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hey everyone.... I need something to do and decided to give advice, it's just somethin fun for me to do...and i do it well. i'll answer any questions you have, no matter WHAT it is. and i make your problems my problems, so ya i care.
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okay me and my almost boyfriend have been talking either on the phone or through aim for atleast 2 hours a day! we talk about EVERYTHING. its weird how open we can be to eachother.. well anyhoo we have talked and talked and talked until theres nothing to talk about anymore!! for the past couple of days we've just said "so what do you wanna talk about?" and "i dont know what do you wanna talk about?" we have nothing to talk about we have past relationships music sex movies.. we've talked about everything.. i need some interesting topics that arent so ordinary because i dont know what to talk about with him anymore!! and i dont want him to lose interest. help? (link)
if you're stuck it's always fun commin up with a fake storry...and tell it for a real long time.....and i mean a long time. it can b bout anythin but make it unbelievable...and wen he gets all into it and you finally have to go, tell him you wer kidin bout the whole thing and just start laughin. and wen he asks why(that is if he asks) tell him you wer just tryin to make conversation than laugh again. and he'll get it from now and then that he atleast has to try to make convo.

good luck


how do you say hello in arabic? (link)
well there are many ways, like you can say (Ahlan) or (Salam) and usually it doesnt matter because people knw what hello or hi means ...
take care
hope i could help


hey bitch what the fuck you have to give you life story for your info no one gives like TWO shits no really thought yeah your rola and lebanse lebanse are so gay lol
but yeah its really purple why is that fix it
yalla byez
love rosy
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i like purple and ur just jealous! lol
luv you habibi
have fun!


earplugs dont work very well. at least not the ones i have. is there a good brand? i saw this ad for headphones that block out sound but you cant sleep with them on. what can i do (link)
well i dont know which brand is best, but my sister uses the CLASSIC ear plugs and she says they work just fine, but you should ask your doctor anyway. and there are those headphone kinds but those are really bad....because headphones increase the dirt in your ear in the hour bye 70% so i wouldnt do it! imagine how much it will increase over night. but try the brand i gave you anyway, they seem the best.
hope i could help
take care and good luck


hey, well sometimes when im looking at questions t answer i see something say a word then write (sp?). im wondering what (sp?) means.

-caitt (link)
sp means that there is a spelling mistake..... it's one of those grammer things
hope i could help
take care and good luck


ok, well..theres this boy that i like and i dont know if he likes me, we used to lived next to each other and we used to hang out EVERYDAY but, thne he move and now i only see him at school, but we talk on the computer and we call each other reguarly, and he acts normal around me and when someone else is there with us he acts different. He had a girlfriend, but my friend told him that I liked him and the next day he broke up with her, my friend says he likes me, but i dont know, cause it's been a week since he broke up with her and he hasn't asked or acted like he likes me, and the day he bokre up with her, he said "so your going out with 'blahh' and i said wat? and he said wrong person, sorry...does that mean anytything?! does he like me? (link)
OFCOURSE HE LIKES YOU! i mean, first of all your friend told you that he does(if your not sure tell her to ask him for sure if he does and if he wants to go out with you)..it is also clear that he broke up with his girlfriend cuz he liked SOMEONE else! who im guessing is you lol. anyway, he does like you, and if you want to make sure, you have to go up to him and ask him " did you or do you ever think we can be more than friends...i dont want to jeperdize our friendship so if you are not sure or if the answer is no it's ok with me".....or just get your friend to convince him to ask you out.. i think that he likes you, but maybe you should listen to yourself and see how you feel bout everythin
hope i could help
take care and good luck


well i think im kinda chubby but people tell me all the time im not.. but i have stretch marks on my inner thys and my hips.. and i dont like them.. how do i make them go away. and i have a gut. how do i get that to go away? (link)
many people think that stretch marks appear wen you gain weight, but they really appear wen you gain weight then lose some weight.....if you want to get rid of them you this thing. it's so good my sister used it....you will see results, its called TriLASTIN-SR i dont know where you can buy it, but you can go to this website and they tell you all about it

http://www.ecresearchcorp.com/SearchResults.asp?Cat=33&Click=42635

if you want to lose your gut, and you dont need to lose weight all you have to do is do crunches....every time you do a couple of crunches, try to do even more the next time. it really works.....your get a tight flat stomach.. try to do at least 30 crunches without resting every morning OR night....
hope i could help.
take care


When you have sex for the first time does it hurt so bad that you would actually cry? (link)
well it usually depends on the girl but i doubt that you'll cry.....it doesnt hurt to that extent, but it does hurt..and for many girls it hurts till the next day and maybe even longer, but i dont think you'll cry! i mean, non of my buddies have ever cried, even though it might have hurt really bad.
also usually, you're too into the moment that it doesnt hurt that much...
and believe me, you wont cry lol
take care
hope i could help!


To graduate high school I had to take a theater class but I wasn't really into that stuff so instead of doing my assignments, my teacher let me do other things for grades (stay after and clean the stage, stuff like that). Whenever I'd do that, we would be together. We talked all the time and started to get really close. We ended up making out once but we didn't let it get in farther. We got together a few times outside of school for coffee and such but nothing more because we knew we couldn't


Well, now that I've graduated, he not my teacher, and I don't even go to that school anymore. So do you think it'd be okay to try to pursue a relationship with him? I'm 18 and he's 24 by the way.
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ya, it was kinda wrong that you made out with him when you were in school, but it's good thta you didnt let it go any farther. if you dont mind going out with an older guy, than i dont know why you shouldnt do it. i mean you dont go to the school so it would be completely ok! pursue your relationship with him, just think of it as you never went to that school and you just met him, dont think of him as your teacher and stuff lol so ya there's no problem in pursueing your relationship!
hope i could help
take care and good luck!


i am a 21 year old girl who has just had my life turned upside down. i just realised that i have done nothing with my life that will get me anywhere i want to go. i really want to be a primary school teacher but i am unsure of the routes to take to become one. i am currently an assistant nursery nurse about to qualify. i also have half of an HND in accounts but quit after realising i ould not sit on my own in an office all day on my own. (just isn't me). does anyone know what routes there are to getting into primary teaching? If so how many years do you have to study for? (link)
So, you want to get some sort of degree in primary school teaching. I think that you have several options with this.
1. At a local college, ask about getting a teaching diploma. Depending on what kind of college it is, it may take anywhere between 2 and 5 years.
2. Your second option is contacting the Department of Education in your state. They can give you the requirements for becoming a school teacher.
Finally, if you have completed 60 credits of college classes, then you can begin as a substitute teacher in most states. Speak to the Dept. Of Education about that too.
Good luck!!


I have an Ab Roller, and it's nice. But if I use it for too long, my lower back starts to hurt. And I'm all about the comfort. I won't do sit ups or crunches because I hate the strained feeling you get in your back and neck.

I'd love to buy an Ab Lounge, but I'd first rather see if anyone has any exercises for working the lower abs.

Thanks. (link)
well you can buy something called the cross crunch! go to

http://www.carolwrightgifts.com/cwg_v2/cwg_layout_base2.cfm?mid_sec_page=cwg_prod_detail&seq_no=1&min_seq_no=701&SingleItem=31249&key=55119201

it really works and it's 400 times more effective than normal crunches !!!!!

hope i could help
take care and good luck


ur one of my favorite columist now lol i should be yours
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thnx i guess lol


15 / Female

Every two weeks I like to go one day with out eating, or skipping a meal. I do not do it to lose weight but I have heard it is good for you ( I still drink water ) and it helps to flush out toxins in your body. Is this true? I regularily eat small meals throughout the day that are healthy and I get usually 2-4 hours of exercise a day. After fasting for a day I continue with my normal eating pattern and I do not try to eat a lot to make up for it.

This is beneficial, right? (link)
fasting is in no way good for your body... it doesnt flush out the toxins in your body, it actually saves fat and everything that is romotly BAD for you. when you fast, your body doesnt get rid of ANYTHING, it just all stays in you! if you want a healthy body, just eat regularly....the is the best way to clean out your body! eat healthy like you do on all the other days and dont fast...
hope i could help
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Im 15/f and my boyfriend of 6 months wants me to give him a hand job and blow job. I know we've been going out for six months so its kind of ridiculous that i havent done that yet. But im just not "that girl." anyway, i really want to.. because i know he wants me to, and hes done stuff to me. But i dont really know how to make it feel good for him.. got any ideas? (link)
well ive talked to lots of guys about this kind of stuff and when you're giving him a hand job, dont go slow, go up and down not super fast but fast. also the blow job, no matter how you do it it will feel good for him. try to go fast, and make sure to touch him alot while you're doing it
ok hope i could help
take care and good luck


i am traveling to another country in about a week. i want to watch two movies there in the theatres but i have no idea how i can find out if they are playing there.
i am going to beirut, lebanon..
thanxxx (link)
hey, im from lebanon but live in america. you have to know what theater you're going to in lebanon....i tried to found out the movies that are playing and i found this website that shows you what is playing now, and what will be playing. just go to

http://movies.theemiratesnetwork.com/in_theaters.php?c=LB

and a whole page will show up with all these movies and stuff that are playing!
hope i could help
take care and good luck


Ok,I'm 13(gal)and i babysit 2 boys 3 times a week for about 4 hrs. There 1-1/2 & 6 yrs. old the 6 yr.old will NOT listen, i tell him not to do something and he still does it. Every time i have a problem i tell the dad when he gets home,but he never does anything.I have been babysitting for around 3 years and I've never run into this problem before. I'm thinking about starting a discipline plan.If he acts up i will tell him to go to his room,if he doesn't do that I'll tell him were not going outside that day etc.(i say what i mean and mean what i say).Then if it still doesn't work after a few days I'll tell his mom i cant babysit him anymore.I just cant handle him.I just need to know if other babysitters like me think this sounds good. thanks. (link)
that is actually a really good way to deal with him. but MAKE SURE that you talk to his parents about what you are going to do first. because if this kid says you did something to him(after you leave). and lies about what really happened, or makes that fact that you stuck him in his room something horrible, YOU will get in trouble with the parents. talk to them about you plans, so when the kid complains, you wont get into trouble. also, dont be afraid to shout at him! just be carefull you dont make him burst into horrible tears lol. do what you have to do it's ok
hope i could help
take care and good luck


does anyone remeber the name of the show i cant remeber the name of it all i remeber is part of the song

Skina marink i dink i dink
Skina marink i do
I love you

its bugging me that i cant remeber lol (link)
the show's name is The Wiggles....
and the lyrics are

Skinamarink i drink i drink
Skinamarink-ee-dink-ee-dink. Skinamarink-ee-do. I Love You

or at least that's what i know lol
take care and good luck
hope i could help


I wonder about Shakira's hit" Hips dont lie".What does she mean by this. How does hips can speak? Is she want to make people think dirty? mind can go tothe thing like hips can fart,is this speaking? (link)
in her song, she doesnt mean that her hips talk...it is that guys get turned on by big hips and she's just sayin that wen a this guy is lookin at her and is attracted by her and she truly is starting to "feel him". which means she's into him. her hips are sending out a "signal" that she feels sexy and the guy is getting that signal! and the rest of the song is the guy and her expressing how these hips are making him feel and they are not lying, she does feel sexy. you get it. if you still dont understand email me and i'll explain it more
hope i could help
take care and gud luck


how do you get smaller hips and more of an hourglass figure? (link)
you cant exactly makes your hips smaller....you can make them appear smaller. for example you can wear jeans that go above your hip bones and that will give more of an hourglass shape. also, wear shirts connect to you jeans(as long as). when your jeans and shirt come together it will give you more of and hourglass shape! you can also try wearing shirts that are tight on your stomach so you cna have to coca cola class shape which is considred the perfect shape lol
take care and good luck


Is there a screen name or messaging system on AIM where you can type in the SN and leave a message so that when that person signs on, they can recieve it. I remember using it a long time ago. Does it still exist? Thanks. (link)
ya it does but it's just like sending and instant message. just double click on the person that is offline and the instant message page will open up, and type in your message. the person wil get the message wen he signs on, and you dnt have to write your screen name because it shows up on top wer it says from and to. you get it! hope i could help
take care and good luck!




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