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i always hear guys LOVE confidence in a girl..
well everyone always says guys love when girls have confidence and they get turned off by selfconcious girls..well im really selfconcious and i have confidence about my personality but not looks-wise and sometimes i accidentally complain about my looks to my boyfriend..or he ll catch me looking at my reflection in any kind of object that shows it..im afraid he might break up with me because guys want girls to have confidence and i think it bothers him alot! how do i stop being so selfconcious and show him that my confidence is growing?(if it does)
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Of course guys love confidence in girls.. and the other way around. Guys hate listening to girls saying "Oh my gosh, I'm so fat! & My hair is soo ugly.. my teeth, my nose." Blah, blah, blah. It's annoying and not attractive. Your boyfriend is with you because he likes you. He doesn't care about how you look. He likes you for who you are and you need to do the same. Love how you are. Enjoy life. Stop worrying about your looks and such. I know you a bit self concious, but learn to love your body and everything about you. He will defenetlly notice that and it's having confidence. Don't care about what other people think. You don't need moron's and their lame opinions. If you're happy with who you are, that's confidence and I'm sure you will learn how to accept yourself.
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You have a boyfriend. He's with you for a reason, he likes you. Don't worry what you look like .Just go on with your normal rutine. Just know that if you show that you don't care about your looks..no one else will. Good luck :)
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Hi, maybe less time in the the mirror and more having fun, and showing how much you love each other. If he can't accept that you are a nice girl who show's him alot of affection and makes him happy and be a true friend to him, then that is his problem. Confidence is quite a big thing, but as long as you have things like honesty, respect, love and a fun relationship then that's all that really matters. Just be yourself and don't worry about it. Girls that worry alot or always looking in the mirror to see if there hair is neat or looking beautiful can actually sometimes frighten boy's off. Just be yourself. Daniel.
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well, to show your boyfriend that you aren't all that self concious, just try to stop looking at your reflection all of the time and keep telling yourself that you look great no matter what kind of day it is...
I'm sure that as soon as he realizes your not all that self concious, he won't feel so bothered anymore!
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If you're confident with your personality, then that's a really good thing! Guys don't want to hear when girls talk about themselves and say how much they think they're pretty, the guy wants to say that to them haha. You have a boyfriend, and I bet he loves you for who you are and wouldn't want you to change anything (if he did want you to change yourself, he's not good enough for you). Looks aren't everything in relationships, for ex. have you seen the show 'Next' on Mtv? When the guy doesn't instantly say "next" to the girl when she walks out of the bus, but then goes and gets to know her and realizes they just don't have enough in common, then he'll say next and want to move on to a girl who shares things with his personality. Good luck, and feel beautiful the way God made you!
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It does bother him because he loves you for who you are, not what you look like. Start wearing make up, get your nails done, get new clothes, ect. Once you start doing things that make you feel prettier or hotter you`ll seem more confident and it should work. Don`t change yourself too much because then he will no your only doing this for him and not yourself. ♥
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