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My bestfriend moved far away in the begining of the summer. I used to do everything with her without realizing that I only hung out with her and never made an effort to hang out with anyone else. Everyone else has their own cliques and groups of friends I sit home everyday on the computer with nothing to do. I feel like my life is going to waste what should I do to put my life back together and become popular with other friends?
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Hey.
Story of my life: best friend *only friend* moves away. No life. No friends. Nothing to do. No one to talk to. Uhg! was that a boring summer!
You probably dont wanna hear this... and it may not be true for you, but for me it was. I think your going to have a really boring summer! For you right now, I would go to like a pool *if you have like a public pool near your house* and take up tennis or swimming to keep you busy.
But what I would do come september is to see who you have classes with and get to know some people. I ended up being really good friends with who ever i sat next to. Even people I despised before!! Haha. weird. So just talking to people who sit near you about a movie you hear them talking about, school work, a game or whatever... talking solves ALL problems!! =]
Also, joing a school club may sound dorky.... yeah, it kinda does. But do that. BEcause you are so going to meet people who you like there. dont choose a club, though, where all the "popular" people are in just because "OMG!Nick and Missy and Evan and all the other popular people are in there! They are so going to be my friend if I cling hard enough!"... because you wont become great friend with them if thats the only thing you have in common: You both love them. =] haha. just kidding!
But I would get active also. Take up a sport like dance or hockeY!! yes! or swimming or gymnastics or lacross or whatever your good at or like! Because they you will have school firends and *insert name of sport here* friends. Haha.
Ok. Im wierd, I know!!
hope this helps!
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Okay look i have the same problem but i solved it by hangin out with other people i usually don't hang out with. I found that they like alot of the same stuff i like. So all you have to do is try to be in a different group that has some same interests then you. don't worry everything will be fine.
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what you should do is start hanging out with other people and maybe they will become your friends and their friends will also become yours, that once happened to me and i felt like i was doomed but everything was fixed after school started again I got never friends and my life was better, just try to find some similar intrests with people that are in your school next year and maybe call them up and hang out before school
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Go over to the other cliques or groups that you can see your self hanging out with, by nice ask them about their lifes and what they like to do, also be nice to them and be yourself! Like in the cafetiera go up with a group of people you know and ask if you can sit with them just go with the flow about what they talk about and ask their opion on maybe a teacher or a test you took. Hope I helped!
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