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Question Posted Sunday July 2 2006, 7:19 am

My mum is the type who loves to have control over everything, she makes all my choices for me. "i know what's good for you" I don't have any say in anything anymore, i'm ending up not seeing my friends on the holidays. I can't make any academic decisions like what classes to choose. She doesn't trust me at all with anything important. I tried talking to her about it, but she doesn't listen. I'm going to fail some subjects she chose. because i can't do them. And i'm in year 10. She treats me exactly the same as my 9 year old sister. I just want some control of my life. She pushes me in everything, if i get 97% in an exam and the top score, it's not good enough.

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countrygurl123 answered Sunday July 2 2006, 3:23 pm:
I know exactly how you feel my mom is the same way when I want to get a haircut I have to have the haircut she chooses even if iam paying for it which is really unfair just becouse i have a learning disability my mom went and got me a disability check so I couldn't get a job in the future which is unfair by the way my mom says she won't let me get my driving licens becouse of my learning disability wich I think is unfair,I think the only thing you could do in this situation is try to talk to her again I know I havn't been much help iam so sorry I wish I could have helped you more.

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Jesserbaby answered Sunday July 2 2006, 12:58 pm:
that really isnt fair on how controlling you mom is. you really need to set aside some time where you two can sit down and have a nice long talk. point out the things that she is doing to you that is completely unfair. talk to her about your classes. that isnt fair on how you have to take classes that you know you will fail. also talk to her about seeing uor friends on holidays. the point of holidays is so you can have fun on a break and just hang out with your friends. i hope i helped!!

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