Member Since: June 30, 2006
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Last Update: October 23, 2006
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my bestfriend is realli obsee with this kid she likes and she wont stop talkin to him && shes really annoying me so i hope she shuts up before i kick her ass so waht should i do . (link)
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i had the same problem with my best friend
talk to her about it...tell her shes annoying you
and ask her to stop talking about him to you
i agree it can get real annoying talk to her before it gets worse
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First me and my EX was going together for 2 1/2 years. we broke up because i couldnt take who was protraying to be. BUT i promised him i will always be there for him. Then he has this new girl ma and my ex stll (mess around) but he pissed me off about 3 weeks ago and i said i want nothing to do with him but 2 days ago i got a letter from him from JAIL. saying that he needs me to get through this. SHOULD I BE THERE FOR HIM, OR should i tell him to call his gurl
thanks guys, now i need your help. (link)
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i think he really needs you to be there for him right about now. ignore the fact that you love him and he has a new gurl in his life. if he sent a letter to aYOU that means he needs YOU right now. get bacxk to me on what happens! hope i helped!!
Jesser
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ok....so me and my ex just started "dateing" not going out..dateing..I dont really like this idea cause it means we could make out and he can makeout with another girl and I just have to deal..we say we love eachother..but if tats true why wont he ask me out??
help!!!!!
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i dont think that is fair that he can make out with you then make out with another girl a second later. you really need to stop this or you guys need to go out because it isnt fair to you at all.
hope i helped!
Jesser
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Well, you see, I'm really scared about IT. You know, the category. I mean, I don't know why? (link)
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it is normal to be scared. and you wont know why. i mean ill admit im kida scared too. so dont feel wird about being scared about it. hope i helped!
Jesser
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Fourteen Female: I've like this guy for about six months and we've gotten pretty close but no one knows I like him(Greg). I am really good friends with Greg's best friend Mike. Mike told me that he thinks Greg likes me alot but is too afraid to admit it. He said Greg probably sees me as under his standerds because Greg is really popular. Me and Greg have been really good friends for a really long time and I don't want to ruin our realtionship but I would like to confront Greg on this some how. Does anyone know a good way to talk to him about this without telling him I like him? (link)
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if it is true that greg see's you as under his standards than that is wrong. it doesnt matter that he is really popular. you should talk to him just him and you. and just come out and ask him...do you like me..and if he does it is your choice to tell him that you like him or not. hope i helped!!!
Jesser
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My dad is watching porn right now. He does every night because we have lots of channels and at night theres porn. I know for SURE because Ive walked in on him before. And I can see from here. He thinks hes hiding it but hes not. Should I tell my mom my dad watches porn?! what do i do. Ive never told anyone, because its awkward and i dont want my friends to not want to come over my house because they feel weird around my dad. hes a really nice dad/man! I WONT confront him about it, so if you say do that Ill give you a 1..sorry. (link)
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ok no you shouldnt confront your dad. maybe you should talk to your mom about it. i mean if it bothers you you cant just keep quiet about it. maybe you mom can get him to stop. if he wont stop maybe something is really wrong. hope i helped
Jesser
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I have been using a sunless tanner on my skin, but now I want to lay out and/or go to a tanning booth. Can I do this even with my skin already tan from the bottle stuff? What will happen? Will I still get a natural tan? I'll rate.. thanks (link)
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i think you should wait until the sunless tanner wears off and as soon as you are sure it has worn off, then you should go tanning. you dont want to take a chance of your real tan looking fake with the sunless tanner under it. hope i helped!
Jesser
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My mum is the type who loves to have control over everything, she makes all my choices for me. "i know what's good for you" I don't have any say in anything anymore, i'm ending up not seeing my friends on the holidays. I can't make any academic decisions like what classes to choose. She doesn't trust me at all with anything important. I tried talking to her about it, but she doesn't listen. I'm going to fail some subjects she chose. because i can't do them. And i'm in year 10. She treats me exactly the same as my 9 year old sister. I just want some control of my life. She pushes me in everything, if i get 97% in an exam and the top score, it's not good enough. (link)
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that really isnt fair on how controlling you mom is. you really need to set aside some time where you two can sit down and have a nice long talk. point out the things that she is doing to you that is completely unfair. talk to her about your classes. that isnt fair on how you have to take classes that you know you will fail. also talk to her about seeing uor friends on holidays. the point of holidays is so you can have fun on a break and just hang out with your friends. i hope i helped!!
Jesser
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Im 15 Years old, and for the past month or something i have been feeling really "out of it" for some reason. I mean there have been some stressful things going on like a couple of my friends have recently started cutting. I'm helping them out. but I'v just felt like I'm floating along, It's weird. I keep changing my mind on alot of things and I get really complicated thoughts about everything like how it will affect everything, even simple things. I get really confused easily. My bf and I had an argument and afterwards I asked him if he thought anything was wrong with me, He said he thought there was, but i dont know what is. Im really confused and i don't like feeling out of it. :( (link)
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please DO NOT turn to cutting as your answer to your problems. sometimes i feel out of it too. alot of it may be stress. you should talk to your parents or a counselor or a therapist if your feeling out of it all the time. hope i helped!
Jesser
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I have this girl i met in darwin when i went for a holiday there and she likes me and i like her. But she dont wanna do long distance...
What do i do? (link)
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maybe you guys shouldnt be together since you guys live far apart. but you guys can stay good friends. write her letters, get her screen name or her number. maybe over the summer you guys can visit each other. just because you guys live far apart doesnt mean u cant stay good friends. hope i helped!
Jesser
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I know another boyfriend story sorry.My boyfriend is in new mexico we have been going out for 4 months now and he pays for minutes and I know long distance but does it hurt to call me.He told me he would call once a weak. and he never does he did not even call on my birthday i had to wait all day [that crushed me] then i called him and all he said was i'm sorry and i have to go i'll call you back later that was on the 25 of june. I mean he did not even say happy birthday. everyone says he treats me pretty badly all the time with the things he says and stuff he does or does not do. people say i should break up with him. When i get mad at him as soon as i hear his voice i'm notmad anymore. my friends say that that is an abusive relashionship.verbal wise what do you think and should i break up with thanx sorry it's so long. (link)
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even if he does call you back while he is gone, you guys need to get together and talk about his actions. ask him,"why didnt you call me while you were gone?" try not to get into an argument with him. maybe your friends are right, but you just dont notice it. if things dont get anybetter, than yes you should break up with him. hope i helped and let me know how everything goes.
Jess
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About a week ago, me and one of my best friends went to the beach which is about 4 hours from our city. We were in the water and we saw this guy surfing and he did good so we just complimented him and that was it. Or so we though. we didnt figure we'd see him any more. So we went in about 20 min later back in our hotel (which was on the shore) and went in the pool. and turns out that boy...lets call him Ian, stays at our hotel, is our age, is extremly gorgeous, and has ALOT! in common with me. Well aparently he was visiting with his dad and his dad took him to the beach as a surprise. And his dad lives only like 45-60 min away from where we live.The last day he was at the hotel, he wanted to meet up in the mornign for breakfast to say bye, but my cell phone got shut off the night before, so we couldnt call him to figure out what time to be there, so i figure he thought we ditched him.any way. He told me he was leaving for his moms like early early early july.(she lives like 4 states away). I want to call him off my moms fone, or ask him if he wants to hang before he leaves, because i realllllly like him. and he wont be back at his dads for like 8 months. But if i called him off my moms fone, i dont want him to think somthing like "wow she must really like me if she went through the trouble of finding some one elses fone to call, shes a but pushy, i dont like her like that." But i want to see him before he leaves, because if he goes then i'll miss my chance. and i might never see him. SO how do i ask him to hang with out being real obvious or too pushy? i really wanna see him. What could we do, thats not really flirty?
Also, i looked at his myspace and hes friends with all of these really pretty girls that are like models with alot of make up and perfect hair/face/bodies. and hes not dating them. SO it makes me wonder, if he dont even wanna date these models, what would he ever see in me?( im just average)
IDK, help please. I wanna stop him and see him before he leaves! or im going to regret this for ever!
SOrry its long. if this confuses you any let me know, and ill clear it up so you can understand better. (link)
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you really wont come off to him as pushy. just explain to him the situation you were in with your cell phone. and ask him calmly if you guys could hang out before he leaves. go to the movies or hang out at one of your own houses. if he says no, its his big loss! well good luck with *Ian*
and let me know hoe everything goes.
Jess
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I'm really pale. I mean, my body refuses to tan easily. I mean, I've layed out in the sun for about an hour and I have some tan lines but not really noticable. How can I tan better? I don't want to be the pale girl anymore! Oh and whenever I'm outside, I seem to get a lot of freckles...how can I stop that? Thanks~ (link)
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i have the same exact problem...you cant help getting freckles. the more you are in the sun, the more freckles you will get. try and use self tanners. or get tanning oil. and no matter how long i try and tan in the sun for, i dont get any tanner, i end up looking like a lobster. so try a self tanner. hope i helped!
Jess
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