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Hey, I'm a 15 year old girl in Austraila. My mum Really doesn't like my bf. She thinks our relationship is "too serious". And my bf doesn't like my mum because she doesn't like him. She's stopped letting me see him except at school. How can i get my mum to let me see him. He's really nice. And how do i get them to like each other?
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Hi, one really good way is to sort this out with your mum and arrange the 3 of you to have dinner one day. That would give your mum and your boyfriend time to get to know eachother. If your mother really doesn't like him then the question is why? I think she might want you to mix with people she thinks are suitable but isn't seeing how the relationship is actually working out. She should let you get on with life and let you make more choices and decisions for yourself. Your 15 going on 16 and are growing up and meeting people. This is a great way to get to know boys and girls and form relationships and friendships too. Your mother is probaly just concerned or a bit worried that he might make you feel unhappy or break your heart perhaps. This is something for you and your mother to discuss, and really she should just let you get on with things. Explore the world of socializing and interaction for yourself. She probaly just wants you to be happy and safe. Daniel.
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im from australia too haha =) well anyways, you can't make them like each other, but if you really like him & trust him, she should give him a chance. maybe explain to her why he's a good guy & let them spend some time together. you guys should all go out to dinner er something. maybe she juss doesn't know him well enough to like him. yes you do need to respect her, but you can choose who you want relationships with er not. i think it's your opinion if you think the relationship is too serious er not, even though she's your mom. soo basically, have her spend time with him. you should all go to eat er plan a day of activities. if she doesn't want to do that, then she isn't giving him a fair chance like you are. see how that goes & she'll probably decide how she feels about it from there.
-hope that helped!♥
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