morning sickness* or why shes been gaining weight, eating so much,and so on. even if your mom does tell immediately, who cares? your twin has to talk to you shes your sister.
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Hey.
If I was you, I would make sure that she really is pregnant. My sister (though 18----but not married and thats against my famillies rules--- marriage before sex) thought she was pregnant once, but it was a false alarm.
And if she is, ask her who the father is--- a boyfriend or a friend who they had a one night stand with or whatever. and then either have your sister tell the father or you tell him yourself.
With an idea if the father is going to stick around, I would tell your mom at the dinner table weather (thats the wrong one, i think!!)or not your sister she wants you to. Because eventually, your mom is going to notice!!
Hope this helps!
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ok well i am sorry that your sister is soo young and pregnant. but yes you need to tell your mother, but talk to your sister and have her agree to tell her, because she can't hide it forever..... but if your mother knows she will be upset at first but then she will help your sister. i hope your sister realizes that she needs help. i pray everything works out alright. and if you need any help with research or anything or just support, i will be there for y'all.
*~Zainab~*
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Find out for sure if she is really pregnant first, try and find a way to get her a pregnancy test if she already didnt take one. If she definitley is then you should talk to her about what she wants to do. If she dosent want your mom to know because of her reaction then thats reasonable, but she needs to know!! And she will talk to you, she may be mad at you for a while but this is important and remember: she IS your sister!
~hope I helped!
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Tell your mother soon, if your sister doesn't. Your mother would have to find out sooner or later, and if she knew that you were also keeping it from her, she'd be upset with both of you. Tell your sister that it would be the right thing to do, no matter how hard it might be. If your sister won't, then I feel you should tell your mom. She has the right to know.
-mystical_breeze
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