mrbrodie answered Thursday July 6 2006, 2:43 pm: You should try and feel less selfconscious, it may be difficult but it'll really help. If you're partner wants to see your body then there cant be anything to worry about, they obviously like your body, and you should like it to :) [ mrbrodie's advice column | Ask mrbrodie A Question ]
jumadel answered Tuesday July 4 2006, 11:34 pm: Hi, for starters I wouldn't change myself just for my partner. And if my partner didn't like the way my body looked then that would be his/her problem. Daniel. [ jumadel's advice column | Ask jumadel A Question ]
xomichelle891xo answered Tuesday July 4 2006, 10:49 pm: Im sorry you hate your body. I mean..IF you hate your body. You might just be asking Im not going to assume. My mom always said that you shouldnt miss out on amazing times because YOU dont think you look good. Its not fair to yourself. Its not always about looks. Chances are, youre body is NOT that bad. Youre just judging yourself way too harshly and incorrectly..but no worries. We ALL do it from time to time. Take a risk. Be outgoing. And bare yourself just to try it. If your partner reaccts negatively, THEY ARE NOT WORTH IT. Your partner should be with you for YOU not your body. [ xomichelle891xo's advice column | Ask xomichelle891xo A Question ]
AskAndy answered Tuesday July 4 2006, 9:45 pm: I would look at my body in a mirror and find 10 good things about it to boost my confidence. I would reassure myself that my partner wouldnt be my partner if he hated my body anyways, so I would acsept what I have, unless I wanted to try to change it, which would mean pills and surgery but I wouldnt do that [ AskAndy's advice column | Ask AskAndy A Question ]
girdy_goo15 answered Tuesday July 4 2006, 8:38 pm: well some things are that:
1. alot of people don't like their body and want
to hide it.
2. some people refuse to be with anyone
3. some people just use a blanket to cover with
4. some use corsets
5. some people just let their partner see because
that is who you are, and if he/she can't
accept it then they are not right for you.
TheTeenGirl answered Tuesday July 4 2006, 8:17 pm: I'd wait until I was more comfortable with my partner to see my body before I had sex.
Usually relationships that are ready for intimate and sexual activity are comfortable with being undressed in front of them. If you aren't comfortable, then you aren't ready in my opinion because the sex probably won't be at all enjoyable for you because you'll be stressing about your body and what he's thinking of it.
So before you rush in and decide to interact sexually, make sure you have talks with your partner about these feelings you're having about your body so that he can help make you feel better. Maybe the both of you aren't as open as you should be and you should open up a lot more if you hate your body to that extent you're describing.
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