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I know another boyfriend story sorry.My boyfriend is in new mexico we have been going out for 4 months now and he pays for minutes and I know long distance but does it hurt to call me.He told me he would call once a weak. and he never does he did not even call on my birthday i had to wait all day [that crushed me] then i called him and all he said was i'm sorry and i have to go i'll call you back later that was on the 25 of june. I mean he did not even say happy birthday. everyone says he treats me pretty badly all the time with the things he says and stuff he does or does not do. people say i should break up with him. When i get mad at him as soon as i hear his voice i'm notmad anymore. my friends say that that is an abusive relashionship.verbal wise what do you think and should i break up with thanx sorry it's so long.
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In my opinion, you should dump him. he's treating you like a fool. it can be hard to call sometimes but if he loved you or cared at all he would make the effort, more than once a week!
he didnt even call you on your birthday.
dont let him treat you like this, his heart is obviously not in the relationship so get out of it x
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i dont really think that your in a verbally abusive relationship, its not like he called you stupid or anything like that. but he has no reason not to call you for that long especially on your birthday!! if he said he would call once a week bring that up the next time he DOES call, talk to him about what he is doing and if he keeps doing it break up with him, because its not fair to you. i dont know how he treats you other than this but if you think he treats you bad then end it, only you know whats good for you so dont let anyone decide what your going to do for you. But i hope i helped and happy late birthday!!
<3 Jess
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My boyfriend forgetts to call too but even if he does forget, he makes up the calls later. You need to tell your boyfriend that if he isn't going to bother to call he shouldn't bother being your boyfriend anymore. He is being a jerk and unless theres a good explanation for him not calling since june 25th, dump him. You deserve better. - Meg
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Listen to your friends! They seem to see this relationship pretty clearly. He is taking advantage of your feelings for him. He obviously doesn't care what you think, yet he won't allow you to express how upset you are with him. Just leave the guy and find someone closer by who will treat you like a lady, as it should be.
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even if he does call you back while he is gone, you guys need to get together and talk about his actions. ask him,"why didnt you call me while you were gone?" try not to get into an argument with him. maybe your friends are right, but you just dont notice it. if things dont get anybetter, than yes you should break up with him. hope i helped and let me know how everything goes.
Jess
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