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ok....so me and my ex just started "dateing" not going out..dateing..I dont really like this idea cause it means we could make out and he can makeout with another girl and I just have to deal..we say we love eachother..but if tats true why wont he ask me out??
help!!!!!
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Hi, it some how doesn't sound very much like love really. Specially if he is making out with another girl. There could be loads of reasons why he isn't asking you, here are some possible reasons:
a) He is just too nervous and shy
b) He is having second thoughts
c) He feels he loves this other girl more
d) He just doesn't feel comfortable with going out with you yet.
Boy's tend to feel really nervous about asking girls out. It is a fact really. Really unless you ask him out, you are likely to be waiting a while. Other wise just wait until he might ask you out. It may be a while though. Daniel.
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Wow..not a good idea.I`m going to be honest with you if he really did love you he wouldn`t go making out with other girls,he would ask you out.You need to talk to him and tell him you want to go out and not just "date" or what ever he is calling it.Because you aren`t a toy & shoudln`t be treated like that.♥
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i dont think that is fair that he can make out with you then make out with another girl a second later. you really need to stop this or you guys need to go out because it isnt fair to you at all.
hope i helped!
Jesser
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Me & a boy went through something similar to this a while back, i was the one however that wouldnt go out w/ him if he asked. I didnt want the commitment. That might be the same with this boy, some people are just scared of commiting completely to the person, they feel that they cant talk to other girls and that they have to be really serious w/ you, and do things for you & treat you better. Its just stressful for them, and this way you guys can have the same relationship just without the entire boyfriend girlfriend deal. If i was you tho, i would definitely put boundaries. Say what you can and cant do w/ other people. This way its not just he does crap with you, and then with another girl. And you'll understand if it does happen.
Hopefully that helps :]
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