|
help
my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old and my mom and I have never really been close,but it seems like we are drifting even further apart than we use to be like yesterday we were fighting about how to cut my hair even though I was paying for it my mom told me I had to get it trimmed becouse I couldn't handle styling it,but I was paying for it so I should have been able to get it like how I wanted so I got it trimmed just becouse she wanted me to to keep from starting an argument.Then like when I broke up with my boyfriend jesse she asked me how could I break that poor boys heart like she was taking his side of the situation.The other day it got so bad that I ranaway to my aunt's house and now my mom dosn't truest me anymore what should I do?
please help me!
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Families?
Let your mom know that she needs to trust you and your only doing what right for you. You should talk with your mom, tell her that she has to trust and beleive that your going to do the right thing and that every decision that you make has been given a lot of thought. good luck! let me know how it goes! :)
]
Hey
join the club im in the same situation were always screaming at eachother she never lets me go out adn she awlays swears me but i just tell her mum are so ahrsh you hardley know your own children then she just stops im not sure if it weill help you but it does help me =]=]
take care mwahz hope it goes well mwahz
]
Me & my mom never had a good relationship, and i always wish we would of. So you should def. try and be close to her now.
If she doesnt trust you, you have to get that back. By doing exactly what you say you will, and being responsible, helping out around the house shows that. She'll know that your trying to help out, and trying to show her that you can be responsible and she'll like that.
Also just to be closer to her, just do things w/ you and her. Try going out to like a breakfast place in the morning and talking and really tell her things going on in her life, most moms like to be close to their kids.
That or just sit down and watch a movie w/ her and you two can chow down on popcorn or such food. Just do things w/ her, one on one. You'll become closer to her. If you have one on one things you do w/ her like 3 or 4 times throughout the month. And tell her important things in your life. You'll quickly become closer, if you talk about things. My friend Tiffany and her mom have the BEST RELATIONSHIP and even in 8th grade Tiffany's mom knew the firs time she had drank, and done things w/ guys. i'm not saying you have to be that close, but its something you'll def. always want. :] hopefully that helps!
]
More Questions: |