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okay me and my almost boyfriend have been talking either on the phone or through aim for atleast 2 hours a day! we talk about EVERYTHING. its weird how open we can be to eachother.. well anyhoo we have talked and talked and talked until theres nothing to talk about anymore!! for the past couple of days we've just said "so what do you wanna talk about?" and "i dont know what do you wanna talk about?" we have nothing to talk about we have past relationships music sex movies.. we've talked about everything.. i need some interesting topics that arent so ordinary because i dont know what to talk about with him anymore!! and i dont want him to lose interest. help?
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i don't have a boyfriend, but i do have a guy friend that i talk to everyday. one time we even chatted on AIM for 8 hrs straight! well, anyways, usually, we start our conversation w/ sup? or how was your day? or watcha doing? you know, the classics. but even though its the classics, it a good conversation starter. after that, it's really up to you to comment on something he says and go from there. don't try to much to think about what you're gonna say. just relax and talk to him as you would a normal person. saying random things here and there might also help, expecially to break awkward silence!
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Hang out with him and talk about all the stuff you guys do. Go on a date, do something exciting, try something different, make some memories. It's not necessary to talk on the phone either; don't feel that you HAVE to talk to him every night. If you don't have anything to talk about and he doesn't have anything to talk about then there's really no reason to call. You guys would still have feelings for eachother right? That's all that really matters.
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if you're stuck it's always fun commin up with a fake storry...and tell it for a real long time.....and i mean a long time. it can b bout anythin but make it unbelievable...and wen he gets all into it and you finally have to go, tell him you wer kidin bout the whole thing and just start laughin. and wen he asks why(that is if he asks) tell him you wer just tryin to make conversation than laugh again. and he'll get it from now and then that he atleast has to try to make convo.
good luck
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Here is my advice....
I think that you guys should talk about your future. Talk about what you guys think about going out with each other
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